Questions about first times.

[parkeedurm123]

I'm a bicurious male that has a couple questions before I jump into my first experience.

-do people wear condoms for blowjobs? I want to try this but I want everything I do to be safe.

-how do I prepare myself for a real cock? i've played with a vibrator but the diameter wasn't more than half an inch

-how do you clean all the shit in your rectum before having anal? I've gotten messy after playing with my vibrator and have seen on videos of people that don't have all the shit on their vibrator/condom after sex.


thanks. any suggestions will help.

 

[pa-guy]

1) Some do, some don't. Unless you're secure your partner is clean, I'd say go for as much protection as possible. Meeting someone online = I'd assume not clean. Better safe than sorry with an std

2) I'd play with more toys, using larger toys over time.

3) I've actually never had this problem with toys of mine, but I know some do so I'll leave it to them. But basically an enema I think.

 

[limplizzard]

1. I would never suck a guy wearing a rubber. I want to taste their cum.

 

[mynameiskate]

Well, if you want to be safe, try a flavored condom, maybe?

 

[gaymm]

I'm a bicurious male that has a couple questions before I jump into my first experience.

-do people wear condoms for blowjobs? I want to try this but I want everything I do to be safe.

-how do I prepare myself for a real cock? i've played with a vibrator but the diameter wasn't more than half an inch

-how do you clean all the shit in your rectum before having anal? I've gotten messy after playing with my vibrator and have seen on videos of people that don't have all the shit on their vibrator/condom after sex.


thanks. any suggestions will help.

1) sometimes. But I prefer cum too

2) you'll stretch to a point, but it'll hurt until you stretch and get used to it. Play with bigger toys.

3) As for anal, high fiber foods and cut the caffeine. Otherwise deal with it or use an enema, which can be fun all on its own.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

I'm a bicurious male that has a couple questions before I jump into my first experience.

-do people wear condoms for blowjobs? I want to try this but I want everything I do to be safe.

-how do I prepare myself for a real cock? i've played with a vibrator but the diameter wasn't more than half an inch

-how do you clean all the shit in your rectum before having anal? I've gotten messy after playing with my vibrator and have seen on videos of people that don't have all the shit on their vibrator/condom after sex.


thanks. any suggestions will help.

totally agree with PA-GUY

1) why would you want to go down on a person if you do not know how clean they are? for your first experience you will like it better if you get to know the guy. This way you will know if he is safe or not. Over a short period of time the truth always comes out (no pun intended).

2) vibrators normally are not the right toy for anal play because theirs nothing that stops the toy from getting sucked up in your arse. Buy a medium size butt plug. You will enjoy the sensation plus you will not have to worry about it getting sucked up. Try telling the doctor in the emergency room how your vibrator got there.

3) proper diet & an enema

 

[AngloSexon]

I'm a bicurious male that has a couple questions before I jump into my first experience.

-do people wear condoms for blowjobs? I want to try this but I want everything I do to be safe.

-how do I prepare myself for a real cock? i've played with a vibrator but the diameter wasn't more than half an inch
-how do you clean all the shit in your rectum before having anal? I've gotten messy after playing with my vibrator and have seen on videos of people that don't have all the shit on their vibrator/condom after sex.


thanks. any suggestions will help.

Unless the thought turns you off, try a finger. More... organic? More control.
It will also help if you're up-front with your prospective partner - let him know it's your first time, and if he's considerate, he'll make allowances for your needs. If he's not, then he isn't worth giving yourself to.

Whatever you do, though, enjoy yourself! You're one of the luckiest guys in the world. You have my love and best wishes

Whatever you do, do safely.

 

[Bill3250]

1) Some do, some don't. Unless you're secure your partner is clean, I'd say go for as much protection as possible. Meeting someone online = I'd assume not clean. Better safe than sorry with an std

2) I'd play with more toys, using larger toys over time.

3) I've actually never had this problem with toys of mine, but I know some do so I'll leave it to them. But basically an enema I think.

I don't like the taste of rubber, but I go wild for the flavor of cum!