Prostitues

[rosco rathbone]

Emap, I'm tryin' not to go there.

OP, your question is too broad.

Craigslist is full of scammers and bait-and-switch operations and law-enforcement stings are not unheard of. It's a definite buyer-beware scene and probably not the best way to go until you know what you are doing.

"High class girls are the most fastidious. You won't catch them risking their lucrative careers for a bareback fuck."<<<often, but not always true, by any means, although bareback oral is easier to come by.

The poster that steered you to the world sex guide is on the right track.

 

[Somehowyou]

Look on Big Doggie and The Erotic Review. Look for girls and/or agencies that have been reviewed a lot. Use these girls and these agencies. You can find BBBJ, DFk, DATY and covered CG, RCG, Mish and Doggie for $150-300 per hour or even more.

Be careful with Craigslist. Lost of scammers and lots of LE (law enforcement) out there. Also, since your new to the hobby, the girls are going to be very careful. Many of the Independants will want a ton of info prior to a visit and probably a reference from another indy. Another thing you can do is go to Canada. For cities like Montreal and Toronto outcall are legal. Look at MERB and TERB and study reviews on girls and agencies before you go. Dont just call anyplace and dont rely on the phone book or newspaper.

Stay away from street walkers. If they dont own a computer then you probably don't want them.

 

[emap]

Liar liar pants on fire.

Hey I said the same thing about Craigslist and you said I was wrong.

So Rosco is so completely wrong about Craigslist.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

"High class girls are the most fastidious. You won't catch them risking their lucrative careers for a bareback fuck."<<<often, but not always true, by any means, although bareback oral is easier to come by.

I agree, I think bareback oral is fairly standard. I just had to burst the guy's bubble about the notion of 'guaranteed safe bareback sex.' Guaranteed for who? On whose authority? Men are so cute sometimes.

I know one girl who got extra for bareback sex with one guy but he was an elderly widower who she trusted wasn't sleeping with anyone else. There's simply no such thing as 'guaranteed safe' on both sides unless both participants are virgins.

 

[Username_In_Use]

There's simply no such thing as 'guaranteed safe' on both sides unless both participants are virgins.

Not even then.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Not even then.

Ok smartypants.

 

[Username_In_Use]

Ok smartypants.

My pleasure

 

[infinity706]

I agree, I think bareback oral is fairly standard. I just had to burst the guy's bubble about the notion of 'guaranteed safe bareback sex.' Guaranteed for who? On whose authority? Men are so cute sometimes.

I know one girl who got extra for bareback sex with one guy but he was an elderly widower who she trusted wasn't sleeping with anyone else. There's simply no such thing as 'guaranteed safe' on both sides unless both participants are virgins.

Virgins can have just as many stds. First, they might have done plenty of things and still claim to be a "virgin." Second, something many people don't think about, is that even babies can have stds. Unless the baby is born by c-section, it came out of the mother's cunt. In that case, it was potentially exposed to anything the mother had, including but not limited to, HIV.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Virgins can have just as many stds. First, they might have done plenty of things and still claim to be a "virgin." Second, something many people don't think about, is that even babies can have stds. Unless the baby is born by c-section, it came out of the mother's cunt. In that case, it was potentially exposed to anything the mother had, including but not limited to, HIV.

I meant virgin in the sense of being without sexual experience of any kind and the notion of being born with HIV was not one that occurred to me at the time. I'm aware of the biochemistry involved.

Is it international smartypants day?

 

[infinity706]

No, I'm always a smartass. When I worked at a truckstop, my boss always told me, "everyone likes a little ass, but no one likes a smartass." That never stopped me, though.

 

[ApprenticeApril]

So, I was referred over to this thread to give a little "professional" advice.

FIrst - finding the girl: You can try online but I would avoid craigslitst, it's a bunch of crap now. Mostly online web-cammers or sometimes even cops. Eros.com is a pretty good one, it costs the girls an ass ton to list on that site, so at least you know there serious about what they're doing, not just some random girl.
You could go to a strip club, but that one is iffy. Most girls you'll have to pay a lot of money for in the club, then take on several "dates" before sex even enters the conversation. And most strippers will get pissed if you bring it up. Don't go this route unless you can afford to buy her new car.
You could always just look in the phonebook. A lot of cities, (even mine at 30k people) will have escort agencies listed. Call them, tell them what kind of girl you want, and they'll work it out for you. Agencies usually deal with girls that do outcalls only though, so be prepared. (Incall - her house. Outcall - your house or hotel of choice.)

Second - getting what you want: Always tell the girl what you are looking for first. Some girls want a friendship that will last a long time. (Like me.) This is the girl you will get the GFE from. Talking before and after, she doesn't stress about the time limit, but she DOES expect you to call her again, or at least tell her why you won't be. This is typically more expensive.
Some girls, however, are all about the get in, fuck, and get out. They'll say something like they need to freshen up, at which time, you set the money out on the table. She comes out, you do the deed, then she leaves.
There are of course girls in between these extremes. You need to be upfront about what you want. This includes looks and any activities you may be interested in. The idea of what you want that she has in her head, is what you get at the point of money exchange. Don't be afraid to ask. It's part of our job to make you feel comfortable, and trust me, we have heard it all before.

Third - some general tips: Always be respectful. Yes, she is there to please you, but she is still a person. Some men have the tendency to not see that there is actually a person inside that hooker's body. Just be respectful at all times, please.
Communication is key. Just because you're only seeing her for an hour (or so) doesn't mean you don't still need to communicate. Honest conversation will help you get the most enjoyable time possible.
Also, if she does a good job, or one thing you really liked, etc. be sure to tell her. It's still nice to get compliments.

Hope this helps, I probably left out a ton, so just let me know if you want to know any more.

 

[ApprenticeApril]

Oh yeah, and never ever say and/or ask in any form that you are paying for sex. This will send the red flag of COP into her brain and she will consider running away quickly. You are making a donation and/or gift to a friend, or paying for her time only. The sex to be had is between two consenting adults and has absolutely no connection to the money exchanged. Just be careful how you word things.

 

[human_male]

So, I was referred over to this thread to give a little "professional" advice.

FIrst - finding the girl: You can try online but I would avoid craigslitst, it's a bunch of crap now. Mostly online web-cammers or sometimes even cops. Eros.com is a pretty good one, it costs the girls an ass ton to list on that site, so at least you know there serious about what they're doing, not just some random girl.
You could go to a strip club, but that one is iffy. Most girls you'll have to pay a lot of money for in the club, then take on several "dates" before sex even enters the conversation. And most strippers will get pissed if you bring it up. Don't go this route unless you can afford to buy her new car.
You could always just look in the phonebook. A lot of cities, (even mine at 30k people) will have escort agencies listed. Call them, tell them what kind of girl you want, and they'll work it out for you. Agencies usually deal with girls that do outcalls only though, so be prepared. (Incall - her house. Outcall - your house or hotel of choice.)

Second - getting what you want: Always tell the girl what you are looking for first. Some girls want a friendship that will last a long time. (Like me.) This is the girl you will get the GFE from. Talking before and after, she doesn't stress about the time limit, but she DOES expect you to call her again, or at least tell her why you won't be. This is typically more expensive.
Some girls, however, are all about the get in, fuck, and get out. They'll say something like they need to freshen up, at which time, you set the money out on the table. She comes out, you do the deed, then she leaves.
There are of course girls in between these extremes. You need to be upfront about what you want. This includes looks and any activities you may be interested in. The idea of what you want that she has in her head, is what you get at the point of money exchange. Don't be afraid to ask. It's part of our job to make you feel comfortable, and trust me, we have heard it all before.

Third - some general tips: Always be respectful. Yes, she is there to please you, but she is still a person. Some men have the tendency to not see that there is actually a person inside that hooker's body. Just be respectful at all times, please.
Communication is key. Just because you're only seeing her for an hour (or so) doesn't mean you don't still need to communicate. Honest conversation will help you get the most enjoyable time possible.
Also, if she does a good job, or one thing you really liked, etc. be sure to tell her. It's still nice to get compliments.

Hope this helps, I probably left out a ton, so just let me know if you want to know any more.

Hello. Is there some place ladies might advertise except on the sorts of online sites suggested here? Keep in mind it's legal here.

I found a website that had some listings, and did a search for my area and there was ONE. She was a bit pricey. I'm not cheap but I just can't afford a weeks wages. But then I thought maybe she does half hour sessions so I went back to her add to email her and she'd gone. In the course of about a day the ONE girl in my area had taken her add down. That's pretty dismal luck even by my standards.

But surely there's more than one in the whole eastern suburbs of a city with a million people in it. So I was wondering where else (offline) I might look. Any ideas?

And another thing, would she be offended if I asked if she did half hour sessions? And also would it be acceptable to say "I don't know what I want, I was hoping I could just come and meet you and see what happens?" Or is do they need to have a better idea of what to expect?

Thank you kindly.

 

[ApprenticeApril]

Hello. Is there some place ladies might advertise except on the sorts of online sites suggested here? Keep in mind it's legal here.

I found a website that had some listings, and did a search for my area and there was ONE. She was a bit pricey. I'm not cheap but I just can't afford a weeks wages. But then I thought maybe she does half hour sessions so I went back to her add to email her and she'd gone. In the course of about a day the ONE girl in my area had taken her add down. That's pretty dismal luck even by my standards.

But surely there's more than one in the whole eastern suburbs of a city with a million people in it. So I was wondering where else (offline) I might look. Any ideas?

And another thing, would she be offended if I asked if she did half hour sessions? And also would it be acceptable to say "I don't know what I want, I was hoping I could just come and meet you and see what happens?" Or is do they need to have a better idea of what to expect?

Thank you kindly.

If it's legal in your area, then you should just have to open a phone book.
I am kind of curious as to what is kind of "pricey." I'm not trying to pry, it's just I may be able to tell you if she's charging about average or how above/below the average she really is.
Most girls won't do a 1/2 hour (good ones anyway) mostly because it would be too rushed and she wouldn't be able to do her job efficiently. Keep in mind when you book an hour you're not having sex for the whole hour. There is about 10-15 minutes of talking and such before hand, and about 10 min of clean-up/dressing/chit chat afterwards.
It's perfectly fine to say you don't know what to ask for. Most people don't, and if she knows what she's doing, then she'll know the questions to ask you. Some may not even ask questions beforehand, but ask what you like as you're going along. Kind of depends on the mood of the situation.

 

[SweetErika]

Hello. Is there some place ladies might advertise except on the sorts of online sites suggested here? Keep in mind it's legal here.

I found a website that had some listings, and did a search for my area and there was ONE. She was a bit pricey. I'm not cheap but I just can't afford a weeks wages. But then I thought maybe she does half hour sessions so I went back to her add to email her and she'd gone. In the course of about a day the ONE girl in my area had taken her add down. That's pretty dismal luck even by my standards.

But surely there's more than one in the whole eastern suburbs of a city with a million people in it. So I was wondering where else (offline) I might look. Any ideas?

And another thing, would she be offended if I asked if she did half hour sessions? And also would it be acceptable to say "I don't know what I want, I was hoping I could just come and meet you and see what happens?" Or is do they need to have a better idea of what to expect?

Thank you kindly.

HM, have you tried placing ads describing exactly what you're looking for?

I have a hard time believing there aren't plenty of women who would be up for a date, cuddling/affection and letting you see and touch their boobs if you're willing to pay nicely for their time. Whereas a lot of women don't want to venture into prostitution, I think many would be amenable to what you're suggesting, especially since there are no legal issues to contend with there, like there are here.

I'd totally go for something like this, provided certain criteria were met to protect my safety.

Post some ads and see where they take you. Be honest and classy about it, and I'm sure you'll find a lady who would like to take you up on your offer.

 

[human_male]

If it's legal in your area, then you should just have to open a phone book.
I am kind of curious as to what is kind of "pricey." I'm not trying to pry, it's just I may be able to tell you if she's charging about average or how above/below the average she really is.
Most girls won't do a 1/2 hour (good ones anyway) mostly because it would be too rushed and she wouldn't be able to do her job efficiently. Keep in mind when you book an hour you're not having sex for the whole hour. There is about 10-15 minutes of talking and such before hand, and about 10 min of clean-up/dressing/chit chat afterwards.
It's perfectly fine to say you don't know what to ask for. Most people don't, and if she knows what she's doing, then she'll know the questions to ask you. Some may not even ask questions beforehand, but ask what you like as you're going along. Kind of depends on the mood of the situation.

Hello there. Yes, I had a troll through the phone book and there only seem to be clubs. I don't think I'd be comfortable going to a club and they're even more expensive than the private girls. Another thing is I don't have any wheels and public transport is the pitts here, that's why I'm so keen to find someone in my area.

She was $160NZ an hour. Compared to the others that's about average. And since I only make $190 a week I was hoping to find someone for a hundred or so.

Another thing I noticed in the website I looked at was all the girls were stunning in their photos. Their faces were blurred out but they looked like knockouts. How likely is it for someone to use a false photo? They can't all be gorgeous.

Thank you kindly for your response.

 

[human_male]

HM, have you tried placing ads describing exactly what you're looking for?

I have a hard time believing there aren't plenty of women who would be up for a date, cuddling/affection and letting you see and touch their boobs if you're willing to pay nicely for their time. Whereas a lot of women don't want to venture into prostitution, I think many would be amenable to what you're suggesting, especially since there are no legal issues to contend with there, like there are here.

I'd totally go for something like this, provided certain criteria were met to protect my safety.

Post some ads and see where they take you. Be honest and classy about it, and I'm sure you'll find a lady who would like to take you up on your offer.

You mean like a singles site? I thought about that but I worried I'd just come off looking like a total loser.

And don't you think it's likely someone who's not a professional but is just going along with it because she figures she might as well make a few extra bucks, might back out of it when she meets me and decides she doesn't like me?

But if I did do it what would my add say? How would I put it?

Thank you kindly.

 

[FFOTS4Life]

I've read complaints about some of the so-called Erotic Services advertised at Craigslist. It seems that some ads are placed by scammers whose goal is to get as much money as possible with little, if any, sexual contact. Occasionally, someone will post a warning to our semi-local Craigslist as to how these folks operate. If there are legitimate ads there, you probably have to wade through a lot of crap and ask a lot of questions to get to them.

Google "Craigslist erotic services ad scams" to see examples.

Buyer beware.

I have heard the same thing.

I have also heard that there are a lot of dummy profiles put up by local authorities so you might want to be aware of that too....

I think your best bet is an escort service...I definitely agree with other posters do not pick someone up of the street.

 

[fenghuang]

Oh yeah, and never ever say and/or ask in any form that you are paying for sex.

So how does the conversation go? Presuming they charge different amounts for different services, how and when do you know what you're paying? Or does an hour nearly always cost the same?

And how do you make sure you're safe as a customer? I guess you could leave all ID / bank cards / phone / valuables etc at home and tell a mate that you're going to a prostitue and if you're not back in 90min then you've probably met a scammer / mugger / greedy pimp. But I doubt most of us have anyone we trust that much
And anyway it test the boundry between cautious, pragmatic and paranoid [thinks to self] and implies a lack of trust. Which strikes me as not a good way to start at all.

Do escort services and saunas always provide extras?
(I don't know if this makes any difference but this is a UK based question.)

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Hello. Is there some place ladies might advertise except on the sorts of online sites suggested here? Keep in mind it's legal here.

In the UK, the back pages of the local papers have escort agency ads. The link I put in post 7 is to an international site, you could try that.

I think like Erika said, if you don't actually want sex then you will be paying a high price for companionship. You should be able to negotiate a lower rate for an introductory meeting on the basis that no sex will occur.

 

[Urguycliff]

Incall service is best. Meeting someone at a motel or hotel could be a rip off so it should be at an apartment or house. There are sites on line if you put in escort service. Finding a woman that doesn't belong to a service is best too. They will want a lot of safety assurances from you and that protects you as well as them. Follow the rules about not showing the money, but placing it in an envelope and setting it down when you come in and be polite and clean and let them know what you want. Bring a little something as a gift helps. Some require you to email them, but require that you don't mention anything that might cause trouble in the message. They will ask for something to prove you aren't the law. Like the others said if you want something cheap look out. And never pick up something off the streets. You may not see them, but their pimp is close by. Take your time.