Question for Married bi/cock curious guys

[HerLittlePiggy]

Some of you know me from my stories and the posts I have made here at Lit. I have told the story of my awakening as a bicurious man. It came with some help from a very open minded woman who saw something that I had never before considered. She is one of two people who know me in real life and know of my curiosity. The other is a gay guy who lives 400 miles away. I shared my secret with him years ago and he has said he would love to be my first. In fact, he has never been with a woman but he is curious what it would be like and would love to have a threesome with me and another girl who would be his first.

That being said, my stories are merely the product of a very active and very vivid imagination as I have never even seen another man naked and aroused. I am married and my wife does not know of my desires. I do not know how she would react but she is not interested in swinging, swapping, group sex or a polyamorous relationship in any way so it is not really worth telling her and risking he freaking out. My fantasies will stay just that...but...

I will be traveling on business Sunday to the city where my gay friend lives and the opportunity to make my fantasy a reality exists but I will not jump at it for two reasons.

1. I am married and don't want to cheat.
2. Pandora's Box what if I really like it and find I need more.

So my question is...guys what would you do? BTW, he is a good looking guy with a nice body and a nice average cock.

 

[Metawampe]

That's a tough one. If that little voice inside your head (the big one, not the little head) is telling you not to do it, I guess you should listen to it. If you were single and unattached or your SO has given you permission to play, I'd say go for it. Just my opinion, take it or leave it.

 

[bb4ls]

Do not do it. Guilt will kill you. You need your wife's blessing

 

[bicuriouscd]

I have to agee with the others , don't cheat on your wife
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[Mr. Briggs]

Don't do it.

 

[liteman7]

Don't!

The fact that you already feel strongly that you shouldn't indulge yourself makes it imperative that you not give in to your curiosity and lust. Really, you would be wracked by guilt to the point where you might feel that confession would be a good thing. That too would be self-indulgent and would probably devastate your wife.

 

[bidaddy]

Some of you know me from my stories and the posts I have made here at Lit. I have told the story of my awakening as a bicurious man. It came with some help from a very open minded woman who saw something that I had never before considered. She is one of two people who know me in real life and know of my curiosity. The other is a gay guy who lives 400 miles away. I shared my secret with him years ago and he has said he would love to be my first. In fact, he has never been with a woman but he is curious what it would be like and would love to have a threesome with me and another girl who would be his first.

That being said, my stories are merely the product of a very active and very vivid imagination as I have never even seen another man naked and aroused. I am married and my wife does not know of my desires. I do not know how she would react but she is not interested in swinging, swapping, group sex or a polyamorous relationship in any way so it is not really worth telling her and risking he freaking out. My fantasies will stay just that...but...

I will be traveling on business Sunday to the city where my gay friend lives and the opportunity to make my fantasy a reality exists but I will not jump at it for two reasons.

1. I am married and don't want to cheat.
2. Pandora's Box what if I really like it and find I need more.

So my question is...guys what would you do? BTW, he is a good looking guy with a nice body and a nice average cock.

1. tell your wife. 2. if you like it,work it out with the wife. she loves you she will want to see you happy. who knows you may open up her" Pandora's box" of stuff she may have dreamed about doing with you and other guys it worked for me

 

[Qyron]

If you feel that cheating on your wife is wrong, than I'm not afraid to say that you should not indulge yourself and chase that fantasy with your friend. That is a pretty good sign that you will feel guilty if you do it and guilt will eventually lead you to confess your mistake and that is guaranteed to ruin your relationship with your wife.

But, if you really have those fantasies, carefully and calmly, share it with your wife. Lack of dialogue is the most current situation between married couples. Share your deepest, darkest feelings with her, but assure her at all times - and I can't stress this enough - at all times that you love her and she is the only significant person in your life.