Random Question about TG fantasies

[TGirlNerd]

Hi all! So hey, since posting my first story here a while back I've hung out a little on the chatrooms and lurked on the forums a little, plus been reading some of the other stories with TG characters on literotica; and I've got a question!

So I noticed that one major theme I'm seeing again and again is cis-men with a fantasy of being penetrated by a trans woman ... and I'm wondering 'why?'

I'm not one to judge, but I know at least for me penetrating someone runs the risk of some pretty massive dysphoria backlash and I've heard the same from other trans women before ... i guess I'm just wondering, what's so special about being penetrated by a trans woman as opposed to a cis man or a cis woman with a strap on? Why does anal penetration seem to be what's featured in so many stories with trans women characters? There's lots of ways to have sex, why that one in particular?

Anyway, can someone with this fetish please explain to me how come it's so common and what's so hot about it (in your opinion)? Thanks guys!

 

[bluesky496]

Hi all! So hey, since posting my first story here a while back I've hung out a little on the chatrooms and lurked on the forums a little, plus been reading some of the other stories with TG characters on literotica; and I've got a question!

So I noticed that one major theme I'm seeing again and again is cis-men with a fantasy of being penetrated by a trans woman ... and I'm wondering 'why?'

I'm not one to judge, but I know at least for me penetrating someone runs the risk of some pretty massive dysphoria backlash and I've heard the same from other trans women before ... i guess I'm just wondering, what's so special about being penetrated by a trans woman as opposed to a cis man or a cis woman with a strap on? Why does anal penetration seem to be what's featured in so many stories with trans women characters? There's lots of ways to have sex, why that one in particular?

Anyway, can someone with this fetish please explain to me how come it's so common and what's so hot about it (in your opinion)? Thanks guys!

i think it is about the act of submission ,being dominated by someone and partly the humiliation especially if the person is better equipped than you ,for me ,i just like being penetrated anyway .

 

[Stella_Omega]

i think it is about the act of submission ,being dominated by someone and partly the humiliation especially if the person is better equipped than you ,for me ,i just like being penetrated anyway .

It shows so much disregard for the realities of other people. "I want to be penetrated, I am homophobic, I want a shemale, so a shemale will want to perform this service for me. I love My dick, and of course any woman who has a dick will glory in having one just like I do!"

Whee!

 

[bicurious19]

The tender touch of a woman combined with a hard ass pounding. The contradiction, how it's considered taboo, myself knowing its wrong, yet find yourself pushing back to take it deeper and deeper cos it feels soo good

 

[nick4671]

For me it is the fantasy of letting go of control. Sure I love having my ass pounded but it is the idea of not being in control of it. I have to be the macho man all day and there is something so taboo about it, and as the previous post mentioned just the touch and beauty of a woman and the feel of a dick. I could go on but I should stop before I get too flustered.

 

[Stella_Omega]

For me it is the fantasy of letting go of control. Sure I love having my ass pounded but it is the idea of not being in control of it. I have to be the macho man all day and there is something so taboo about it, and as the previous post mentioned just the touch and beauty of a woman and the feel of a dick. I could go on but I should stop before I get too flustered.

But if you are getting pounded *by a dick* then you are getting pounded *by a man.*

And you know what? That's fine. Touch and beauty are wonderful things. Gender is a lot of fun to play with. But understand the nuances in gender. Stop pretending you're straight. Stop pretending you've found a *better model of women.*

I am just so sick and tired of men telling themselves and each other that everything with boobs is a woman.

 

[nick4671]

But if you are getting pounded *by a dick* then you are getting pounded *by a man.*

And you know what? That's fine. Touch and beauty are wonderful things. Gender is a lot of fun to play with. But understand the nuances in gender. Stop pretending you're straight. Stop pretending you've found a *better model of women.*

I am just so sick and tired of men telling themselves and each other that everything with boobs is a woman.

Ok so. I don't pretend to be straight. I never said "better model of woman" I am fully aware of the difference. I don't know where the hate is coming from. I was honestly trying to express some deeper emotional level rather than saying something as cheap as "I have been with a man and with a woman I would like to try to mix the two and see what happens."

/rant

 

[nick4671]

Also if I have inadvertently offended someone I am sorry it was not my intent and I would much rather be informed of my misguided words.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Also if I have inadvertently offended someone I am sorry it was not my intent and I would much rather be informed of my misguided words.

^^ Doubts that VERY much! ^^

If that was the case you wouldn't have pitched a prissy 'lil hissy fit, complete with an "/rant", now would'ja?

 

[nick4671]

^^ Doubts that VERY much! ^^

If that was the case you wouldn't have pitched a prissy 'lil hissy fit, complete with an "/rant", now would'ja?

No, I really do. Let me rephrase. Same idea, more succinct. If I have offended anyone by what I have said please let me know in a way that doesn't turn the forums into a war. A private message would suffice. I am not trying to get on anyone's bad side here its the only place I feel like I can really be myself (given it is more of my sexual desires than any other facet of my personality). That being said, I am only human and apologize for ranting. I got flustered when I felt like I was being attacked for something that I assumed was taken wrong.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I'm not getting involved here ^^^ but what makes me laugh, somewhat wryly, is that the OP's original post uses the word fantasy correctly because the truth is you're more likely to get shagged by a unicorn as you are by a trans woman. The OP should have said 'shemale' because in my book, a shemale is slang for a pretty looking guy taking just enough estrogen to lose muscle bulk, maybe grow some tits but then have implants to pad things out.

I wonder how many out of luck GAY prostitutes do that just so that they can catch part of the "I'm not gay I swear! I just like chicks with dicks" freak crowd?

 

[Safe_Bet]

...and I'm guessing unicorn sex would have to post in Fetish... decisions, decisions

That would depend if the were "pitch'in" or if they were "catch'in"...

 

[Stella_Omega]

too many 't's

Ok so. I don't pretend to be straight. I never said "better model of woman" I am fully aware of the difference. I don't know where the hate is coming from. I was honestly trying to express some deeper emotional level rather than saying something as cheap as "I have been with a man and with a woman I would like to try to mix the two and see what happens."

/rant

That's a much more valid thing to say, actually. That-- I like that.

It's not hate, it's frustration and resentment. Women hear so much of this from men-- and trans women hear so much of this stuff from men.
And it all comes to the same answer; "My perception of you makes my dick hard, so don't harsh my mellow."

Cis women are what they are. We are born without a dick. Trans women are what they are. They were born with a birth defect, that causes pain and confusion for them-- it makes them look like they have a dick. Men who expect a trans woman to pound them are looking at porn instead of at people.

 

[nick4671]

That's a much more valid thing to say, actually. That-- I like that.

It's not hate, it's frustration and resentment. Women hear so much of this from men-- and trans women hear so much of this stuff from men.
And it all comes to the same answer; "My perception of you makes my dick hard, so don't harsh my mellow."

Cis women are what they are. We are born without a dick. Trans women are what they are. They were born with a birth defect, that causes pain and confusion for them-- it makes them look like they have a dick. Men who expect a trans woman to pound them are looking at porn instead of at people.

Well then it does appear that my vernacular for my fetishes is off. I do apologize for any confusion.

Getting back on topic. I support this thread.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

I'm going to try and answer the question. I will say most of these men are just simply tranny-chasers. They treat transsexuals like some of interactive sex toy. They aren't stuck in transition for some "straight" guys fantasy, even if there are some that choose to stay pre-op. Why are there stories, where they do the fucking? Well these are stories we're talking about, and I honestly don't know not one trans woman who would even want a man that submissive. Even though they do top if they can get it up. Ultimately, they want a real man. Ultimately, those types of story are super fantasy with what I can only see(as I've never really read any like that) as gender or role reversal.

The tender touch of a woman combined with a hard ass pounding. The contradiction, how it's considered taboo, myself knowing its wrong, yet find yourself pushing back to take it deeper and deeper cos it feels soo good

Sound like a tranny chaser. Oh and why consider yourself any type of bisexual if you think transsexuals are wrong, or anal sex is wrong? You "know" gay sex is wrong but you do it anyway, what the fuck am I reading here? How can you call yourself bicurious and you still perceive the sex is wrong. Are you being ironic or something?

For me it is the fantasy of letting go of control. Sure I love having my ass pounded but it is the idea of not being in control of it. I have to be the macho man all day and there is something so taboo about it, and as the previous post mentioned just the touch and beauty of a woman and the feel of a dick. I could go on but I should stop before I get too flustered.

Sounds like a tranny chaser. And don't mind anything S_B sez period. That Sheila is always angry at everybody who isn't a lesbian. Even some of them piss her off. Best just to iggy her on G/P. Wait, are you the same person? ...not being in control... I don't know about that, but lemme see; you are the tough guy all the time until something that appears like a woman, pulls out a dick and orders you...to...bend over...? She might be right about you- whatever she said. All I'm saying is these are people, not toys. Not some sexy freak of nature.