Questions for Polyamorous People

Martinstrat

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These are questions that came up in a discussion between me and my wife. We are not polyamorous, though we have had thoughts and fantasies, the discussion of which brought up these questions.

The first is primarily aimed at a situation where one man is in a relationship with more than one woman. Please share if you view your relationship(s) as marriage, and if you all live together. The questions are:
Do the women have sex with each other?

If yes, is it while having sex with the man, or do the women have sex with each other apart from the man, or both ways at different times?

If the women engage sexually with each other while having sex with the man, what is their primary motivation? I know this may sound like a no-brainer, but this was a point of disagreement between me and my wife. I'll share why later if I get some responses to this question.

If there are people out there who are involved in different polyamorous combinations other than one man and multiple women, I'd love to hear your stories about how the sex plays out.
 
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