KittyKristian91
Virgin
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- Dec 16, 2016
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Anal play/is it normal to feel upset with my Dom sometimes?
Hello everyone.
I'm a 25 yo female sub and in my first real sub-dom relationship. I have several concerns and questions coming from the last few months, so there's going to be several topics on this.
Most pressing matter is I experienced rectal pain after plugging and figging yesterday...not until several hours later though. Not burning, aching. Very uncomfortable. My Dom always uses lube and it was a plug I'm comfortable with, anyone know why that happened or ways it could be prevented?
I'd also love to hear experiences of subs on the emotional types of things. These sessions are more intense than anything I've done before (flogging caning humiliation forced orgasm, orgasm denial) and I'm a very emotional person and while it's been incredibly cathartic it's also been kind of difficult. My Dom is very attentive, checks in with me often, pays attention to body language and my safe words of course,
and realizes I'm sensitive and inexperienced and has been slowly easing me into things, but sometimes during a session I feel overwhelming emotion, feel angry at my Dom for decisions he makes, or want to disobey to get a hit, something he has told me not to do. I'll feel frustrated or angry sometimes when I feel like he over-punishes me or won't let me come. I think he's being fair though, has a good balance, so I feel like a brat! Anyone identify or understand what I'm going through? I'm just wondering if these feelings are normal or not. I love the sessions but sometimes feel, idk, resentment? Is this normal?
Hello everyone.
I'm a 25 yo female sub and in my first real sub-dom relationship. I have several concerns and questions coming from the last few months, so there's going to be several topics on this.
Most pressing matter is I experienced rectal pain after plugging and figging yesterday...not until several hours later though. Not burning, aching. Very uncomfortable. My Dom always uses lube and it was a plug I'm comfortable with, anyone know why that happened or ways it could be prevented?
I'd also love to hear experiences of subs on the emotional types of things. These sessions are more intense than anything I've done before (flogging caning humiliation forced orgasm, orgasm denial) and I'm a very emotional person and while it's been incredibly cathartic it's also been kind of difficult. My Dom is very attentive, checks in with me often, pays attention to body language and my safe words of course,
and realizes I'm sensitive and inexperienced and has been slowly easing me into things, but sometimes during a session I feel overwhelming emotion, feel angry at my Dom for decisions he makes, or want to disobey to get a hit, something he has told me not to do. I'll feel frustrated or angry sometimes when I feel like he over-punishes me or won't let me come. I think he's being fair though, has a good balance, so I feel like a brat! Anyone identify or understand what I'm going through? I'm just wondering if these feelings are normal or not. I love the sessions but sometimes feel, idk, resentment? Is this normal?
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