Put your money where you mouth is?

[yui]

The romance in my fantasies will be significantly tarnished, upon acting them out, when law enforcement arrives and incarcerates me for public indecency, lewd and lascivious behavior, etc…

 

[sophia jane]

The romance in my fantasies will be significantly tarnished, upon acting them out, when law enforcement arrives and incarcerates me for public indecency, lewd and lascivious behavior, etc…

Law enforcement arriving...that is part of my fantasies...

SJ

 

[oggbashan]

Fantasies can be perfect because they are fantasy.

Real life encounters can be perfect as well if both of you are ready to accept and communicate what is good for you. Unfortunately that sort of communication is rare.

Recently I was reading about Rasputin. He lost his virginity to a noblewoman who seduced him. He was willing and stripped. She had him overpowered by six of her maids before she mounted his 13 inch tool. He made love to all seven that night and they seemed satisfied. My fantasy from that? An operational 13 incher that can perform well enough to satisfy seven women in one night. I think the stories about Rasputin are fantasies. Whose?

In real life, if I had such equipment, where would I find seven willing women to satisfy? If I did, who would be the referee to ensure that all seven felt that each had been treated fairly? Imagine the arguments that could start in the presumably large bed. Satisfying one woman is hard enough. Satisfying seven? Impossible.

Og

 

[Softouch911]

Law enforcement arriving...that is part of my fantasies...

SJ

Hmmm .... seems like I recently read a pretty good story along that line.

Wish I could recall ....


Softie -- losing short term memory too ... oh, here it is! Sophia Jane's cop stories

 

[yui]

Law enforcement arriving...that is part of my fantasies...

SJ

Part of mine, too. It's the handcuffs and those nifty uniforms.
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However, jail and a cameo on "Cops" is where the fantasy falls apart.

 

[Joe Wordsworth]

I think an excellent question is whether or not all fantasies are alright to have.

 

[Softouch911]

I think an excellent question is whether or not all fantasies are alright to have.

HOw would you decide?

Softie -- Heah cum da judge

 

[OhMissScarlett]

In real life, if I had such equipment, where would I find seven willing women to satisfy? If I did, who would be the referee to ensure that all seven felt that each had been treated fairly? Imagine the arguments that could start in the presumably large bed. Satisfying one woman is hard enough. Satisfying seven? Impossible.

Og

I volunteer to be both referee and one of your harem of seven women. You just need one bossy chick to make sure everything goes as planned.

 

[~photoguy~]

only regret the things your DON'T try

(except for those that would get you arrested .... leave those as fantasies)

 

[English Lady]

Joe - good question. I don't know. (great lot of use I am then*L*) but I can imagine some fantasies are dangerous. I dunno. Fantasising about killing a person is probably a fairly dangerous fantasy to have.....but the question is can it do any damage if the fantasy stays as fantasy?

 

[yui]

(except for those that would get you arrested .... leave those as fantasies)

Damn.

 

[Joe Wordsworth]

I have rape fantasies. I always wonder about them, too.

 

[elsol]

I volunteer to be both referee and one of your harem of seven women. You just need one bossy chick to make sure everything goes as planned.

A long-standing fantasy of mine is:

A blonde, a redhead, a brunette... and a raven-haired bitch to ride herd over them.

I feel another Avatar-Inspired flash coming on...

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[English Lady]

I have rape fantasies. I always wonder about them, too.

hmmm. I guess it's ok if you realise it's a fantasy and don't go tracking down folk in alle's and actually doing it.

unless it's a consenting role play kinda thing...

 

[elsol]

I have rape fantasies. I always wonder about them, too.

I have 'reluctant' fantasies... that's where she needs to be convinced that she actually really does want to sleep with me because the orgasms are SOOOOO good.

Then again... these fantasies never pan out even in my fantasies; can't quite get over asking the question "So... do you want to fuck? Blink once for no... and 10 times for yes... anything other than EXACTLY ten times means no and by the way you have exactly one second to blink those 10 times... starting NOW!'

My reluc fantasies run counter my #1 fetish... willingness, specifically willingness to get all sweaty-like with me.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[elsol]

unless it's a consenting role play kinda thing...

It's so bad I can't even do 'consenting role play'...

I think I'm psychopathically against the thought of any type of 'unwillingness on her part'... I've even broken up with someone for agreeing to do something I KNEW she didn't want to do. (I didn't suggest it... she did... but in THAT way... and don't tell me you don't what way I'm talking about either.)

It made feel all... ooooogey!

Although, I have to say women do get very shocked that I always ask for a direct yes or no answer that first night.

"Hi... no pressure here... but do you want to fuck tonight?"

"uh... uh..."

"Okay... so that's a no... thanks, just needed to know."

"Wait, I didn't say no!"

"You didn't say yes... so you're not sure."

"Can we discuss this?"

"Sure, next time we go out. I'll ask the question again... be ready for it."

"What about tonight?"

"You seemed unsure... it's better to wait. I would appreciate if you think about it though. Again, ABSOLUTELY no pressure. I'm cool with just being friends, if that's all you want."

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[oggbashan]

I volunteer to be both referee and one of your harem of seven women. You just need one bossy chick to make sure everything goes as planned.

Thank you. Now all I need is six more volunteers. What is the odds that ALL of them will be bossy chicks? I think it is a virtual certainty if they volunteer via the AH.



Og

 

[Guest]

I have rape fantasies. I always wonder about them, too.

That was one of my "biggies". I say was, because I have played it out.

I emphasise, "played it out" because while it was role-played as a rape, I was very much consenting.

The pitch of it was excellent, though. Brilliant, in fact.

Find someone who is willing to play it out with you and attempt to make it as real as possible. It really can work, on a psychological level.

 

[English Lady]

You see I have rape fantasies. Yeah I like the idea of being taken roughly, violently by a stranger BUT I dont walk down dark alleys at night on my own or take short cuts through deserted fields or anything like that because I know that the reality is probably not gonna be anywhere near as arousing as the fantasy...and could end up with me being, well, dead at the firthest extreme.

 

[cloudy]

Thank you. Now all I need is six more volunteers. What is the odds that ALL of them will be bossy chicks? I think it is a virtual certainty if they volunteer via the AH.



Og

Yep, I'd volunteer, but I'm another bossy chick.

Just as an aside, I gotta tell this since we're talking about guys fulfilling their fantasies...

An ex-boyfriend is Danish, and they're very liberal over there about sex. Anyway, we were talking one day, and he asked me if I'd ever been in a threesome. I won't go into my answer here, but then I asked him the same thing, and he said he'd been to bed with three women once - they were all bi.

It was almost sad, but it was so damn funny - he told me that they all got so into each other that they pretty much forgot he was there. All I could think of was this BIG Dane, sitting there pouting, watching these three women that had forgotten all about him in their enjoyment of each other.

I still get the giggles thinking about it.

 

[elsol]

That was one of my "biggies". I say was, because I have played it out.

I emphasise, "played it out" because while it was role-played as a rape, I was very much consenting.

The pitch of it was excellent, though. Brilliant, in fact.

Find someone who is willing to play it out with you and attempt to make it as real as possible. It really can work, on a psychological level.

Yeap... my rape thing is DEFINITELY pathological.

Just this made me uncomfortable and it's littered with your WILLINGNESS.

Very strange... I think it's going to require a story to sort it out. That's usually the way I figure these things about myself out.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[elsol]

Thank you. Now all I need is six more volunteers. What is the odds that ALL of them will be bossy chicks? I think it is a virtual certainty if they volunteer via the AH.



Og

I volunteer to hold the camera... for the sake of prosterity, of course.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[Guest]

Yeap... my rape thing is DEFINITELY pathological.

Just this made me uncomfortable and it's littered with your WILLINGNESS.

Very strange... I think it's going to require a story to sort it out. That's usually the way I figure these things about myself out.

Sincerely,
ElSol

Yep, writing it out as a story sounds like a good idea to me.

 

[Softouch911]

Yep, writing it out as a story sounds like a good idea to me.

And if it turns out like mine do when I don't know where it's going, you can toss it on the pile I'm gonna burn ASAP.

Softie -- a new way to spell anal retentive

 

[Black Tulip]

Lou,

That sounds marvellous. I'm almost jealous of you.
Biggest issue would be trust, wouldn't it?

I know I haven't done anything with most fantasies, because I'd be scared as hell it would turn bad. So much for romance.