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[Lovernotkiller]

Im 18, is 15 too young for me even though she seems older?

 

[amasterfound]

Im 18, is 15 too young for me even though she seems older?

as long as you don't have sex until she is no longer a minor.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Im 18, is 15 too young for me even though she seems older?

Depending on the laws where you live, even if the sex is consensual, you could be permanantly listed as a sexual predator and/or child molestor and/or pedophile and have to let law enforcement agencies know where you are residing for the rest of your life if you're caught and found guilty of having sex with a minor.

Be smarter than your hormones. Go out with older women so you can learn all the right ways to pleasure women. If you still want a younger one down the road then find an 18yr old when you're in your 30s.

 

[INeedLove]

Just say no!!!

Emotionally and intellectually there is a difference between 15 and 18. Not to mention maturity and understanding of the world. A 15 year old is not prepared to be a parent if pregnacy resulted too.

If you get involved with this person, their parents could haul you to the police station and press charges. If it were my daughter-you'd also be hung by your genitals from the tree outside. (ok, so I am a protective mom-sorry). But seriously, it probably isn't a good idea.

Tempted as you might be...you are better off waiting until this person is 18 or looking elsewhere!

Good luck!

 

[human_male]

Yes she's too young. Doesn't matter how old she seems, or if she wants it, or if she comes on to you, or what. You're an adult, she's still a child.

 

[bisexplicit]

If you feel that 18 is too young to go to prison, then yes, 15 is too young for a relationship.

 

[Ravin the Poet]

Aside from the sex thing, yes its to young because lets look at some facts.

Your friends are 18, or around there, while she has younger friends and 15 year old girls act really different.

You are an adult, and getting involved with a child just ends in alot of shit.

It wont last. I will admit, I was in this boat before, but mine was more long distance and wasn't really gf/bf. Girls that age are rebels and trying to get away with everything. She will get board, and can find things else where.


Just a thought


Ravin

 

[Eilan]

Check the age of consent where you live. It varies from state to state (assuming you're in the US).

Even if she's reached the age of consent, her parents may still meet you at the front door with their bodyguards Smith and Wesson.

 

[fgarvb1]

Fifteen will get you twenty bud.

Yes she is to young. Hell, YOU are to young!

Should be a law no marriages before the age of twenty-five. It would start cutting the divorce rate by at least a third over night.

 

[Queen Of Hearts]

 

[Ravin the Poet]

Ok ummm....am I the only one that isn't giving him advice about non sexual stuff. Everyone keeps telling him about consent, and laws and all that shit, but really, who says it will lead to that, and we all know people do it at that age. Still to young, just not for the sex reasons.


Ravin

 

[Queen Of Hearts]

 

[amasterfound]

Ok ummm....am I the only one that isn't giving him advice about non sexual stuff. Everyone keeps telling him about consent, and laws and all that shit, but really, who says it will lead to that, and we all know people do it at that age. Still to young, just not for the sex reasons.


Ravin

Because we ALL know what boys that age eventually think about sex! AND EVEN if he isn't her parents will think that they are, like the rest of us. I don't think that it has to do with her being less mature then him, because doctors has proven that girls are more mature then boys their age. Which would put them about the same maturity level. I happen to know a 19 year old that is going out with a 16 year old girl. NONE of their friends have said a thing about it. Her parents just make sure nothing is happening. THey hsve been dating for 2 years now!

 

[TumbledLove]

Im 18, is 15 too young for me even though she seems older?

If she's really as mature as you think, then I'd say go for it.

 

[Noor]

Yes, she is too young. You have different realities, priorities, responsibilities, and laws governing your behavior.

By the way in some states statuatory rape laws cover the removal of any article of clothing worn next to the skin, so if her parents or she ever gets mad at you, and you help her remove her mittens... Where I grew up the parents had until the child was 18 to press charges.

She is also too young to be talked about in a sexual manner on lit.

 

[TumbledLove]

She is also too young to be talked about in a sexual manner on lit.

 

[amasterfound]

She is also too young to be talked about in a sexual manner on lit.

True there is an age limit on sex here. In stories you can't mention sex with a minor so that would also intitle the forum.

 

[Emerald Eyed]

Im 18, is 15 too young for me even though she seems older?

Not only 2 young, but illegal

 

[TumbledLove]

Lit's "rule" is about not having minors star in explicit sex stories. ..which is totally not what this thread is about. So why was it even brought up?

PS - the "rule" isn't really a rule, because there's plenty of threads here that discuss minors involved in sex. "First experiences" anyone?

 

[Emerald Eyed]

It is true.

 

[TumbledLove]

2. You may not post sexually explicit pictures or stories featuring anyone under 18 years old.

stories - which as I've said before.. this is not a rule that's always followed in the forums. and besides, it's totally beyond the scope of this thread.

 

[AvaAdore]

My parents started dating when my mom was 15 and my dad was 20. They are still together. Everyone is different. There are plenty of immature 18 year olds and mature 15 year olds.

If you really like each other, I say go for it. For legal reasons, you should probably hold off from having sex until she is legally old enough. Mind you, I'm not one to talk, since I've had sex underaged (though not by much) but you should be careful.

 

[carrie-on]

15 is too young,yes,for a sexual relationship. I have 3 daughters and when they were 15,they were still silly,giggling children,especially around boys! I was more protective of them than my parents were,so in a way,I guess that I am being hypocritical. I was 15 when I got pregnant with my oldest daughter. I love her very much and I think I was a good Mom,but sometimes i wish I had waited to have kids. As far as the sex registry goes,it depends on the state. One of my son in laws had sex with a girl who was 2 months shy of her 18th BD,he was 18,her parents pressed statutory rape charges on him when she got pregnant and now he is on the sex registry until he is 45, (he's 27). She lost the baby,which I am sorry about,but what good is it for him to be on the registry for something they both wanted to do!

 

[SweetErika]

Okay, in Maine, technically 15 and 18 is not illegal IF your birthdays are such where there's less than a 3 year/36 month difference. If it's 37+ months, her parents could press charges for statutory rape.

The age of consent is 16, provided the partner's not more than five years older, or in a position of authority.

However, I agree there's usually a pretty big emotional and life difference between a 15 and 18 year old. Think about this: What happens if it's a relationship and next year you're off to college or work, but she's still got a couple of years of high school left? How likely is that to work?

 

[Lovernotkiller]

hmm

Hmm, alright ladies and gents, thanks for the help , i'll be careful.