First my question.... What is it that makes people get into a relationship when they don't think that it will work out? My Ex is a case in point and now I can see she just needed someone to support her and her kids....But why would someone use up and waste someone elses precious time in a relationship that is not right.
As for the Advice bit ..... In looking for that special someone...don't settle...find someone who is all there emotionally. Stop saying to yourself He/She will be ok if I could just get him/her to quit (Insert inappropriate behaviour here) or think you can change them...... It just won't work. Trust me I have been on both ends of this deal and it was too painful to be believed.
Ok I've had my little rant and feel much better now. I going for a hellride on the Black Monster (Yes I named my bike)
Cheers all hope someone gets some good out of this
SB
As for the Advice bit ..... In looking for that special someone...don't settle...find someone who is all there emotionally. Stop saying to yourself He/She will be ok if I could just get him/her to quit (Insert inappropriate behaviour here) or think you can change them...... It just won't work. Trust me I have been on both ends of this deal and it was too painful to be believed.
Ok I've had my little rant and feel much better now. I going for a hellride on the Black Monster (Yes I named my bike)
Cheers all hope someone gets some good out of this
SB
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