Question for Lit Women

[Mensa]

How many of you would gladly watch as another woman fucked your lover? Would you find this erotic? Would you be paranoid about it?

How much does the answer rely upon a woman's security with her sexuality and her relationship with her lover? Or is it just morality and need for monogamy that prevents women receiving pleasure from such activity?

Time to see what's on the flip side, lavy.

 

[lavender]

 

[Silverlily]

One of two things would happen.

1. I'd shoot her

2. I'd take her from him and make her mine.



I told you men were not the only possessive and teritorial beings on the planet.

 

[Siren]

I will answer

 

[Mensa]

Slight difference

1. I'd shoot her





I told you men were not the only possessive and teritorial beings on the planet.

Nowhere on the male thread did we get homicidal

 

[T.H. Oughts]

If I could enjoy her too and I knew that there would not be anything happening when I wasn't around... I think it would be okay. But we would have to both be very comfortable of who the other woman was.

It would be something discussed before hand for sure. Not something that would happen with a glance across the room.

 

[Silverlily]

Re: Slight difference

Nowhere on the male thread did we get homicidal

You lack commitment

 

[perks]

depends on the lover. My ultimate lover....hell yes I would. I would love to be there...share in that experience. By share, I don't necessarily mean join in<although that would be...incredible> I just mean watching, masturbating.....talking with him afterward...fucking him afterward....puRRRR.

I've been in a relationship before where my lover couldn't handle fucking another person in front of me. Obviously it didn't last.

as for the relationship I am in now, it is traditional...and I know he wouldn't go for it. It is not in his makeup.

But as for me, I wish it were so.

I might experience that one day.
perky

 

[morninggirl5]

My first thought was yeah, shoot her. But then I realized if he had pushed me that far against my values and ethics, she can have him. I'm looking for someone else.

 

[Rubyfruit]

I've been on the receiving end of this a few times.

Mostly, I am very happy to see my lover pleasured by another.

The one time I got jealous was when she was a 19 year old black (fetish of R's) athlete. This little girl had a body to die for and I have to admit pangs of jealous as I watched her ride my husband's cock.

However, she was lacking in passion. She could ride his cock like nobody's business, but she was not there emotionally.

What was the question again, Mensa?

 

[Mensa]

I can sympathise

I've been on the receiving end of this a few times.

Mostly, I am very happy to see my lover pleasured by another.

The one time I got jealous was when she was a 19 year old black (fetish of R's) athlete. This little girl had a body to die for and I have to admit pangs of jealous as I watched her ride my husband's cock.

However, she was lacking in passion. She could ride his cock like nobody's business, but she was not there emotionally.

What was the question again, Mensa?

I kind of got lost in that story too. Great visuals!

 

[AusTess]

Ohhhhhhhhh god i can think of nothing i'd rather see more,no shit.
I've practically begged him to do this for me,to no avail.


In my head though,they look fantastic together.*l*
And i haven't given up yet.

 

[asphaltangel]

I agree with Siren You definetly have to be confident in your OWN sexuality and that your relationship will only be enhanced by having a 3rd join in!!! Personally I get drippin wet watching another woman ride the white pony. But my old man also gets rock hard watching me eat that pussy too!!!
Candy

 

[AusTess]

You people make me SICK!





*Whispers quietly*
how do i get my husband to play that way?
*Whines*

yes,i'm a whiney Aussie bitch.
So i been told.

 

[Mensa]

Now you see it, now you don't

My ex would never have agreed to something like that! Of course it could have been because she always hated to see me having a good time. That's also the reason she closed her eyes during our lovemaking.

 

[Siren]

Hahaha Mensie

 

[Laurel]

Re: Re: Slight difference

You lack commitment

It's lines like that that make me want to shoot KE's man and make her mine.

And I'm straight.

 

[Laurel]

Re: Now you see it, now you don't

My ex would never have agreed to something like that! Of course it could have been because she always hated to see me having a good time. That's also the reason she closed her eyes during our lovemaking.

See above post.

 

[TheDR4KE]

watching you watching me

I missed the other thread, so I'm going to add my two cents here

depends on the lover. My ultimate lover....hell yes I would. I would love to be there...share in that experience. By share, I don't necessarily mean join in<although that would be...incredible> I just mean watching, masturbating.....talking with him afterward...fucking him afterward....puRRRR.

And that's the key, isn't it. It's an experience, and one that you can share, or let your other half enjoy, if you know that your love is strong enough and your attitudes to sex rich enough to seperate the physical indulgence from what really matters in a relationship: trust, helping each other grow, sharing, care, etc etc etc.

I also think it would be amazing to watch my ultimate lover with a man or a woman. Either just to watch, or also to join in. Mmm purrrrrRRRRRRGROWLLllllll.

as for the relationship I am in now, it is traditional...and I know he wouldn't go for it. It is not in his makeup.

But as for me, I wish it were so.

Ditto. (Replace 'he' and 'his' with 'she' and 'her'.)

I might experience that one day.

I wish for you that you do.

Drakey

 

[Aphrodisiac]

How many of you would gladly watch as another woman fucked your lover? Would you find this erotic? Would you be paranoid about it?

No ... I would not watch my man be with another woman ... not the man I have now. He is mine ... all mine, when it comes to this one man I don't share. There is some thing about this one I really like ... so no sharing on my side.

If it was one of my " ex's " ... they did not mean that much so I would watch with another woman. I would do more then watch I would send him out for some thing so I could have my way with the woman.

 

[JennyOmanHill]

I definitely would NOT want to see my man with anyone else! I also expect him to feel the same way about me! Flirting is fun, but when it comes down to trusting and really loving someone, I would not enjoy watching him get his pleasure with anyone else.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Question for Lit Women

No ... I would not watch my man be with another woman ... not the man I have now. He is mine ... all mine, when it comes to this one man I don't share. There is some thing about this one I really like ... so no sharing on my side.

If it was one of my " ex's " ... they did not mean that much so I would watch with another woman. I would do more then watch I would send him out for some thing so I could have my way with the woman.

Maybe you love him, A? That would be the deal breaker for me. If I was truly in love with him, then I would have a very hard time sharing.

Only a lover? No problems. It would probably turn me on. Although I will always prefer two men and me

Cassidy

 

[TheDR4KE]

Only a lover? No problems. It would probably turn me on. Although I will always prefer two men and me

Maybe that question should be rephrased ...

How many of you would gladly watch as another person fucked your lover?

Hmm?

Drake

 

[MidnightAngel]

No, I don't think I would like to watch someone else fuck my lover. Ok....let me rephrase that.....HELL NO! Does that mean I'm not secure in my sexuality or my ability to please him? I don't think that it does. Does that mean I'm a jealous bitch who doesn't share well? Probably! IMO, the fact that he wants only me means something special to me; and I think that would take away from that feeling.

 

[SweetBrat73]

I don't believe a woman's security with her sexuality and her relationship have anything to do with another woman fucking her man. If you love each other it's just plain wrong...unless you are both into that sort of thing...I believe that if you love someone then you don't go out and have sex with anyone else...why would you want to??? And as kitten said...I'd shoot her...and the only reason you didn't get that on one of the male threads is cause all men are pigs LoL I'm kidding about that...I can't group them all in there

If my lover wanted to watch me with another man that would be the end of our relationship. As earlier as I can remember I've wanted a threesome with 2 guys...and my SO said he'd make that come true for me if I really wanted it...I was sick...I no longer even find other men as attractive as my SO. I really wouldn't want to have sex with another man. And I'm really not going to watch my lover with another woman!!! Even if we broke up I'd have to kill anybody he became lovers with after me LoL

Ok that's my 2 cents.

Brat