Do you feel like you can give yourself a better and more intense orgasm from masturbation? I have been a lifelong mastubator and I think I can. I can edge my myself better and make the pleasure last longer. When the orgasm hits it just feels more intense. Not to say I don't still enjoy intercourse and oral sex but masturbation is just complete bliss. Of course, there is no communication with a partner and no giving of pleasure to another person and that is a drawback. Just looking for a response from those of us who masturbate, male and female, which I presume is the greater percentage of visitors to Lit.
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No, solo masturbation isn't near as fun to me as having a helping hand or two.
Not to mention part of my sexual enjoyment is just as well tied to "giving" as well as receiving pleasure...
Just my .02 worth...
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Do you feel like you can give yourself a better and more intense orgasm from masturbation?
Sometimes, yes and I don't have to be nice to myself and make myself a nice dinner to get it, either.
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I'd say it's probably 100% of lit that masturbates. If you don't, why the hell are you on a forum for erotica, anyway?
I wouldn't say masturbation is better than any other sex, though. It's just different and special in its own right. It's also fun to share with a partner and a useful too for sexual communication.
I wouldn't say masturbation is better than any other sex, though. It's just different and special in its own right. It's also fun to share with a partner and a useful too for sexual communication.
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Absolutely not. I've never had a better orgasm masturbating than with my partner, for several reasons.
One: The feeling of being 'filled' during vaginal penetration is more stimulating than clitoral stimulation alone. I've tried replicating this with toys and find it's a poor substitute.
Two: He's natural rather than cut so his foreskin rolls back during intercourse to make a 'ridge' on his penis that's very stimulating to my g-spot.
Three: Visually, my partner is very good-looking and seeing him naked is extremely arousing. Porn won't replicate the feelings of closeness and intimacy I have with him, either.
Four: His pleasure from sex in turns heightens my enjoyment, making my orgasm better.
Really, I'd rather have sex with him than masturbate, it's so much better.
One: The feeling of being 'filled' during vaginal penetration is more stimulating than clitoral stimulation alone. I've tried replicating this with toys and find it's a poor substitute.
Two: He's natural rather than cut so his foreskin rolls back during intercourse to make a 'ridge' on his penis that's very stimulating to my g-spot.
Three: Visually, my partner is very good-looking and seeing him naked is extremely arousing. Porn won't replicate the feelings of closeness and intimacy I have with him, either.
Four: His pleasure from sex in turns heightens my enjoyment, making my orgasm better.
Really, I'd rather have sex with him than masturbate, it's so much better.
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If I am just cleaning the pipes for a bit of relief the result can be .... well let just say the result is achieved
I have found that once the brain is fully engaged in the act then the results are far more intense
I have found my biggest sexual organ is between my ears and that the most sensitive organ during masturbation is my ears LOL
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I have found that once the brain is fully engaged in the act then the results are far more intense
I have found my biggest sexual organ is between my ears and that the most sensitive organ during masturbation is my ears LOL
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It's not unusual for me to not have an orgasm at all when I have intercourse, but that has never been an issue with masturbation. The use of a condom decreases sensitivity to the point where it's easy to stay hard but very difficult to cum. That being said I would still take intercourse with no orgasm over masturbation with an orgasm any day.
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Sure, masturbation can be great. You can really go to town with it -- you can make it about pampering yourself and in a kind of strange way that's a part of the pleasure, almost a giving to yourself.
BUT...
Compare it even to simply masturbating with someone else, let alone anything more, and it falls short. Alas. But then that's probably a good thing for the human race.
BUT...
Compare it even to simply masturbating with someone else, let alone anything more, and it falls short. Alas. But then that's probably a good thing for the human race.
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Sweet Spots!
I know that when I masturbate, I always hit the sweet spots and my orgasms are intense. Of course, my mind is working on all the fantasies that I create in my mind. When I come off with her, a lot of it is about the physical interaction between us. I could be fucking her ass, which is always a great mind trip, or coming in her mouth. Those are mind and body experiences. She doesn't always hit the right spots when she's giving me a handjob or blowing me but when I'm inside her, front or back, I think it's more up to me to make it happen the way I want.
I know that when I masturbate, I always hit the sweet spots and my orgasms are intense. Of course, my mind is working on all the fantasies that I create in my mind. When I come off with her, a lot of it is about the physical interaction between us. I could be fucking her ass, which is always a great mind trip, or coming in her mouth. Those are mind and body experiences. She doesn't always hit the right spots when she's giving me a handjob or blowing me but when I'm inside her, front or back, I think it's more up to me to make it happen the way I want.
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Sex has always felt better to me than masturbating. A lot better. And I masturbated a lot.
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I've never had a better orgasm from masturbation than I have from sex. However, I do think that masturbation has helped make my orgasms during sex better insofar as I used masturbation to practice 'edging' a lot, which gave me a whole different approach to fucking, so that I could sort of 'edge' during sex and even have an orgasm sometimes without ejaculating--and I learned to last a lot longer and then have another orgasm when I ejaculated.
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I was thinking about this very thing yesterday. Sort answer, sex is always better than masturbation, but the orgasim I can achieve is better going solo.
I was 27 when I had my first orgasm. So, for me, I'm still learning how, added to the fact that I'm still shy in the bedroom, its hard for me to give directions.
I was 27 when I had my first orgasm. So, for me, I'm still learning how, added to the fact that I'm still shy in the bedroom, its hard for me to give directions.
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Hard to answer that. My most intense orgasm was with a partner. But masturbation, once I learnt to do it properly, has given me ones that are almost as good, and usually longer lasting, and far more consistent. And, as you say, you can make it last as long as you want, for hours if necessary, and that isn't always possible with a partner, since you have to pay attention to his or her needs as well as yours.
And if I'm with a partner and it just ain't happening, I sort of feel that I'm letting the side down. If I'm by myself and it ain't happening, no worries. That's what books are for.
It's all very relative.
Often, when I masturbate, I like to go into a meditative state where I spend a long time, sometimes hours, basking in the arousal process. Attention makes all the difference.
This can be done with a partner, of course, but it requires coordinating.
Often, when I masturbate, I like to go into a meditative state where I spend a long time, sometimes hours, basking in the arousal process. Attention makes all the difference.
This can be done with a partner, of course, but it requires coordinating.
I don't think so. You can have a whole routine to get yourself worked up and explode, but for most people it's always better with someone who knows how to turn you on and get you off. You can't really simulate the sounds and expressions on your partner's face when they're trying to make you come and coming themselves. Creaking bed, scratching, jiggling boobies, heat, sweat aren't things easily reproduced which increase the intensity of an orgasm. Jerking off is still just jerking off.
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24/7/365 ...
Whenever it's convenient really ...
It's no bother at all ...
Just say the word and I'll be right over ...
Oh lover, you are such an angel!
I prefer sex with a partner, due to the whole overall experience. However, when I'm masturbating, I can get everything juuuuuust right. I don't have to worry that she's squeezing too hard, I can hold myself right on the edge and know how to keep the orgasmic throbs going for almost a full minute.
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