Put on the wrong mask

[Brandnewbuddy]

Not a literal mask but if you want to go that route you can. More your public mask and the one you wear for more private things.

For example: I’ve occasionally had clients who try to shock me by revealing they are swingers, or are in the local BDSM scene, or have a massive toy collection. My professional mask is on so I just go “okay. Remember to use protection and make sure you clean your toys regularly now let’s talk about your finances”

But what if one day my other mask slipped on? Like I just look at the toys and go: “bullshit you’ve ever used the horsecock that thing has literal dust on it. Oh, you’re into BDSM? Oh you have a flog? Adorable. Come back to me when you can cook bacon on your spanked red ass and every hole is looking like a messed up science project.”

So so stories like that. Housewives who drop the polite jabs and just yank the annoying neighbor between legs. Guys who suddenly spank their boss. Stuff like that

 

[liliput1]

I think the cool kids call it code switching?

What if you think you saw a woman at sex related locale or discord but you actually saw her at a meetup for a support group. Only she just goes along with it and you’re five lines in before you realize you’ve just crossed the streams?

 

[liliput1]

Example:

Support group video chat on Wednesday. There's drama.

Suze, a member of the group, waits until 2 am Friday to send you a text saying, "man, that was kinda nuts last night." Because all good insomniacs refuse to admit it's tomorrow until they've slept.

Only by the time you see this on Friday morning, 'last night' for you was Thursday Naked Time.

"Yeah," you answer, "I don't think I've ever seen her take a dildo that big."

Now your available reactions to a statement like this are:

a) ummm... what? I was talking about support group
b) just go with it
c) ask how big it was

She chooses C, and you think she means to compare guesses.

Yadda yadda yadda, you ask to meet her Friday night to ask her to please please not mention this to support group, and she thinks you had very different plans.