Question about uncircumsized men

[breezybee]

I'm a long time lurker hoping that someone can help. I recently started dating a man who is uncircumsized and I haven't actually ever been with a man who wasn't circumsized before. My question is, what do you do differently? Specifically I am asking about oral sex but would appreciate pointers for everything else too. During oral sex do you move the foreskin down or do you leave it in place and does it get in the way? Your tips would be much appreciated because I don't want to do anything to injure him!

 

[mack7544]

mack7544

I like the woman to work my foreskin back while she gives head. It's very exciting for me to watch her work it back and fourth as she sucks it.

 

[breezybee]

mack7544

Not to be picky but what do you mean? She works it back and forth with her mouth or her hands? Details please. Thanks.

 

[mack7544]

She uses her hands and her mouth. licking and sucking the head when she gets the foreskin back

 

[mack7544]

It feels great, and I love watching her do it. Its so sexy to watch her. She really loves to just play with it pulling it back and fourth.

 

[human_male]

You just have to be a little careful because the foreskin protects the head so it's gonna be more sensitive than a cut one.

Him having a foreskin gives you an opportunity to do something really cool though. While blowing him, slip your tongue under it and circle it around and around the head.

 

[breezybee]

Ok this is helpful. Now is the foreskin itself sensitive? My understanding is that it is. How gentle/not gentle do you have to be? Please keep these tips coming because they are great. Blow jobs are something I enjoy immensely and I can't wait to get started on this man.

 

[breezybee]

Another questions

I should have added this question to my original post. Reading through the many threads I have seen, more than once, uncut men post about how they can't orgasm from blow jobs. Is this common? My fingers are crossed that it isn't!

 

[luv1]

It's not just the skin that's sensitive but the head is very sensitive so pay attention to licking around the head and under. Just roll the foreskin back (not hard, don't worry it can go back quite far) ask the guy how your doing, there's nothing wrong in asking it's how we all learn about our new loves. Just don't rip it Oh and use plenty of saliva. There's nothing worst then a dry wank/blow.

 

[luv1]

I should have added this question to my original post. Reading through the many threads I have seen, more than once, uncut men post about how they can't orgasm from blow jobs. Is this common? My fingers are crossed that it isn't!

It's all about technique, but say that I've never cum from a blow job. Slime love, make it slippy and use more tongue on the head, remember it's sensitive.

 

[breezybee]

Rip it?!!!!

Does that actually happen? The head is where I normally concentrate my efforts, particularly with my tongue. Of course, I like to make sure that no areas are neglected. Should you play with the foreskin with your tongue before you roll it back? Does that feel good?

I will be asking him how I'm doing but given that I'm a woman in her 30's I don't want to seem like a complete idiot.

 

[luv1]

Don't worry about it, I hear it's not common for men in America to have a foreskin and yes sticking you tongue and licking in then around the head is nice As for the ripping that all depends on how fast and hard you pumping with your hand I remember when my first GF saw my cock. She played with the foreskin for ages, I loved the look of wonder on her face.

 

[human_male]

You don't have to be too worried about being extra gentle with the head (it's the head that's sensitive, not the foreskin itself), just if you were giving him a handjob lets say, you wouldn't want to just rub the unsheathed head with your hand like you could probably do with a circumsized one. Lips and tongue aren't gonna hurt. As mentioned above just be a little careful pulling it back just in case his is unusually tight.

Here are my general blowjob tips in case you're interested.

Remember that you don't just move your mouth up and down on it. You must apply suction. If you watch the girls on the movies you'll notice their cheeks collapsed inward, that's what you want. Working the head's good but don't forget the shaft. The perfect time for that is when you start and he might be still small and soft and you can get the entire penis in your mouth. Suck the whole thing in and out, working all the way up and down it. Once it's fully erect maybe concentrate on the head. Don't worry too much about flicking your tongue over it (unless he particularly likes that) just suck. Suck and work it with your mouth.

For added effect act like it's totally turning your on. Constantly make noises e.g. "mmmmmmm, mmmmmmm, mmmmmmm." Stop now and again to look at it and pant breathlessly going "oh god, oh god." Make lots of eye contact while you're doing it. Don't be shy, show him how much you're loving it. Play with yourself while you're doing it (if circumstances allow). Lots of saliva is good too. When you work some up in your mouth don't swallow it and don't be embarrassed by it. A sloppy bj is a good bj.

Yep tongue under the foreskin is great, as well as pulling it back and sucking the head. Fondling the balls while you're doing it would be good too. Something else you might try is when you first start the job put the penis to your lips and purse your lips, then apply suction and let the suction draw the penis into your mouth, then start the long, slow luxurious sucking, building in speed and momentum as you go. Just remember... suction, enthusiasm, and mind the teeth.

If you're worried that he doesn't manage to cum from this (although I kinda imagine he will) don't take it as a failing on your part. Sometimes a more firm grip on the penis is required than a mouth can manage, so you could try (when he's getting there) grip the base of the shaft in your hand and jack it as you suck the head. That ought to do it.

Let us know how you go and good luck. He's a lucky guy.

 

[breezybee]

Thanks Human Male

Thanks for the helpful information.

Believe me, I won't have to act like it's turning me on because it does in a huge way. I can't think of anything I would rather have in my mouth (except maybe ice cream).

I have never had a problem making a man cum with my mouth and I do all of things you described (and more) but you have certainly explained to me about how to treat the foreskin.

I will definitely let you know how it turns out.

 

[luv1]

Er...I don't want to be blowing my own trumpet, or spam. But in my sig I have a link to a thread I make the other day (while under the spell of booze) on my...*cough* member. So if you want to see how a foreskin is used then you can take a look *cough* Well I thought I'd never use my own penis as a learning aid

 

[breezybee]

Luv1

Wow, I love your pictures. Absolutely beautifu! All of your information along with your pictorial how-to is making me hot and should get me started in the right direction when the time comes. Unfortunately, given our schedules, we aren't able to get together too often. I will certainly provide a play-by-play when we do.

If you think of anything else I should know, please tell me.

 

[wolf2002]

If you think of anything else I should know, please tell me.

Just to add, in my case the tip of the foreskin is very sensitive, which makes it a delicious spot to be licked, also when the skin is pulled back... you can move your tongue over the area where the skin meets the exposed cockhead... mmm

Also in my case the foreskin should be pulled back in order to cum, if not you miss the chance of a shooting orgasm...

Good luck! Wolf

 

[ladylust20]

My BF is uncircumsized.... During orals, I push his foreskin down =) and that does the trick!

 

[luv1]

Wow, I love your pictures. Absolutely beautifu! All of your information along with your pictorial how-to is making me hot and should get me started in the right direction when the time comes. Unfortunately, given our schedules, we aren't able to get together too often. I will certainly provide a play-by-play when we do.

If you think of anything else I should know, please tell me.

Thanks. I don't understand American men who want to have it cut? Some guy told me he had it done to desensitize himself so he can last long....."Mate just learn some breath control or something." They are really missing out. Having a woman lightly lick the underside of my cock head sends a massive eletric shock up the spin and then there's having it lightly tickled with a brush, or rubbing over the pubic hair of a woman, feeling all those hairs ...er...*cough* sorry, I seem to be getting carried away

 

[breezybee]

Ladylust, if you don't mind would you be able to detail how you push the foreskin down during oral? My biggest concern is I don't want to injure this man. Once I push it down, do I leave it down or do men enjoy continued play with it throught the blow job?

Wolf, the tips are great and you are right, I don't want to miss the shooting orgasm. That would be like having a wonderful meal at a 5 star restaurant and not getting any of the dessert you've been eyeing all evening at the end.

 

[Eilan]

I don't understand American men who want to have it cut?

For a lot of American men, the choice was made for them at birth.

 

[coolbluewaters]

I have been with my man whom is uncircumcised for awhile now, the only thing different from "cut" men is the fact that you kind of have to be carefull about pulling the skin back he usually will tell me when I pulled too far back. other wise then that make sure that you make it nice and wet when you are giving him oral sex, I know that my man doesnt like to feel his skin rubbing against the tip of his penis with out some lube there like saliva. And there is a difference when putting a condom on too, i know that he likes the skin to be pulled all the way up when putting the condom on too, I usually put it on and little extra lube inside the condom never hurt. Just ask him if you are really really unsure about if you are going to hurt him or not.

 

[tinaxxx]

i haven't been with an uncut guy in a lil bit, but just pull back the skin... but make sure he is clean cuz it can get rather dirty