Question for the ladies......

[owterspace]

I absolutely LOVE it when my wife dresses up in her see-thru sexy lingerie......she looks sooooo sexy.....All women know how to make their man go NUTS over them.... My question is this... What can we as men do to make yall that CRAZY over us...
What turns yall on?
I will consider each and every reply and give feedback on each in this thread......Thank You all

 

[bisexplicit]

I think it varies a lot, as to what girls like to see their guys wear.

Personally, a man dressed up in a suit is always nice. (Men in frilly little panties don't do it for me, so I can't discuss lingere for guys. )

 

[webothliketoshow]

a nice pair of jockey shorts that are very tight,my man knows which of his i like or he has some really nice tight briefs that are alightly see thro that drive me mad,if he has a pair of good well fitting jeans on and i know those are the undies he has ob i cant wait to get home.
A suit is good too and i agree with Bi NO frilly knickers or any ladies clothing

 

[Lady Amber]

Hmmm...i'd say a good suit as well, something about a man in a suit that just does it for me. all formal looking, controlled, calm, and yet has the ability to rip your clothes off and fuck you like crazy.
that and i like the musicians, oh yes those musicians. with the tatter jeans and converse sneakers, the long shirt under the t shirt, god that just does it for me every time. taking off 2 shirts forces you to have some patience, and worn in jeans come off rather easily.
But above all else, boxers, please! No thongs, or tighty whiteys. cause i dunno those remind me of women's undies, and i'm not on that side of the fence....but that's just me.

 

[Eilan]

If you're a cop, that's a huge plus. But, then, I'm a little biased toward men in uniform.

Actually, and this probably isn't what you want to hear, I get really turned on when my husband does domestic kinds of stuff, like vacuuming. Seriously. But I wouldn't want to see him in a French maid uniform.

I like my hubby in (pretty much) everything--and nothing.

 

[owterspace]

ooopppsss

maybe i wasnt clear.....sorry.
I ment what could we do for you to turn you on.......such as is it tight fitten jeans or baggy.
candles and incence or beer and pizza.
pjs or nothing?
what can your man do to drive you WILD????/

 

[BigM]

Tux?

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned a man in a tuxedo. On the rare occasion I get to wear one (weddings, mainly), I know -- without a doubt! -- it's nookie time when we get home. She says it's the tuxedo (and I've heard other women say the same thing). However, a part of me wonders if it's just all the champagne and wedding stuff that gets her going.

 

[EJFan]

this is an interesting question... i'm anxious to read the replies.

i think women like to make men into projects on various levels... dressing us up like ken dolls is one of them.

don't get me wrong, speaking for myself, i enjoy being a project for the most part... it makes me feel as though i'm cared about rather than an SO just passively letting me do as i wish (and likely fucking THAT up).

 

[glynndah]

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned a man in a tuxedo. On the rare occasion I get to wear one (weddings, mainly), I know -- without a doubt! -- it's nookie time when we get home. She says it's the tuxedo (and I've heard other women say the same thing). However, a part of me wonders if it's just all the champagne and wedding stuff that gets her going.

A Tux is definitely sexy! I think it reminds us of all the times when sex is part of the event; prom, wedding night, etc. Even better when the bow tie is untied and a couple of studs on the shirt are unfastened.

 

[SlyKitten]

Oh dear! There must be a huge cultural difference here! Dress-up my man like a Ken barbie doll? LOL I believe you are a grown man, you can take care of yourself; that doesn't mean I won't spoil you and give you presents though, cook your favorite meal or buy something sexy according to your preferences.

There IS something about a man in uniform, and I think suits were mentioned once or twice... For me too, a suit is very sexy. I don't like the wedding tuxedos myself; I love an everyday, elegant suit with a colorful tie and impeccable shoes. The loosening of the tie when he comes back from work! Yum! The unbuckling of the belt as he gives me a mishievous smirk... gasp!

Big displays of fake romanticism don't do much for me. You'll get a raised eyebrow and maybe a mocking chuckle if you bring me in a room full of candles, a bed covered in rose petals and champagne on ice. Surprise me, pour me sake and offer yourself as a table for my unagi; take me out to a strip club and offer me a lap dance from a red head; explain to me something I am having a hard time understanding - it can be day to day stuff like how to change a flat tire or something way more ocmplicated like how to split an atom - knowledge and confidence excite me (confidence, not cockiness).

And I like briefs and a g-string on a man. The oiled and glistening body of a male stripper wearing a skimpy piece of fabric to hide the goods, his muscles bulging as he 'dances'... A ballet dancer? A bodybuilder? But that is totally off topic, apologies.

 

[EJFan]

Oh dear! There must be a huge cultural difference here! Dress-up my man like a Ken barbie doll?

i should probably clarify... though i think you got the point and i'm likely the one making the error here...

what i meant was that women like to buy our clothes for us because we generally have no fashion sense what so ever. and we're a "project" for women to the extent that i'm sure we're not nearly as good at decision making as we think we are. women just help us along in a crafty way that leads us to believe we're the ones making the wise choices.

in any case... just in case there was an error... back to our regularly scheduled thread.

 

[SlyKitten]

Hehehe EJ I understood what you meant; I did have Barbie dolls (though I cut their hair in more daring and edgy cuts than their blah butt-length blonde locks) and Ken dolls (though I always ended up playing with Barbie instead). So the cultural difference I was mentioning was more about the choosing clothes for my boyfriend thing.

Reminds me of an old Sex and the City episode where Samantha dresses her new boyfriend, the 'turtle' I think his name was... In anyway, I still think you're a big boy and you can choose what you want to wear and I am not diplomatic (hypocrytical?) enough to play you into thinking you made the decision when I made it

 

[Eilan]

dressing us up like ken dolls is one of them.

I do buy my hubby clothes, mostly because he's spent so many years not having to decide what to wear. I like buying clothes for him because he's easy to please.

I'm not one to be all obsessed with cock size (as a lot of ya'll might already know), but I like my men to be a little more, um, "endowed" than Ken.

 

[ammre]

to be honest....
nothing.

I mean there are things men can do to be very attractive, but i never see a part of a man's body, or clothing and think "GEE, I wanna bang him." I gotta be int he mood to start or there's no getting me into it.

Lathough i do have a pre-disposition to a man in doublet, but only if i'm in a boddice and full skirts.
*cough*

 

[Lynxie]

Suits and tuxedos are a definite turn-on for me. A lot of my married friends told me they were too tired on their wedding night to have much fun... but not me. I was tired, sure, but there was no way in hell I was going to pass up my guy in a tux! I also like it when a guy displays a lot of confidence. Almost anything a guy does can be sexy to me if he does it with confidence (which, I must point out, is quite different from arrogance).

 

[SlyKitten]

Suits and tuxedos are a definite turn-on for me. A lot of my married friends told me they were too tired on their wedding night to have much fun... but not me. I was tired, sure, but there was no way in hell I was going to pass up my guy in a tux! I also like it when a guy displays a lot of confidence. Almost anything a guy does can be sexy to me if he does it with confidence (which, I must point out, is quite different from arrogance).

I agree, Lynxie. Arrogance and bragging are such turn offs! 'I'm handsome and I know it' gets on my nerves (so does 'I'm pretty and I know it' for that matter)!

 

[bisexplicit]

i think women like to make men into projects on various levels... dressing us up like ken dolls is one of them.

But men so desperately need help. At least most of the time. My boyfriend would wear /anything/...no matter what it looked like. He just doesn't seem to know how to dress. *shakes head*

 

[AppleBiter]

So many things. Where to begin? Things that J. can do/wear to turn me on:

1. I love it when he stands in the front yard with his sword, shirtless, and practices wielding. He's very tan and usually sweaty. His skin glistens in the setting sunlight and his dark hair clings to his forehead. He has this look of angry determination on his face that is almost animalistic. It's extremely hot.

2. He has this pair of black Hanes boxer-briefs and when he wears them, they cling to his cock (especially when he's semi erect) and present this perfect outline. It's such a tease! I also love when he's in that same pair of underwear and he's getting hard and he lifts the leg ever-so-slightly and lets the head of his cock peek out. THAT nearly drives me over the edge.

3. When he comes up behind me, grabs me around the waist, moves my hair back, and runs his glorious tongue up my neck. *shivers* That's instant moisture.

4. When he licks his full lips, then bites his bottom lip seductively. It's subtle, but it's mind-blowingly erotic.

5. When he surprises me by saying something shocking out of the blue. For instance, last night, I was talking to him about his day at work and in the middle of the conversation, he said, "Tonight, I'm gonna' tear you in half." Then, he went on with what he was saying. That was so fucking hot.

6. Watching him eat an ice cream cone makes me hot. Watching his tongue and lips indulge in the sweetness reminds me of, well, other things. The messier he is the better.

Anyway, those are some of my personal things. To answer your specific questions, owterspace:

*Baggy are sexier than tight.
* Candles and incense or beer and pizza. Makes no difference. To me, atmosphere has NOTHING to do with whether I want to fuck him or not.

And

*Naked, of course. I would take naked over PJs any day.