Random self-representation

[me oscar]

lovely portraits of you..thank you

 

[tolstoy 666]

Honest. Are you left wanting to explore more? Do you ever feel satisfied?

 

[DeservingBitch]

reminds me of that animated gif where you had a singing and dancing dick

I have no idea of what such thing is.

 

[FrenchMustard]

I have no idea of what such thing is.

If you didn't get it in your inbox while it was making the rounds, you probably don't want to know--it was funny but disturbing

 

[DeservingBitch]

Honest. Are you left wanting to explore more? Do you ever feel satisfied?

Those are two different questions my friend.

Responding to the first one, no of course I don't always feel that confident and in control. But I don't post when I'm drunk.

As for this second question: Yes, I of course I'm always opened to and even looking for more or something else. But that doesn't mean I'm not satisfied. Currently, there are some great moments of satisfaction in my life. But in spite of those moments, there is still something lacking.

 

[tolstoy 666]

Do you have a favorite philosopher?

 

[DeservingBitch]

Do you have a favorite philosopher?

I don't do favorites. It's unfair for the other ones.

 

[tolstoy 666]

Forgive me. Who has influenced your thought?

I don't do favorites. It's unfair for the other ones.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Forgive me. Who has influenced your thought?

oh my - the serious intellectual talk. ok.

In no specific order, and among many others (but the most recent discussed about):

Zygmunt Bauman
Anne McClintock
Ann Stoler
Foucault
Andrea Smith
Himani Bannerji
Gayatri Chakravorty Spivak
Judith Butler
Fanon
bell hooks
Kamala Visweswaran
Ania Loomba
Linda Tuhiwai Smith
Audrey Lorde
George Orwell
Marx
Sojourner Truth
William Spanos
Ki Namaste
Chandra Talpade Mohanty

 

[me oscar]

sojourner truth...is amazing..powerful, strong person

 

[LostandWaiting]

Do you want the honest or the fantasy-folder answer?

Appear strong when you are weak...appear weak when you are strong.

I was reading this thread and got a chuckle out of it. I will agree with you on some points, a woman's body is far more attractive then a man's. Smooth skin, all sorts of curves, mystery in some areas, it's all great visually.

As for your opinion of yourself, I personally think it's great to see anyone, male or female, who is self confident and comfortable in their own skin. I suppose the only thing I will say about that is there is away to show confidence without being abbrasive or ego-centric.

True beauty though is not only how one looks but how one carries themselves and with that in mind you are less attractive then you could be.

All in all though you are a pretty girl and I've enjoyed reading your thread.

 

[DeservingBitch]

As for your opinion of yourself, I personally think it's great to see anyone, male or female, who is self confident and comfortable in their own skin. I suppose the only thing I will say about that is there is away to show confidence without being abbrasive or ego-centric.

True beauty though is not only how one looks but how one carries themselves and with that in mind you are less attractive then you could be.

Yes I know, I'm a bitch.

It seems to help filtering non-desired attention. So you think I'm not nice enough and too ego-centric (I love the irony of making this comment on my ego-centricity on a board that exists through the narcissism of those who post) and don't find me attractive because of that? Good -- we wouldn't be a good match. I like people around me to not demand of me to be nice and caring and soft and giving and gentle and maternal just because I have a pussy. And I also like people around me to understand that my entire existence doesn't revolve around being found attractive, and that sometimes, I say or do things for other reason than being seen as attractive.

Oh yes - I also prefer to surround myself with people who understand that it takes more to make a judgement on someone's personality than reading a random pic thread they've posted somewhere on the web.

So yes, good thing I'm a bitch and that you don't find it attractive. It saves us both time and trouble.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I will agree with you on some points, a woman's body is far more attractive then a man's.

Oh and to be clear, I never wrote that I find women's bodies inherently more attractive then men's bodies. I wrote that according to *my* own aesthetics and desires, I am more attracted to women's bodies than men's bodies.

 

[LostandWaiting]

Yes I know, I'm a bitch.

It seems to help filtering non-desired attention. So you think I'm not nice enough and too ego-centric (I love the irony of making this comment on my ego-centricity on a board that exists through the narcissism of those who post) and don't find me attractive because of that? Good -- we wouldn't be a good match. I like people around me to not demand of me to be nice and caring and soft and giving and gentle and maternal just because I have a pussy. And I also like people around me to understand that my entire existence doesn't revolve around being found attractive, and that sometimes, I say or do things for other reason than being seen as attractive.

Oh yes - I also prefer to surround myself with people who understand that it takes more to make a judgement on someone's personality than reading a random pic thread they've posted somewhere on the web.

So yes, good thing I'm a bitch and that you don't find it attractive. It saves us both time and trouble.

I never once called you any names Miss. It seems as though you get your back up against the wall fairly quickly.

I also never said you were unattractive either. I actually said you were a very pretty girl but you could be more attractive if you carried yourself better. The only thing I'm saying is personality goes along way.

I'm also not comparing you to anyone on these boards either. Most people come on here and the only thing they can say is "you are hot, show me your Pussy, ass, tits" or something to that effect. Those tend to be people I avoid because those tend to be men that throw all men into that stereo type. I personally try to stay away from all of that.

I've just noticed many people who post on here are shy or self conscious and need a boost or opinion on how they look. There are less and less people who post on here saying "see, see, look at me and how hot I am." It's more "please be kind" or "I hope you like" things of that nature. So I personally don't see the irony of my statement when the general census of this place just want to know someone likes the way they look out there and that helps them along to be more comfortable with themselves.

You say you don't want people to be demanding of you but with you being more dominant, aren't you demanding of others? I do know though that everyone just wants to find people who will accept them out there, not someone who has to constantly prove themselves or justify their actions. They want to be around people who support them and care for them. You aren't alone in that sentiment.

I would certainly hope your life wouldn't revolve around being found attractive, it would be a pretty hallow existance if it did. Besides, looks fade over time so if you base your life off of being accepted for that reason, in the end you would have nothing.

No, I'm not so naive to assume to know everything about you because of this random pic thread, no person is one thing, I hope not anyway. But you must realize what you put out there is a representation of you, your personality.

then again, what do I know, I'm just lost and waiting...for what I don't know.

 

[LostandWaiting]

Oh and to be clear, I never wrote that I find women's bodies inherently more attractive then men's bodies. I wrote that according to *my* own aesthetics and desires, I am more attracted to women's bodies than men's bodies.

what you did say is something along the lines of you find a pussy more attractive then a cock.

You don't have to take issue with this though, I'm agreeing with you.

but I know all of this is opinion and not fact, I'm just agreeing with you, I personally think a woman's body is much more erotic then a man's. There is more subtlety in a woman's body and I find that appealing.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I never once called you any names Miss. It seems as though you get your back up against the wall fairly quickly.

I also never said you were unattractive either. I actually said you were a very pretty girl but you could be more attractive if you carried yourself better. The only thing I'm saying is personality goes along way.

No you haven't directly called me a bitch. I just translated what you said. The typical short-cut to tell a woman that she's 'too abrasive and ego-centric' is to call her a bitch. Because since I have a pussy, I should be nice and caring, rather than 'abrasive and ego-centric'.

That being said, why do you assume I want to be 'more attractive'? I'm quite satisfied with my current degree of hotness - both physically and personality wise.

You say you don't want people to be demanding of you but with you being more dominant, aren't you demanding of others?

Well, I wouldn't called myself a Dominant. A Top would be more appropriate. But those distinctions aside, the beauty of being a Domme/Top is that *I* actually get to make demands and expect them to be fullfiled by my sub/bottom, but that the same is not nor should be expected of me.

 

[wyo]

Hummm

very articulate..

 

[Hocky9377]

... uncovered. well, almost:

I love that.
See-through top on a sexy woman.
Doesnt get any better.

 

[DeservingBitch]

very articulate..

Thank you. I try.

 

[dfjgank]

verrrrrrrrrry hott, if i came home to sum1 like that i wouldnt ever wanna leave!!! - keep up the good work and great pics!

 

[LostandWaiting]

No you haven't directly called me a bitch. I just translated what you said. The typical short-cut to tell a woman that she's 'too abrasive and ego-centric' is to call her a bitch. Because since I have a pussy, I should be nice and caring, rather than 'abrasive and ego-centric'.

That being said, why do you assume I want to be 'more attractive'? I'm quite satisfied with my current degree of hotness - both physically and personality wise.


Well, I wouldn't called myself a Dominant. A Top would be more appropriate. But those distinctions aside, the beauty of being a Domme/Top is that *I* actually get to make demands and expect them to be fullfiled by my sub/bottom, but that the same is not nor should be expected of me.

Well it wasn't a short cut at all to calling you anything. Some people are shy, others are outgoing, people are just different. Being abrasive or having an edge is just a personality type. You are just trying to turn this into a feminist issue by saying because you are a woman you should be the cookie cutter sweet and caring mother type. I don't think that, you are free to be who you are, I'm just of the opinion anyone who is combative or has an in your face personality is just a little off putting woman or man.

I never assumed you wanted to be more attractive, I just think you can catch more bees with honey then vinegar. Perhaps you'll lump me into this category and that's fine if you do but you don't have to respond to every guy who calls you a name, you could just relax and let it slide.

it could be that or perhaps I'm just not a fan of anyone who has an agenda and turns everything into an issue.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I never assumed you wanted to be more attractive, I just think you can catch more bees with honey then vinegar.

OK then, why do you think I want to catch bees, or more bees for that matter? Again, did it ever occur to you that not everything I say or do is meant to please other people or get me everyone's affection?

Perhaps you'll lump me into this category and that's fine if you do but you don't have to respond to every guy who calls you a name, you could just relax and let it slide.

Dewd, you're funny. You come to my thread to give me a half-ass compliment and suggest I improve my personality -- and mind you, this unrequested insight of yours on my personality is based on your reading of what is really just an insignificant exchange between me and some strangers online revolving mostly around some nakid pics I've posted -- and when I respond to you (remember, we're in my thread), you tell me that maybe I should just chill a little and and that I don't have to respond to every guy who calls me a name! Well, thanks for the advice there body.

But here's a thought: maybe you wouldn't have needed to give me this brilliant advice if you didn't start by coming in my thread to tell me how to better behave myself.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I love that.
See-through top on a sexy woman.
Doesnt get any better.

Thank you. See-through tops ARE nice.

 

[DeservingBitch]

verrrrrrrrrry hott, if i came home to sum1 like that i wouldnt ever wanna leave!!! - keep up the good work and great pics!

Fuck - that puts a lot of pressure on me. What if *I* want you to leave?

 

[DeservingBitch]

Playing with photoshop: