I starte in real life without even knowing what it was. I found myself attracted to dominant guy who wanted me to do things for them and gave me tasks and stuff. I don't think either of us really knew what we were doing.
Then after we broke up I missed the feeling and started researching on the internet and talking to like minded people and found there was a name for what I liked! And I wasn't the only one and it made me feel much better and I was able to find more. Hmmm that's a lot of ands!
