Question about what turns you on about bieng the tormentor.

[Milkdrops1]

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[MasterPhoenix]

I love the feeling of power... and she loves the feeling of helplessness...

 

[rosco rathbone]

Your post is all about how she feels. Why do YOU like tormenting her?

 

[s_red830]

I love his helplessness and vulnerability, and I love to mess with him.

 

[ABX]

Your post is all about how she feels. Why do YOU like tormenting her?

Well for me at least, a large part of why I like commanding my girlfriend, tying her down, all that... a large part of why I like that is how strongly she reacts. It's amazing how hot it can get her, and how quickly, and that in turn turns me on hugely. The ability to have that much of an effect on someone... it is the feeling of power, but it's a very emotional power, the ability to make her react so strongly, make her feel so good, rather than the power to physically manhandle her.

Of course I have the power to manhandle her. I'm a good six inches taller. That's no surprise. But the sheer force of emotion... that gets me every time.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Try the Delving into the Psyche of Sadists thread.

It's a brilliant Thread .

 

[neonflux]

Try the Delving into the Psyche of Sadists thread.

It's a brilliant Thread .

I agree!!! I think that this link should work...

 

[Betticus]

What about absence of emotion?

 

[Netzach]

I like the begging a lot. I like when it turns from kind of lame rehearsed pseudo-begging to real live honest to God BEGGING. For the orgasm after four days or four hours, or to NOT have to wear that out in public, or to go to the bathroom after holding pee after 3 starbucks. I like to feel like my opinion and my permission really....

really...

matters.

 

[s_red830]

Well for me at least, a large part of why I like commanding my girlfriend, tying her down, all that... a large part of why I like that is how strongly she reacts. It's amazing how hot it can get her, and how quickly, and that in turn turns me on hugely. The ability to have that much of an effect on someone... it is the feeling of power, but it's a very emotional power, the ability to make her react so strongly, make her feel so good, rather than the power to physically manhandle her.

Of course I have the power to manhandle her. I'm a good six inches taller. That's no surprise. But the sheer force of emotion... that gets me every time.

I agree. It's that ultimate power you get when someone puts passion in your hands.

 

[Bredon]

I love when someone kneels at my feet-- I love to feel my power, and to be in control. I don't want my sub to struggle or only a bit, I want them to obey. I love the fact that they like to get treated that way.

Bredon

 

[Netzach]

Honestly, every time I've ever felt emotionally if not physically "on bottom" has been really really horrible for me. Life's too short for crap sex.

 

[neonflux]

What about absence of emotion?

Betticus, what do you mean? I'm sorry I'm being so dense... Neon