Pussy free or no sex in Cuckold or Hotwifing relationship

[Myuniversewithin]

Reading few posts about pussy free or no sex marriages in cuckolding relationship.

Like to understand the thought process behind woman asking for pussy free or no sex relationship after experiencing cuckolding or hotwifing lifestyle.

Is it real? It looks almost real in most cases/threads where in limiting sex with husband to less frequency or completely stopping it while enjoying with other guys.

 

[screwher]

To each their own, but I couldn’t imagine not having regular sex with my wife. Her sex with other men enhances our own sex life.

 

[FantasySharer1]

I think a version of this that could allow husbands to have regular sex with their hot wives while adding a level of jealousy/control that would heighten the cuckold experience, is that only the bulls get anal. Husband doesn't get to have anal ever. He gets PIV only but anal is only for her lovers.

Every time he looks at her ass, he'd know she's in control and something is off limits to him, but that he can still have her pussy, yet, not her asshole.

He could have be playful with her, slap her ass for fun at the kitchen counter, all while knowing - actually entering it is for her bulls only.

 

[twister947]

I think a version of this that could allow husbands to have regular sex with their hot wives while adding a level of jealousy/control that would heighten the cuckold experience, is that only the bulls get anal. Husband doesn't get to have anal ever. He gets PIV only but anal is only for her lovers.

Every time he looks at her ass, he'd know she's in control and something is off limits to him, but that he can still have her pussy, yet, not her asshole.

He could have be playful with her, slap her ass for fun at the kitchen counter, all while knowing - actually entering it is for her bulls only.

I had a version of this. My first wife was promiscuous from the day we met. She made no secret of it; I didn't like it, but I accepted it. Eight years into the marriage I got around to fucking her ass. I was taking it really slow, afraid of hurting her, when she pushed back and buried me balls deep in her ass. Afterwards, I commented that didn't seem like her first time. She giggled and said, "Hardly". I asked, "Who else?" More giggles. "Everybody but you." God's truth.

 

[Mystories189]

I go through periods of this before but not a hard fast rule. If I have a guy I really like for a time, I would sometimes just not have sex with my husband just because I've been taken up by the other guy and feel like I belong to him. Just the other day my husband mentioned we haven't had sex in a while. I told him that I'm I've been seeing someone and I really like him. I still let him jerk off to me. It's fun, it's like I'm dating. I'll bang my husband again when I'm over this guy. I do have sex with multiple people, just when the relationship is new, I focus on a guy for atleast a week to months if I'm in love.

 

[FantasySharer1]

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I had a version of this. My first wife was promiscuous from the day we met. She made no secret of it; I didn't like it, but I accepted it. Eight years into the marriage I got around to fucking her ass. I was taking it really slow, afraid of hurting her, when she pushed back and buried me balls deep in her ass. Afterwards, I commented that didn't seem like her first time. She giggled and said, "Hardly". I asked, "Who else?" More giggles. "Everybody but you." God's truth.

Damn, that's hot!

 

[FantasySharer1]

I still let him jerk off to me. It's fun, it's like I'm dating. I'll bang my husband again when I'm over this guy. I do have sex with multiple people, just when the relationship is new, I focus on a guy for atleast a week to months if I'm in love.

Very interesting! Does the husband get to do anything else during these periods?

Oral is another "exclusive" that maybe only the lover/bull gets but the husband does not but I specifically like the anal idea because of how much a husband might enjoy looking at his wife's ass but is constantly reminding it doesn't really belong to him the same way it does to her lover.

 

[policywank]

For me being a hot wife is largely about claiming my own sexual agency. I control my body and my sex. However, I don't use that control to deny my husband unless there is a purpose to doing so. And I certainly would never cede that control to another man. To me the idea that a truly sexually liberated woman would enter the hot wife lifestyle simply to be the possession of her lover rather than her husband doesn't make much sense and seems like a very male-centric notion (but to each their own of course).

In general I have a very active and satisfying sex life with my husband. I also fuck other men because I enjoy variety and have a higher appetite for sex than any one man has ever been able to satisfy. To the extent that I do deny my husband it is typically because: a) I am simply not in the mood to have sex with him; b) there is a larger objective; or c) it is part of cuckold sex play which he enjoys as much or more than I do.

Our hotwife/cuckold marriage is also a female led relationship. The two don't have to go together but they do for us. And I find that having some control over his sexual activity is an important part of facilitating my sexual liberation. But I wouldn't seek to exercise that control if it wasn't something he wanted as well.

Often these factors intersect in a way that is complementary. For instance, if he didn't want me to exercise any control over his sexual activity I would take the view that that is fine so long as he doesn't impose on me. If he wants to fuck other women or jerk off all day thinking about my sexual activities or whatever that would be his prerogative. But he wouldn't be permitted to intrude into my sex life in any way - he has no "right" to watch, or reclaim my sex or have sex with me or whatever. I might let him if I so choose but I am probably less likely to do so if he won't defer to me in any way. Imagine he wants to watch me fuck another guy, but he won't shut the fuck up or keeps trying to join in or or insists on filming us or whatever. If I don't want those things I will insist that if he wants to watch he has to do it on my terms.

Now to the extent that he also enjoys doing it on my terms then I can lead the way to experiences that we both enjoy and we both benefit from that control. This allows me to create circumstances that are mutually beneficial - broadly speaking I will give him what he wants but do so on my terms. Yes I enjoy when he "reclaims" me after I have been with another man, but not always and I certainly don't what that to take hold as an expectation or entitlement for him. Likewise if I have had a particularly vigorous sexual encounter with an aggressive well hung man, my husband simply isn't going to measure up in that way and I don't want to have to pretend otherwise or hurt his feelings so I may deny him sex in that moment or insist that he lick my pussy instead. Or if he is consistently resisting my direction he may be denied for some period of time as a matter of discipline. But I don't deny him long-term.

 

[FantasySharer1]

For me being a hot wife is largely about claiming my own sexual agency. I control my body and my sex. However, I don't use that control to deny my husband unless there is a purpose to doing so. And I certainly would never cede that control to another man. To me the idea that a truly sexually liberated woman would enter the hot wife lifestyle simply to be the possession of her lover rather than her husband doesn't make much sense and seems like a very male-centric notion (but to each their own of course).

In general I have a very active and satisfying sex life with my husband. I also fuck other men because I enjoy variety and have a higher appetite for sex than any one man has ever been able to satisfy. To the extent that I do deny my husband it is typically because: a) I am simply not in the mood to have sex with him; b) there is a larger objective; or c) it is part of cuckold sex play which he enjoys as much or more than I do.

Our hotwife/cuckold marriage is also a female led relationship. The two don't have to go together but they do for us. And I find that having some control over his sexual activity is an important part of facilitating my sexual liberation. But I wouldn't seek to exercise that control if it wasn't something he wanted as well.

Often these factors intersect in a way that is complementary. For instance, if he didn't want me to exercise any control over his sexual activity I would take the view that that is fine so long as he doesn't impose on me. If he wants to fuck other women or jerk off all day thinking about my sexual activities or whatever that would be his prerogative. But he wouldn't be permitted to intrude into my sex life in any way - he has no "right" to watch, or reclaim my sex or have sex with me or whatever. I might let him if I so choose but I am probably less likely to do so if he won't defer to me in any way. Imagine he wants to watch me fuck another guy, but he won't shut the fuck up or keeps trying to join in or or insists on filming us or whatever. If I don't want those things I will insist that if he wants to watch he has to do it on my terms.

Now to the extent that he also enjoys doing it on my terms then I can lead the way to experiences that we both enjoy and we both benefit from that control. This allows me to create circumstances that are mutually beneficial - broadly speaking I will give him what he wants but do so on my terms. Yes I enjoy when he "reclaims" me after I have been with another man, but not always and I certainly don't what that to take hold as an expectation or entitlement for him. Likewise if I have had a particularly vigorous sexual encounter with an aggressive well hung man, my husband simply isn't going to measure up in that way and I don't want to have to pretend otherwise or hurt his feelings so I may deny him sex in that moment or insist that he lick my pussy instead. Or if he is consistently resisting my direction he may be denied for some period of time as a matter of discipline. But I don't deny him long-term.

This is so beautiful on so many levels. I wish you a long and happy marriage.

 

[Mystories189]

Very interesting! Does the husband get to do anything else during these periods?

Oral is another "exclusive" that maybe only the lover/bull gets but the husband does not but I specifically like the anal idea because of how much a husband might enjoy looking at his wife's ass but is constantly reminding it doesn't really belong to him the same way it does to her lover.

I suck him off sometimes too

 

[BuckyDuckman]

Reading few posts about pussy free or no sex marriages in cuckolding relationship.

Like to understand the thought process behind woman asking for pussy free or no sex relationship after experiencing cuckolding or hotwifing lifestyle.

Is it real? It looks almost real in most cases/threads where in limiting sex with husband to less frequency or completely stopping it while enjoying with other guys.

In general, I think this is bullshit fantasy play. Lots of cuckolds (me included) still have a rich, full, and reward sexual relationship with our wife.

 

[WhtCuckBlkWife]

In general, I think this is bullshit fantasy play. Lots of cuckolds (me included) still have a rich, full, and reward sexual relationship with our wife.

While I agree that most Cucks you chat with online are mostly fantasizing, I can attest that not all are bs. Besides getting to clean my wife, I am 100% "pussy free" and she only have sex with other men and by her request too. She grants me permission to watch vids of her having sex with her man/men and j/o to it once in a while. It's been 15+ years since I got to have any sex with her.

 

[bodyshavedsmooth]

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[WhtCuckBlkWife]

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She locks me up too.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I think it could be a real thing for a few in the lifestyle of hot-wifing.

With too much of anything, it losses its luster, so naturally we as humans want to amp it up after a while. It is very easy to see that after sharing your wife a few times, that intense feeling is subsided a little, so a natural way to increase that feeling might be for the husband to be denied her. I can see that. A "rule" that can be applied or redacted, so there is no harm.

It kind of like a typical wife telling her husband, "okay, from now on you can only take my clothes off using your mouth". Sex then becomes exciting and different, but a month in she might just let go back to using his hands. In that, it is a self-imposed rule with no repercussions if it is broken.

 

[WhtCuckBlkWife]

Reading few posts about pussy free or no sex marriages in cuckolding relationship.

Like to understand the thought process behind woman asking for pussy free or no sex relationship after experiencing cuckolding or hotwifing lifestyle.

Is it real? It looks almost real in most cases/threads where in limiting sex with husband to less frequency or completely stopping it while enjoying with other guys.

Very real for us. Why would a wife, who have total freedom to date any man she wants, have any desire or interest in having sex with a (in my case) too small and inadequate cuck, who can't satisfy her sexually? I know this sounds like a cuck fantasy, but it's absolutely real. I satisfy her in all other aspects and we have a very happy and long marriage Have asked a couple of times and she has confirmed that she do not want it any other way and want me to remain as her cuck.

 

[WonderPonder]

I've been pussy free since August but it's because of my serious health issues. Between Christmas until now I've gone down on her a couple of times and have received a couple of handjobs.
My cuckolding began new years eve and will continue as they're going out again this Saturday night. No intercourse until at least April for me but if I didn't have any issues I'd be having sex with my wife.