questions for enema play

[holli]

i have some questions regarding enemas being used during a scene.

i have never had one, nor have i really had any desire. but, im seeing this guy now, and so far he has been top, but we are planning a switch in a month or so. so, to prepare for that, we have been having many conversations about our fantasies for the switch, and, more importantly, what he wants/is willing to do. well, he's interested in havin lots of anal play on him... but also, he has mentioned that he'd be interested in forced enemas. he has given himself several, but never had them with other people (we are each other's first time bdsm partners). now, i am very willing to try it out on him... but i dont know the first thing about giving them! i have no idea what to expect, how to administer, etc. ive looked on a bunch of message boards about who likes them, etc... but there was never any detail about how/when/etc...

we have discussed this, and i am open to him giving me one first, just so i know what to expect (lol... that is the safer thing to do!), but, even if i end up on the recieving end first, i would still like to know what to expect.

any info on this would be greatly appreciated!

 

[navarre]

Check the enema links in the middle of the page.

http://www.puckerup.com/anal_advisor/anal.htm

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Try this one:

Enemas in BDSM Scenarios originally posted by Tyjord

And by the way, *grin*, you can find LOTS more interesting threads where that one came from in our wonderful BDSM Library, it can be a great resource for times like this. Check it out sometime. If you have any comments, drop me a PM, I'm the local librarian.

Soooo, welcome to the Community. Glad you found us. There are a couple of stickys you might want to check out...the Board sticky lets you in on the rules and regs, and the Cafe' sticky fills you in on what to post where. There. How's that for reading material!! LOL.

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[waterkemist]

enema play

Focus on his ass and start slowly. A few light smacks with a flat object may get things going. Get yourself some latex exam gloves and lubricant.

Have him begin by bathing.

Him on hands and knees is a natural position, and so is him on his back another one of my favorites. Lube him well and start will a finger. Let his anus adjust to it for a short while. Work in plenty of lube and then insert your finger further. You want to find his prostate and rub it slowly.

Plan for an evening, because this is going to take some time. For whatever reason yours and his fantasies dictate, announce that he is to have an enema. Of course, the bag is already clean and handy. It should be his only, go to a drugstore and buy one. Better yet, take him and make him buy it. Ask the salegirl if this is a good model... he gets so constipated you know.

If you don't have a custom nozzle, then use the feminine hygene nozzle, it is longer and larger, but not too much.

First time just use plain water warmed to body temperature. Leave the other fantasies for the next time. The forced part is more a state of mind than anything else. He will hold it longest if you control the flow to be very very slow. Try it first. Hang the bag and dangle the nozzle about 18 inches below it and close the clamp until the water just drips out. That is your setting.

Tell him he must take it all. Tell him he must hold it. Do light bondage at your own risk. Do stay behind him in the line of fire if he is bound. Massage his tummy for him brushing against his dick once in a while. If he is on his back, everything is in plain sight.

He mau need to releive himself quickly. Consider staying with him when he does just for the humiliation aspect of it. It may take twenty to thirty minutes for him to get done so plan on killing some time by yourself.

With a fresh pair of exam gloves, examine his prostate again. If it was me, I would have a slow but steady stream of precum exiting my dick. This is the time for bondage. The prostate massage will make him want to cum very badly. Give his dick only light once in a while strokes right now. He will probably beg after a while. If you finger get tired, change hands. Your finger in the "come hither" motion is th best.

Eventually, make him cum. Your finger in his anus will now feel a little uncomfortable, and he will be on the verge of too much stimulation. A hint here, if you can keep your finger in him you can watch him wiggle and shake, but that is your call.

If you are really going to top him, have him cum on your breasts and then force him to lick it off.

Hope you both enjoy, and yes I would love to give you personal instruction on how to do all of this. Darn, that thought make me hard. You may want to check out my story. I have another but no time to put it to paper. Here is the link:


http://www.literotica.com:81/stories/showstory.php?id=85074

I would love to hear how it goes.
Waterkemist

 

[Shadowsdream]

Thank you waterkemist for the lovely post.

Very thought provoking and erotic, filled with discomfort both physical and emotional.
I look forward to reading your thoughts and experiences.

 

[AvaAdore]

Re: enema play

Focus on his ass and start slowly. A few light smacks with a flat object may get things going. Get yourself some latex exam gloves and lubricant.

Have him begin by bathing.

Him on hands and knees is a natural position, and so is him on his back another one of my favorites. Lube him well and start will a finger. Let his anus adjust to it for a short while. Work in plenty of lube and then insert your finger further. You want to find his prostate and rub it slowly.

Plan for an evening, because this is going to take some time. For whatever reason yours and his fantasies dictate, announce that he is to have an enema. Of course, the bag is already clean and handy. It should be his only, go to a drugstore and buy one. Better yet, take him and make him buy it. Ask the salegirl if this is a good model... he gets so constipated you know.

If you don't have a custom nozzle, then use the feminine hygene nozzle, it is longer and larger, but not too much.

First time just use plain water warmed to body temperature. Leave the other fantasies for the next time. The forced part is more a state of mind than anything else. He will hold it longest if you control the flow to be very very slow. Try it first. Hang the bag and dangle the nozzle about 18 inches below it and close the clamp until the water just drips out. That is your setting.

Tell him he must take it all. Tell him he must hold it. Do light bondage at your own risk. Do stay behind him in the line of fire if he is bound. Massage his tummy for him brushing against his dick once in a while. If he is on his back, everything is in plain sight.

He mau need to releive himself quickly. Consider staying with him when he does just for the humiliation aspect of it. It may take twenty to thirty minutes for him to get done so plan on killing some time by yourself.

With a fresh pair of exam gloves, examine his prostate again. If it was me, I would have a slow but steady stream of precum exiting my dick. This is the time for bondage. The prostate massage will make him want to cum very badly. Give his dick only light once in a while strokes right now. He will probably beg after a while. If you finger get tired, change hands. Your finger in the "come hither" motion is th best.

Eventually, make him cum. Your finger in his anus will now feel a little uncomfortable, and he will be on the verge of too much stimulation. A hint here, if you can keep your finger in him you can watch him wiggle and shake, but that is your call.

If you are really going to top him, have him cum on your breasts and then force him to lick it off.

Hope you both enjoy, and yes I would love to give you personal instruction on how to do all of this. Darn, that thought make me hard. You may want to check out my story. I have another but no time to put it to paper. Here is the link:


http://www.literotica.com:81/stories/showstory.php?id=85074

I would love to hear how it goes.
Waterkemist

*gets ideas*

teehee