Ok, everyone - before I get my head bitten off, I know it's been done before.
A guy I work with has a married female friend. Bob just found out her hubby is cheating, with another woman Bob knows. Now, he wants to know if he should keep his yap shut. I say, yes. There are small kids, the wife may already know and be denying to herself that he's cheating, she probably knows something is wrong... He's likely to get popped in the nose, as people who cheat have (I assume) justified their behavior to themselves - why and how it's ok, they're not bad people, their wives don't love them/don't put out, blah blah blah... So, yeah, I told him I'd put a poll up and let him know the results.
He's saying, "Maybe I could spray paint a big Scarlet A on his car... or let him know I know, and he should knock it off... or send his wife a letter that says, if you want to know if your husband is cheating, reply to this letter.. if not, throw it out." I gave him a vehement NO to all of the above, particularly the last idea!
So, yee hah, vote early, vote often.
Thanks, all. Feel free to share any experience you've got with this kind of thing, too.
A guy I work with has a married female friend. Bob just found out her hubby is cheating, with another woman Bob knows. Now, he wants to know if he should keep his yap shut. I say, yes. There are small kids, the wife may already know and be denying to herself that he's cheating, she probably knows something is wrong... He's likely to get popped in the nose, as people who cheat have (I assume) justified their behavior to themselves - why and how it's ok, they're not bad people, their wives don't love them/don't put out, blah blah blah... So, yeah, I told him I'd put a poll up and let him know the results.
He's saying, "Maybe I could spray paint a big Scarlet A on his car... or let him know I know, and he should knock it off... or send his wife a letter that says, if you want to know if your husband is cheating, reply to this letter.. if not, throw it out." I gave him a vehement NO to all of the above, particularly the last idea!
So, yee hah, vote early, vote often.
Thanks, all. Feel free to share any experience you've got with this kind of thing, too.
If you can walk through being a dishonest person, oh well you know what they say.. If you shovel shit sooner or later you will eat shit, I just hope you like how it tastes. I feel better. I hope he goes down hard.
