Question for married women

[sanjuaneros]

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[unclej]

show her this thread and then talk about it.

 

[sanjuaneros]

I will try, but she will not talk to me. ty

 

[CoolidgEffect]

My wife no longer feels I care what she’s does, or how she feels. I work 20 hours 6 days a week, and 15 hours on the 7th day. Two of our children have run us into debt. I love her and wish I could convey this to her. I am so tried after work most times I just listen to how her day has gone. I am understanding that she doesn’t really want to work, and that is fine with me. I don’t know how to explain to her I am tried, sick (I have leukemia) and sometimes I have nothing to say or an opinion when she goes to the store, or if she wants to go to the store on Tues. viruses’ sun. I snuggle her every night, or course satisfy her sexually, make her coffee, (which I do not drink). There is a lot more but this is the latest. How can I show her that I love her more and I understand her, care what she does, but not lose so much sleep anymore when my body is so tired and in pain. I don’t not want her to feel this way, and I don’t want to be dumb either and obviously be ignore and not satisfying her needs. Please help if you have a min. Please.

Maybe she would like to Send IMs and be naughty too.

 

[sanjuaneros]

this is serious.

 

[mischeviousmisti]

i feel for you. at many times i feel like your wife, wanting attention that isnt' always there. my hubby works a lot too. just set her down and tell her you love her and how you really feel, if you're just too tired or sick to really have a conversation or go out then tell her. she'll appreciate the honesty. cuddle with her lots and look at her lovingly a lot, that doesn take much energy and goes a long way. us women really enjoy little things like that. it may seem like we expect sooo very much but in reality the little things are key. she needs to appreciate you too, and should be more understanding. it sounds like you are a wonderful husband, who happens to be very very busy too. just talk to her about it and like i said cuddle. cuddling fixes everything (well just about everything).

 

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[Angel]

Re: Re: Question for married women

Maybe she would like to Send IMs and be naughty too.

Nice job.

 

[sanjuaneros]

i feel for you. at many times i feel like your wife, wanting attention that isnt' always there. my hubby works a lot too. just set her down and tell her you love her and how you really feel, if you're just too tired or sick to really have a conversation or go out then tell her. she'll appreciate the honesty. cuddle with her lots and look at her lovingly a lot, that doesn take much energy and goes a long way. us women really enjoy little things like that. it may seem like we expect sooo very much but in reality the little things are key. she needs to appreciate you too, and should be more understanding. it sounds like you are a wonderful husband, who happens to be very very busy too. just talk to her about it and like i said cuddle. cuddling fixes everything (well just about everything).

That you, i have just sent heran email about this post. My wife is eveythingto me, besides our kids.I want her to know that, and I will try to talk a little more about taking a day off for us

 

[sanjuaneros]

Working 135 hours a week? that leaves less then a couple house of sleep and relax, and you have Lukemia??

Good God man, swallow the debt, quit your job and get a normal 8 hour a day job, and live life .

I would love to. We have 13 kids. 3 were adopted, and one of our daughters needs therapy. 2 years go one of the triplets were murdered, so you can see my family needs stability. I don’t want to lose the house or let them down. I don’t want my wife to feel neglected or not be a good husband.

 

[sanjuaneros]

Re: Re: Question for married women

Maybe she would like to Send IMs and be naughty too.

We do that,

 

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[sanjuaneros]

Its not going to be stable if you fall over dead.

True, but I want them taken care of when I am gone.

 

[Lasher]

Quit your job.

Sell the kids.

Get a cat.

You'll all be much happier that way. (except for the poor kitty)

 

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[sanjuaneros]

ummmmmmmmm life insurance?

Have that

 

[sanjuaneros]

k you've forced me to give you examples:
1. you hold me right
2. you sexually satisfy me right
3. you love me perfectly
4. you make me feel like i'm on top of the world
5. you treat me as if i'm the most precious thing in your life
6. you are an awesome father
7. you are an awesome friend
8. if i need you, you will move heaven and earth to be there for me
9. if i need to laugh or smile-you give me that
10. you are perfect for me(my male version of mary poppins)

i'm not saying that we don't communicate well all of the time and i'm not saying that you Never talk to me or anything like that, it just seems to grow more and more as time goes by. that's it. but it doesn't mean that you can't do anything right. to me, you can't really do anything wrong

Nita





This her reply,(wife) I am still a little lost.

 

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[sanjuaneros]

Quit your job.

Sell the kids.

Get a cat.

You'll all be much happier that way. (except for the poor kitty)

Want some kids, there cute, and housebroken!

 

[sanjuaneros]

Then that should be enough to take care of them when you are gone. They need YOU, money isnt everything, Working 20 hours a day? When exactly do you have time to come on Lit?

Im at work

 

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[WhatsHerName]

What kind of work do you do that allows you to work so many consecutive hours?

 

[sanjuaneros]

Um, well if you work, maybe you can get done sooner and go home?

Funny. i am done at the moment

 

[sanjuaneros]

What kind of work do you do that allows you to work so many consecutive hours?

Financial Advisor Level IIII

 

[sanjuaneros]

Now that I am feeling totally inadequate, going home and wait for the wife.