Question for all the women here.

[Cfnmlover84]

What do you think motivates older women to cheat with younger male strippers.

I'm writing a series of cfnm older woman/younger male strippers stories. So i want to know why some women behave that way.

 

[NotWise]

What do you think motivates older women to cheat with younger male strippers.

I'm writing a series of cfnm older woman/younger male strippers stories. So i want to know why some women behave that way.

Are older women motivated to cheat with younger male strippers?

 

[litfan10]

What do you think motivates older women to cheat with younger male strippers.

I'm writing a series of cfnm older woman/younger male strippers stories. So i want to know why some women behave that way.

Name one of the strippers "Everest" and the reason she cheats is because he's there.

 

[Cfnmlover84]

Are older women motivated to cheat with younger male strippers?

My close friend used to be a male stripper and most of the women in the audience were 40+ and married.

 

[litfan10]

What do you think motivates older women to cheat with younger male strippers.

I'm writing a series of cfnm older woman/younger male strippers stories. So i want to know why some women behave that way.

For a truly serious answer, you need to understand your characters better. Develop them in your mind as fully as possible. Trust me, at some point she'll tell you why she is cheating.

My best writing is done when I let my characters tell me what they want to do, not me forcing them to do things. In fact I once got into a jam when my main character fought me hard until I realized she would never do what I was trying to make her do. Once I listened, the story took off in direction much better than what I had planned.

 

[NotWise]

My close friend used to be a male stripper and most of the women in the audience were 40+ and married.

Who cheated? Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[Cfnmlover84]

Who cheated? Inquiring minds want to know.

The women in the crowd, Most of them were 40+ years old, My friend said older women tend to be the ones most likely to give blowjobs at male stripper shows.

 

[dp4shelly]

The same reason men do

What do you think motivates older women to cheat with younger male strippers.

I'm writing a series of cfnm older woman/younger male strippers stories. So i want to know why some women behave that way.

The only reason this can even be a question is because society has tried to make the concept of a woman that likes to fuck very taboo. Guys love to fuck. We love to fuck too. Simple as that.

 

[NotWise]

The women in the crowd, Most of them were 40+ years old, My friend said older women tend to be the ones most likely to give blowjobs at male stripper shows.

And how is that cheating?

 

[Cfnmlover84]

The only reason this can even be a question is because society has tried to make the concept of a woman that likes to fuck very taboo. Guys love to fuck. We love to fuck too. Simple as that.

Yes, I've found from personal experience that older women are not as closed off as people like to think, There's nothing wrong about a woman who enjoys sex.

 

[Vix_Giovanni]

And how is that cheating?

Good question. I’m interested in the connection between the two, too.

 

[Cfnmlover84]

And how is that cheating?

So you don't think a married woman sucking whip cream off a stripper's cock is cheating. Please explain?

 

[KeithD]

So you don't think a married woman sucking whip cream off a stripper's cock is cheating. Please explain?

You didn't specify married women in your original posting.

The question is rather silly, though. Why would you question that there are older women, married or not, who are quite happy to have sex with younger men and especially male strippers? We even have a term for them--cougar. Besides, if you're writing a story, it's within your power to have such willingness/attraction as a given for the story.

That's enough of a "duh" to suggest you are just trolling for cyber hookups here rather than a writer writing a story.

 

[Cfnmlover84]

You didn't specify married women in your original posting.

The question is rather silly, though. Why would you question that there are older women, married or not, who are quite happy to have sex with younger men and especially male strippers? We even have a term for them--cougar. Besides, if you're writing a story, it's within your power to have such willingness/attraction as a given for the story.

That's enough of a "duh" to suggest you are just trolling for cyber hookups here rather than a writer writing a story.

I'm actually working on a story with an editor that's close to getting published, I just like hearing people's different views on the topic. I'm not a troll.

 

[Jada59]

I have no clue. I have no use for strippers or cheating. That being said, I used to know a male stripper. He's gay and said most mail strippers are.

 

[Jada59]

The only reason this can even be a question is because society has tried to make the concept of a woman that likes to fuck very taboo. Guys love to fuck. We love to fuck too. Simple as that.

Yep.

 

[Cfnmlover84]

I have no clue. I have no use for strippers or cheating. That being said, I used to know a male stripper. He's gay and said most mail strippers are.

I know a male stripper too, He said some of his co-workers also strip for gay clubs.

 

[yukonnights]

For a truly serious answer, you need to understand your characters better. Develop them in your mind as fully as possible. Trust me, at some point she'll tell you why she is cheating.

My best writing is done when I let my characters tell me what they want to do, not me forcing them to do things. In fact I once got into a jam when my main character fought me hard until I realized she would never do what I was trying to make her do. Once I listened, the story took off in direction much better than what I had planned.

This is the best answer so far, IMO.

The problem I see in some writers is the tendency to try to 'think about' the emotions/reasons/thoughts/motivations in a sterile technical way (just the facts mam, don't get all mushy on me ) — instead of trying to 'experience them as that character'. One way is distant, the other intimate. I think this empathetic connection with the character is what it takes to truly "understand the character's motives, doubts, fears, lustful desires, etc.". Without that intimate understanding, the words will likely be dry and uninspiring at best and just plain wrong at the worst.

Both methods will produce a story. And there's no guaranties that empathetic connection between author and characters will produce the desired outcome, but that's what works best for me. (and sadly, I have no idea how to teach that to anyone.)

 

[ElectricBlue]

Both methods will produce a story. And there's no guaranties that empathetic connection between author and characters will produce the desired outcome, but that's what works best for me. (and sadly, I have no idea how to teach that to anyone.)

Someone only has to read your content, Yukon, to understand empathy. You underestimate your qualities as a teacher, my friend .

 

[ElectricBlue]

He's gay and said most mail strippers are.

So that's why my postie looks so flamboyant on his bike. And I thought the Hi-Viz vest was a safety thing .

 

[gordo12]

That's enough of a "duh" to suggest you are just trolling for cyber hookups here rather than a writer writing a story.

No, he isn't. He gave me an idea for a Valentine's story in the idea section and let a couple of us write our versions. He also reached out to me with this question last week.

I had no idea so I SUGGESTED he post it here.

 

[GuessImJamie]

The imaginative, if not reality based, minds of male erotic fiction authors.

 

[dp4shelly]

It is not about age...

Yes, I've found from personal experience that older women are not as closed off as people like to think, There's nothing wrong about a woman who enjoys sex.

It is not just "older women" that are "not as closed off as people would like to think."

Inadvertently you identify a core reason for this perception about women... it is what people LIKE TO THINK.

Both men and women have been brainwashed into thinking that men love sex and women don't.

So women restrain themselves from the natural enjoyment of sex in order to live up to a social expectation.

But biologically it is unnatural and untrue. Women of ALL AGES are just as capable of loving sex as men do. It is only social suppression that has warped how many women view sex.

 

[CoffeeWithMonkeys]

The women in the crowd, Most of them were 40+ years old, My friend said older women tend to be the ones most likely to give blowjobs at male stripper shows.

Young attractive guy giving an older married woman attention that she may or may not be getting at home, most are going to cheat.

 

[J_R_Ashunwhy]

What do you think motivates older women to cheat with younger male strippers.

I'm writing a series of cfnm older woman/younger male strippers stories. So i want to know why some women behave that way.

I have so many questions, mostly because of the broad generalizations being used in your posts, I think.

Having your boytoys present as strippers already does make your powerplay exchange...easier, I guess. I mean, it kind of takes away from any deeper aspect of why the individuals involved prefer that kind of kink dynamic, and allows for you as the author to just jump straight into play. So, if that portion is so beautifully uncomplicated, why bollocks up the rest of it?

What is causing your ladies, specifically, to cheat with younger men? Are they actually attached to someone else and so would be considered cheating by their partner? Are they just watching, or actually engaging in other forms of play? What are their sex lives like at home, and what are they missing from their partner? Who is starting/leading the scene? Are your strippers just haplessly following direction? Why? Why is the male being younger such a draw? Is that really important to the plot?