Question on the mysteries of male sexuality

[kittykateater]

I had a new experience with my girlfriend last night, and I'm just curious why it happened.

When I get very turned-on, I sometimes release crystal-clear pre-come before I come. It doesn't happen all that often. I did pre-come before my first orgasm last night, but this is not what was new for me. I'm used to pre-coming sometimes, before coming, and it is not why I am posting my question.

But last night, my girlfreind and I were both especially horny. So we kissed and caressed each other all over, I fingered then ate her pussy as she thrashed around and moaned and groaned, all of which turned me on even more than normal. Then she sucked my cock and swallowed hungrily as I came. She let me come in her pussy, then in her ass. After having had my cock up her butt, we felt it better for sanitary reasons if I washed my cock off before I put it anywhere else. So we showered together, soaping each other everywhere, and then enjoying slowly toweling each other dry.

We then lay in bed, all nice and clean, and we slowly kissed and caressed each other all over, until we were both extremely turned on again. I enthusistically ate her pussy, and then she sucked my cock. But instead of coming as she sucked me, I released a little bit of my crystal-clear pre-come into her mouth.

I have never had a pre-come AFTER I've already orgasmed. I mean, it IS called pre-come, not POST-come. She loved it! She had never had a guy pre-come in her mouth before, and she said she enjoyed the unique taste, not as strong a smell and taste as regular come.

But I'm wondering, does anyone know what would cause clear pre-come to appear AFTER coming several times? I mean like medically, scientifically, and emotionally, what would cause a pre-come to occur post-come? And is there a way I can make that happen again, since she loved it so much? Or do I just have to wait and hope it eventually happens again?

 

[Serendipitous]

even though you've already orgasmed a few times, if you're turned on again you can still leak pre-cum because you haven't came this next time.

If that was understandable at all.

 

[BlueElf]

even though you've already orgasmed a few times, if you're turned on again you can still leak pre-cum because you haven't came this next time.

If that was understandable at all.

Yep...that's happened to me before too. Don't know all the mechanics of it, but you're not alone.

 

[kittykateater]

Yeah, the answer kinda makes sense, that this was the pre-cursor to my next orgasm and not a follow-up to my previous ones. But I still wonder:

1. Why I didn't then come after this last pre-come. The fact that this occurred after several orgasms, without a final come, made it feel more like some sort of post-come rather than just another pre-come, if that makes any sense. The fact that it was NOT followed by coming made this time feel unique and very, very special, a moment and a memory to cherish for always, a very special bond between my girlfriend and me that I do not share with any previous girlfriend.

2. Why this never happened to me before (actually, I think I can answer that one: no previous girlfriend excites me as much as she does; we have already been talking marriage for a while now, although we are not yet officially engaged because I'm still saving up to get her the ring we picked out together, before I actually propose--anyway, that level of love and commitment is bound to have affected my level of sexual response to her, in ways that are new to me, such as last night).

3. Now that this has happened, and we both love it, I want it to happen again, but I'm not sure how to make it happen. I suspect there is no way to control it--just when the emotional mood is right, maybe it might occur again. Besides, I don't think it would be as enjoyable for either of us if I force it, rather than let it occur naturally and spontaneously in response to the situation, as it did last night. And if it happens too often, the specialness and uniqueness of last night will just become routine instead of a memory to cherish forever, and I certainly don't want that. Still, I would like this to happen again once in a while. But I fear that even if the situation that caused it repeats, I might not have this same wonderful reaction as last night, pre-coming AFTER several orgasms, without a final come, and it would be a shame if this never happens again. However, the fact that two other guys on Lit have had this happen, is encouraging. It means there is a chance this won't turn out to be a once-in-a-lifetime reaction to the woman I love.

I'm still not entirely clear on the mechanics of what happened, and why it happened. But the fact that it does happen for other guys and could happen for me again makes me feel a WHOLE lot better about it. In the meantime, my girlfriend and I will just have to get in LOTS of practice, until this DOES happen again (grin)!

Thanks to all who helped me understand what happened to me last night, and why and how it happened. I can hardly wait until tonight, to get started on that practice toward the next time.