Question about where to find "special" info/contacts

[Guest]

Hello everyone,

I'm a regular on the GB but due to special circumstances I'd prefer not to reveal my identity. And no, I'm not yayati. ;-)

Lately I have realised how much being Sub turns me on and with one guy, a one-night stand, I took it a step further and over the past few weeks I have come to realise that I'm into being tortured. I <KNOW> that there is a difference between Dom/Sub and a Sadist thingy but I'm just here to ask you a small favour.

Do any of you know about any webgroups or pay-free sites where one can meet other people who are into being tortured or where I can find online or 'real' Sadists?

I hope you won't condemn me for what I take pleasure from.



Thank you very much in advance.

 

[Hecate]

Hello there ,

and nice to see you remembered this little Lit corner *s*....

Geeeeee... we and condemn anyone for craving sensation (= our nicer word for pain) !!!????

You have realised well that not necessarily dominance and submission are into the game when sadism and masochism are involved, but the BDSM does contain sadism and masochism as well - so you are definitely RIGHT! here.

As for special places to go online and real - I unfortunately am not sure ... but I BET you will find a lot of what you are looking for following the "regular" BDSM links on the web. There should be sub-categories for S&M, so just look out for those.

If you seek the real thing, I guess a personal at alt.com may be ok - though in my opinion specially for masochist people hooking up with a fully fledged unknown sadist is really a bit ... uhm ... edgy I would think. So if you intend to go there make sure you know EXACTLY what you want - how far you want to go and make sure youhave all safety features (safety calls - ID of your play partner etc.) set up and in order. After all you are intending to give someon permission to hurt you (badly, depending on how far you want to go) basically.

As it is with all this BDSM thing - make sure in advance you know what you really want - torturing can be all from being relentlessly tickled for some to drawing blood for others - so if you agree to get involved with anyone real time in this SET YOUR LIMITS clear, and loud and without wavering!

All else I am sure you will find either by serching around this board for sadism / masochism - or by simply putting those into google ....

Have fun - but stay SAFE!



edited for spelling

 

[RisiaSkye]

I would also recommend bondage.com, where you can place a personal and complete a rather specific and extensive checklist of your desires, limits, and the kind of person you're physically attracted to.

And please be sure to heed Hecate's advice about safety protocol. You *are* entering into dangerous space whenever you meet someone new for the first time; that risk is exponentially multiplied when looking online for an edgy sadist to be your Top. Make sure to establish contact first, build rapport, get personal information about them before you meet, and set up a safe-call with someone you trust.

Good luck to you, and feel free to come back--whether or not you post under your GB name.