Prostate Milking

Who wants to talk about it?

I want to milk my fella and don’t know how.

I read that “because the prostate is capable of orgasming in the absence of ejaculation, many men find they can have intense multiple orgasms without shedding a drop of semen. This can prolong and intensify pleasure and help them keep up with their partners.”

If it’s anything like the (mythical) G-spot, we’re probably screwed... I can’t even find my own.

Maybe some first person testimonials will help.

It has been posted on here before. Do a search for it. Possibly on another forum besides this "General Board" one.

Also, Nina Hartley did a training video on this several years ago. You could probably do a search on the net for that, too.
 
Holy shit. That’s pretty fucking hot.

I think I found the Nina Hartley video FL30 mentioned; but, it has the word fisting in the title so I’m still thinking about maybe watching it, but not actually watching it.
 
Most men lose their boner when you stick a finger up their asshole. Not sure if it's physiological or mental. :)
 
The prostate is much easier to find than the G Spot. The prostate of most GB posters is roughly the size of a grapefruit. :)
 
Anne, you might want to head over to the Fetish or BDSM board and ask this question there. Most here aren't sexually mature/secure enough to actually answer.

BTW, milking isn't a "hand job with anal play" though some will do it this way and call it milking. What milking really is, is a "maintenance routine" to promote and control obedience of males locked in chastity. Usually the sub-male isn't allowed to have an erection and getting one means the sub-male can be punished for it. Normally the cock cage prevents this, but it does sometimes happen if the Dom allows the male occasional freedom when alone or when serving among trusted company.

Milking only expresses prostate fluid to reduce the need for sex or intercourse without reducing the innate urge to seek favor. There is no orgasm in milking because when males have an orgasm it reduces the male's desire to attract a prospective mate. Since there's no orgasm, what you get is a guy who wants to wait on you hand and foot but is ok with not having sex.

https://livebdsmcams.net/bdsm-milking-what-is-it/ has some information (although it's mingled with other techniques under the same rubric) and a link to some instructional vids. The biggest caution is to to go slow and be gentle enough to not hurt him until both of you understand what's happening. The risk of injury or Prostatitis is very real so go SLOW and gentle.

Prostate massage isn't milking though the terms are interchanged a lot. Prostate massage can lead to orgasm and is often seen as the result in strap-on and pegging vids as well as hand-jobs with prostate stimulation.
 
Anne, you might want to head over to the Fetish or BDSM board and ask this question there. Most here aren't sexually mature/secure enough to actually answer.

BTW, milking isn't a "hand job with anal play" though some will do it this way and call it milking. What milking really is, is a "maintenance routine" to promote and control obedience of males locked in chastity. Usually the sub-male isn't allowed to have an erection and getting one means the sub-male can be punished for it. Normally the cock cage prevents this, but it does sometimes happen if the Dom allows the male occasional freedom when alone or when serving among trusted company.

Milking only expresses prostate fluid to reduce the need for sex or intercourse without reducing the innate urge to seek favor. There is no orgasm in milking because when males have an orgasm it reduces the male's desire to attract a prospective mate. Since there's no orgasm, what you get is a guy who wants to wait on you hand and foot but is ok with not having sex.

https://livebdsmcams.net/bdsm-milking-what-is-it/ has some information (although it's mingled with other techniques under the same rubric) and a link to some instructional vids. The biggest caution is to to go slow and be gentle enough to not hurt him until both of you understand what's happening. The risk of injury or Prostatitis is very real so go SLOW and gentle.

Prostate massage isn't milking though the terms are interchanged a lot. Prostate massage can lead to orgasm and is often seen as the result in strap-on and pegging vids as well as hand-jobs with prostate stimulation.

Agree on all counts.
Ask this question in the BDSM forum and I know there are at least three women (including myself) that will be happy to help.
Here... sorry, but no.

Another reasonable place to ask is the LGBT forum. Gay guys know how to handle their partners and don't mind sharing the wisdom. This is actually where I learned it from - gay stories are a good source of education :devil:
 
Agree on all counts.
Ask this question in the BDSM forum and I know there are at least three women (including myself) that will be happy to help.
Here... sorry, but no.

Another reasonable place to ask is the LGBT forum. Gay guys know how to handle their partners and don't mind sharing the wisdom. This is actually where I learned it from - gay stories are a good source of education :devil:

Good grief! It's not exactly rocket science. :)
 
Good grief! It's not exactly rocket science. :)

No, it is not - rocket science is much easier. Because in physics and engineering if something works once, it will ALWAYS work the same way. Well, untill ir breaks, but that's another story. With people... It just does not happen this way. With one guy somethong might bring him over in 3 seconds, with another the very same idea will have no effect on him at all.

I assume that OP already ran her google search, read all the standard advice, tried it out, and still got nowhere.
 
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