Question for switches

Ms_Lilith

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Is there anything.. anything at all, that brings out both sides of your switch nature at the same time, and serves to conflict you? Something that makes you want to give in, submit, be taken, and yet, makes you want to have complete control, makes you want to be brutal, inflict pain or dominion on/over someone else?


Just curious.
 
There is only one thing I can think of personally that causes that (for me) though it doesn't make me feel *submissive* per se...and that is delivering a very good beating. Watching my pets take it and get off on it, makes me want someone who can take control and give me the same thing.

pet
 
apet4you said:
There is only one thing I can think of personally that causes that (for me) though it doesn't make me feel *submissive* per se...and that is delivering a very good beating. Watching my pets take it and get off on it, makes me want someone who can take control and give me the same thing.

pet

it's a pet beat pet world out there.....:D
 
vixenshe said:
Is there anything.. anything at all, that brings out both sides of your switch nature at the same time, and serves to conflict you? Something that makes you want to give in, submit, be taken, and yet, makes you want to have complete control, makes you want to be brutal, inflict pain or dominion on/over someone else?


Just curious.

Oh yes but it is a matter of opportunity
this way or that way where to now?

best to you VS

H
 
anal. its more its so good, that i want him to feel it too.
But one day, maybe...;)
 
I've found that I tend to be more submissive when I'm with a man and more dominant when I'm with a woman. The only time these two sides conflict with one another is when I'm with a man and a woman at the same time. It can get confusing. :confused:
 
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I don't know if this is the answer to your question or not, but I am a switch, probably 70/30 submissive over dom. When I dom her I get incredibly aroused (as does she) but in the back of my mind I am thinking that I will be made to pay for having dommed her. I really don't know if it is the fact that I am domming her, or the fact that I will pay for having done so, that arouses me. In either case it seems to work. She, fortunately is just about the reverse ratio, 70/30 dom over submissive.

sklabos
 
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