Question to girls

[super100p]

Is a fact that only guys are interested on seeing girls on cam.

If a guy would be able to do absolutely anything to see you on cam (clothes on, nothing special) what would he have to do in exchange? (No limits, no matter how painful, extreme or embarrasing)

I am just wondering if there is anything girls would actually like to see someone doing for her (not necessarily have to be sexual or erotic)

 

[jezzilee]

Is a fact that only guys are interested on seeing girls on cam.

If a guy would be able to do absolutely anything to see you on cam (clothes on, nothing special) what would he have to do in exchange? (No limits, no matter how painful, extreme or embarrasing)

I am just wondering if there is anything girls would actually like to see someone doing for her (not necessarily have to be sexual or erotic)

Where do you get your facts? Why do you think women want to humiliate or hurt men? Was your mother abusive?

 

[cookiecat]

I don't really get the question.

I've enjoyed seeing guys on cam... doing stuff. But not humiliating or painful. That's just weird watching someone do that to themselves. Jerking off is one thing but sticking a q-tip up your peehole (or whatever)? Nope.

Soooo - do you want to watch a girl on cam?

Do you want someone to watch you?

Do you want to do weird, extreme painful things?

What? What????

 

[super100p]

Where do you get your facts? Why do you think women want to humiliate or hurt men? Was your mother abusive?

Not saying that all girls want to humilliate or hurt men (lots of girls enjoy doing it though) I am just wondering if there is a girl interested on seeing something on cam for her entertaining only.

 

[super100p]

I don't really get the question.

I've enjoyed seeing guys on cam... doing stuff. But not humiliating or painful. That's just weird watching someone do that to themselves. Jerking off is one thing but sticking a q-tip up your peehole (or whatever)? Nope.

Soooo - do you want to watch a girl on cam?

Do you want someone to watch you?

Do you want to do weird, extreme painful things?

What? What????

If you ask me then I will say that the answer to all three questions are "yes".

 

[jezzilee]

Okay, I get it now...

Good luck OP!


Btw.... the q~tip comment cracked me up. But then again, I am easily amused

 

[cookiecat]

If you ask me then I will say that the answer to all three questions are "yes".

Why not head down to the bdsm personals section and ask outright????

(I do not want to see this....)

 

[malefica]

If it was one of my partners, sure. But someone I don't know and have zero interest in? No thanks.

 

[Miles Long]

Cookiecat was pretty quick with the "q-tip in the peephole" idea. Methinks there's something she's not telling us....

 

[SpunThings]

For me? There is nothing you could do to convince me.

Putting some limits and negotiating with someone you have gotten to know might actually get you further. Honestly you sound desperate, and desperation is not appealing to many people.

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

For me? There is nothing you could do to convince me.

Putting some limits and negotiating with someone you have gotten to know might actually get you further. Honestly you sound desperate, and desperation is not appealing to many people.

I tend to agree this smacks of thinly veiled fishing. Either try the personals section as was suggested, or just upload vids somewhere and see what happens. Dont disguise intent.

 

[SpunThings]

Damn.
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Though I tend to agree this smacks of thinly veiled fishing. Either try the personals section as was suggested, or just upload vids somewhere and see what happens. Dont disguise intent.

It wasn't meant to be a burn or attack. If he doesn't realize he comes off as desperate, it might be useful to know that's how it seems to me.

I get that it can be hard when what you're into is something a small number of people are into. I still important to maintain healthy boundaries when seeking something hard to find. Being desperate usually means someone has low self worth. I don't know if these things are true of him, but that is the impression I get. If I get that impression, others might too.

 

[SpunThings]

Oh, and I can see how desperation could be a kink. However, it's probably better to wait to play that out until you've met a partner who wants the compliment to your kink. When negotiating a relationship you'll probably have more success when you put the dynamic you're looking for on hold until you've worked out what you both want.

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

I didn't believe it to be mean spirited in the least, was just amused by the frank manner in how you put it.

I went back and edited my post so as not to shine any negative light on your statement, wouldn't want to contribute to any misinterpretations, as I felt it was accurate.

 

[SpunThings]

I didn't believe it to be mean spirited in the least, was just amused by the frank manner in how you put it.

I went back and edited my post so as not to shine any negative light on your statement, wouldn't want to contribute to any misinterpretations, as I felt it was accurate.

Hey, I wasn't upset by your original comment. It helped me realize what I said could be seen as a burn, so I followed up with more clarification.