Principle of Lust

[Andreina]

What makes you - the sub - long for your Master/Mistress? Is the prospect of discipline? The prospect of power exchange? Do you sometimes fear the pain you will feel? Does that make you lust even more? Does your Master/Mistress sometimes scare you?


Dom/me's: What makes you lust after your sub? The prospect that s/he will do (almost) anything you ask? That you have total controll? That you can punish her/him?
Are you scared that you might hurt him/her?




Ever curious.

 

[Shadowsdream]

What makes you - the sub - long for your Master/Mistress? Is the prospect of discipline? The prospect of power exchange? Do you sometimes fear the pain you will feel? Does that make you lust even more? Does your Master/Mistress sometimes scare you?


Dom/me's: What makes you lust after your sub? The prospect that s/he will do (almost) anything you ask? That you have total controll? That you can punish her/him?
Are you scared that you might hurt him/her?




Ever curious.

I lust after his intelligence..the hopes and dreams he has placed into My hands. his vulnerabilty, his happiness. I lust for the responsibility of taking care of his emotional and physical well being as much as I lust for his obedience and endurance for My pleasure. I lust for his body, his mind and his lust for Me as his Dominant.

I never fear I will hurt him for I value him to highly.

 

[Ebonyfire]

What makes you - the sub - long for your Master/Mistress? Is the prospect of discipline? The prospect of power exchange? Do you sometimes fear the pain you will feel? Does that make you lust even more? Does your Master/Mistress sometimes scare you?


Dom/me's: What makes you lust after your sub? The prospect that s/he will do (almost) anything you ask? That you have total controll? That you can punish her/him?
Are you scared that you might hurt him/her?




Ever curious.

I never thought in terms of lust before.

I lust for knowledge of sissy & bb's body. I lust for their laughter & good humor, I lust for their intellect, I lust for their submission, I lust for their company.

I really like, respect and love (in my own way) my boys. they are wonderful human beings. A good & responsible Mistress safeguards her property.

Eb

 

[rosco rathbone]

Nah, it's not "total control" or any of that corny shit. It's that I lust for people who are psychosexually polar to me. On the infrequent occasions that I find myself sexing such a being, she has a look in her eyes that mirrors the look in my eyes which mirrors and so on and so forth.

rr

 

[Lancecastor]

Dom/me's: What makes you lust after your sub?

Lance: A cute bum helps, as does a winning smile and a short skirt.


The prospect that s/he will do (almost) anything you ask?

I love that....those are the sweetest words to hear Her whisper into my ear at a fancy function. "Anything. Anything."


That you have total controll?
I expect that anyway.

That you can punish her/him?
No boners for me in that.

Are you scared that you might hurt him/her?
No.

 

[lovetoread]

Re: Re: Principle of Lust

Dom/me's: What makes you lust after your sub?

Lance: A cute bum helps, as does a winning smile and a short skirt.

Oh well. Leaves me out.

 

[Lancecastor]

Re: Re: Re: Principle of Lust

Oh well. Leaves me out.

On what grounds, may I ask?

 

[lovetoread]

My bum.

I dont like it much.

 

[A Desert Rose]

LUST

is passion. I love passion..... I love being passionate.....

Rose

 

[Lancecastor]

Well, your not liking your bum and my not liking your bum exist as ideas in parallel mirror universes, I'd suggest.

If that was your bum over the commode the other day then trust me, we're okay on that point. Way okay.

I thought you were going to tell me you didn't own a short skirt or something crazy like that. Crazy talk I tellya.....

My bum.

I dont like it much.

 

[Azzy]

Ok, I just have to ask ...

What is the definition of psychosexual?

Is this different than the concept of sex starting in the mind? Or, is the thinking more along the lines of like, Anthony Perkins-type Psycho?

 

[rosco rathbone]

It's my term for people whose sexuality is heavily entangled in all sorts of intense emotional highways and byways, ins and outs, knots and psykick tangles. The opposite of "psychosexual sex" is what I like to call "R & B lovin'", ie R&B music video, let me rub your body with koko butter in the jacuzzi secks.

These are not precise definitions, but there are those who know whereof I speek.

re Bates et al: all psychos are psychosexual, but not all of the psychosexual brothers and sisters are psychotic.

rr

 

[Azzy]

For once, I seem to have concluded correctly. Thanks for taking the time to respond.

Good to know that you can be psychosexual without being psychotic, although I wonder about a few acquaintances.

 

[MsWorthy]

. . .
Dom/me's: What makes you lust after your sub? The prospect that s/he will do (almost) anything you ask? That you have total controll? That you can ( play) punish her/him?

. . .

Ever curious.

Yes

*parenthetical and color added by me*

 

[Lancecastor]

It's my term for people whose sexuality is heavily entangled in all sorts of intense emotional highways and byways, ins and outs, knots and psykick tangles. rr

I call them "Therapy Grrls", myself.

They tend to be great in bed... and hard on the head.

Lance

 

[subtledecadence]

What makes you - the sub - long for your Master/Mistress? Is the prospect of discipline? The prospect of power exchange? Do you sometimes fear the pain you will feel? Does that make you lust even more? Does your Master/Mistress sometimes scare you?

He does not scare me, though my feelings for Him did, once upon a time in the beginning. Now, although my feelings are no longer quite so scary, another thing is... the disappointment in His eyes when I have in some way failed in Him. Pain I welcome, but disapproval wounds more then the whip ever could.
What makes me long for Him, for His touch, is all of the above ~smile~ and the way He shows me how strong I can be, through my endurance, love, honesty, devotion and submission.


subtledecadence

 

[rosco rathbone]

I call them "Therapy Grrls", myself.

They tend to be great in bed... and hard on the head.

Lance

SO true so true. UNfortunately, at the whizzened age of 35, I have found that I prefer the bed to the head. To my ongoing torment.

rosco

 

[Guest]

Bumped to encourage a debate.