Questions about SOs and Lit

[Gilly Bean]

To answer my own questions: Mr Freaky knows all that goes on here at Lit. Nothing is hidden. He could log onto Lit today.. and nothing I've posted would come to a surprise to him.

That would be the same answer I have

 

[freakygirl]

I've asked my boyfriend if he was interested in registering and posting.. he said no. He said this is my place.. his place is the 4 x 4 forum that he goes to.

what he doesn't know is I lurk over there.. but it's only to look at the pictures. Honest

 

[kiwiwolf]

My SO helps me with ALL my posts... I've been dating my right hand for just over a year now.

 

[lickerish]

Oh.. Licky, you need to bring Angel up here with you in March. Celebrate your birthday in style


I'll even buy new sheets.. how's blues clues?

That would be way cool!

Blues Clues is sooo yesterday. How about Spongebob Squarepants?

 

[k¡tty]

I'm legally separated and no he doesn't know about Lit. No need for him to, it isn't any of his business anymore.


I have risque pictures but no nudes. Nor will I ever post a picture of my cooter or of my breasts fully unhidden. lol who would want to see them anyway?


Since he doesn't know about Lit I'd be surprised if he was spying on me here. Not to mention when we were together and he'd want to use the computer to look up oh Nascar stuff, I had to turn it on, log him on and find the site for him to read what he wanted to read. It's possible someone has taught him how to use the computer since, and that he's using someone elses to do so.. stranger things have happened. *shrug*

 

[Raina]

Does your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend know you are at Lit? Yep, he knows I'm here. I tell him what's going on and often drag him over to the computer to read something I find amusing.
If you have posted nude pictures, do they know? I haven't posted nude pics, but if I did he'd know. Hell, he'd be the one taking the pictures.
Have you ever wondered if they lurk in the background or even post/flirt with you and you don't know it's them? No, 1) because he doesn't have internet access at home or at work and 2) he wouldn't lurk around anyway. If he visited Lit, it would probably be because I wanted him to. He's not really the jealous type, and knows what I say here anyhow.

 

[Spaceboy]

I met my SO here as well, so I think I don't get to answer the other questions. And I think I lurk more than she does, oddly enough.

 

[k¡tty]

Raina tell him the hillbilly needs him to take a few pictures so that I can get a visual image of erm.. certain aspects of you.



It's only outta curiousity mind you..



Honest!

 

[freakygirl]

That would be way cool!

Blues Clues is sooo yesterday. How about Spongebob Squarepants?

hmm.. I think I can do that..

 

[Raina]

Raina tell him the hillbilly needs him to take a few pictures so that I can get a visual image of erm.. certain aspects of you.



It's only outta curiousity mind you..



Honest!

Thank goodness I don't own a digital camera!

 

[k¡tty]

Thank goodness I don't own a digital camera!

Now you've gone and done it.

I'm pouting. See how my lil lower lip is quiverin?

 

[Aphrodisiac]

He knows I post and he finds it amusing , he is not much of a computer person so he is not much into going into chat rooms/forums...

He was a little upset when I mentioned that I had posted an av that showed my breast , we talked about it and I understood where he was coming from ....


I have also gotten pms from people who have no posts whatsoever those freaky me out a bit , and I just respond with a simple "hello and welcome " and leave it at that ...

 

[Raina]

Now you've gone and done it.

I'm pouting. See how my lil lower lip is quiverin?

I only meant that I wanted to spare you the agony of lookin' at me naked.

Really.

I did.

 

[k¡tty]

I only meant that I wanted to spare you the agony of lookin' at me naked.

Really.

I did.

Yes it would be agony.. but not in the sense that you mean. ;-)

 

[sweet soft kiss]

He did know I was here...

I did post pics of me in the nude....

He did read all my posts....

He didn't like it... the tension caused by my being here contributed to our breakup....

 

[Calamity Jane]

Does your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend know you are at Lit?

Yeah, Mr PCG knows that I post here. He's actually got a name and has posted a story. I don't think he's ever posted on the boards, or visited them. It's not really something that I can picture him getting into.

If you have posted nude pictures, do they know?

He knows that I've used revealing pics as avs, he's seen the disk I store them on. We talked a long time ago about pics, and he told me that he's more comfortable with me posting them on the web then he is if I were to send them to individuals. No, I haven't shown him my pic thread, but he wouldn't be pissed if he found it.

Have you ever wondered if they lurk in the background or even post/flirt with you and you don't know it's them?

We've been married long enough that I'd probably know it was him by his spelling/'speech'.

Like Angel, he tends to respect Lit as MY place to hang out. I don't think he ever comes here.

 

[Bluesboy2]

I met my SO here, she is still an active poster. She is aware of the people I talk to. She is not ALWAYS aware of what is said to me in PM's ect... People who talk to me have a right to thier privacy. I will not disclose anything private that is told to me.
I won't post naked pics of myself on the web. But she is aware of the general nature of all my relationships here. She knows I flirt, hell she participates some times. She trusts me or she wouldn't have me around.

 

[#1tankcomander]

Does your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend know you are at Lit?
If you have posted nude pictures, do they know?
Have you ever wondered if they lurk in the background or even post/flirt with you and you don't know it's them?

These questions came up because earlier today.. I got a pm from someone with No posts at Lit.. but yet he knew where I lived (State, not town). I haven't had my state listed in my location in a long time. He had to have read it somewhere in my almost 13000 posts.. or he knows me outside of Lit.
He wanted to know if I have any nude pictures.. if I was interested in a relationship outside of Lit.. and blah blah blah.

My first thought was.. "It's Mr Freaky being a butt". Then I remembered he doesn't have Net access from work.

To answer my own questions: Mr Freaky knows all that goes on here at Lit. Nothing is hidden. He could log onto Lit today.. and nothing I've posted would come to a surprise to him.

Does Be careful come to mind?

and yes to all three questions!

Shocking isn't it!

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Does your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend know you are at Lit?
If you have posted nude pictures, do they know?
Have you ever wondered if they lurk in the background or even post/flirt with you and you don't know it's them?

Considering that the three significant relationships I've had in the last few years have all originated here on the boards. I'd say it's safe to say they know I'm at Lit, and post nude pictures. Possibly they have lurked too to check up on me, but I'm pretty sure I say the same things in public as I say in private. Of course, some people hear things I swear I never said . . .

*shrug*

 

[Guest]

no SO

so for me the question is N/A

 

[Guru]

Re: Re: Re: Questions about SOs and Lit

Does your boyfriend know you are at Lit?
Yep. He was kinda confused at why I spend my time arguing with a bunch of people I don't know about a bunch of shit that they probably don't care enough about to research. (His words)

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LOL... And, I'll bet he wonders why you bother to let yourself get worked up about arguing politics with a bunch of porn perverts, too, right?