Princess and The Bitch

[beingtrue2me]

This forum says to talk about things that we cannot live without sexually. Ok I'll do that. I am complex. I am also divorced because of that fact. I have had girlfriends in the past and that did not sit well with my then hubs. I don't really want a man in my life 24/7 and really not a woman either. Most of the time I prefer a her over a him but not always. I am submissive to a woman but not to a man. Go figure. I stopped worrying about that some time ago. Why do I want to be a princess sometimes and a bitch others? How the hell should I know? That sums me up tho. Am I alone in my thinking or are there other women or guys like this too? Dunno.

 

[leighannste17]

You sound like me, I'am very submissive to women. Especially older women, I always lose arguments with them, they are dangerous and they have the ability to make you cry, and feel weak.

But with men, I get them to do all kinds of crazy shit. I have yet to find a man that makes me feel insecure. Which is why I'm straight. I couldn't be in a relationship with a woman, because I hate the feeling of being a loser. It hurts because I had that feeling my entire life. Now that I'm older, I want to be happy, and submitting to a man might be a turn on in some ways, but in others I couldn't handle it. Women control the bedroom. Sub, or Dom, it doesn't matter, we are the gate keepers of sex.

 

[beingtrue2me]

You sound like me, I'am very submissive to women. Especially older women, I always lose arguments with them, they are dangerous and they have the ability to make you cry, and feel weak.

But with men, I get them to do all kinds of crazy shit. I have yet to find a man that makes me feel insecure. Which is why I'm straight. I couldn't be in a relationship with a woman, because I hate the feeling of being a loser. It hurts because I had that feeling my entire life. Now that I'm older, I want to be happy, and submitting to a man might be a turn on in some ways, but in others I couldn't handle it. Women control the bedroom. Sub, or Dom, it doesn't matter, we are the gate keepers of sex.

Whoa there chikie. You "couldn't be in a relationship with a woman because I hate the feeling of being a loser" What???? If you feel like a loser that has nothing to do with your partner in my opinion. At any rate you sure screwed up by starting off saying I sound like you. No. I have had fem lovers and could not have been happier. A loser? Nope.

 

[leighannste17]

No it comes from personal experience. It's not to say, every woman, is the same. But it's just not my personal thing, because I've been left crying, by a lot of girls growing up. I'm not saying guys don't pull this shit too, but the men I've met recently, are fairly decent, they might be horny, but they understand insecurity, more then we seem to realize. There's something about guys that don't piss me off though. I should have re-worded the beginning though. You have similar thought patterns then I do, but it doesn't mean we are the same.

When men rag on me, they are very playful. I used to have a lot of problems with men, I didn't understand them, until now. But now I can't get enough of them, for some reason. They actually cheer me up.

 

[beingtrue2me]

No it comes from personal experience. It's not to say, every woman, is the same. But it's just not my personal thing, because I've been left crying, by a lot of girls growing up. I'm not saying guys don't pull this shit too, but the men I've met recently, are fairly decent, they might be horny, but they understand insecurity, more then we seem to realize. There's something about guys that don't piss me off though. I should have re-worded the beginning though. You have similar thought patterns then I do, but it doesn't mean we are the same.

When men rag on me, they are very playful. I used to have a lot of problems with men, I didn't understand them, until now. But now I can't get enough of them, for some reason. They actually cheer me up.

I am sorry (really) that women have left you crying. I have had my heart broken that way also. I have been on the end that does the hurting as well if I am going to be honest. It happens when we get intimate with someone be it a man or a woman. Hope you find partners in the future (maybe the right woman?) that brings nothing but smiles and soft moans. No more tears. Most of us have shed too many any way.

 

[leighannste17]

I appreciate that, a lot of people on this site, aren't very welcoming are they?

But you seem pretty cool. Hope everything works out for you.

 

[IceyBlue]

I had 2 previous partners, one a wife, the other common law 11+ years, before I met my present wife of 7 years. She had been married for 10 years to her childhood sweetie who unfortunately was suffering from depression (as well as other issues) and zero interest in sex before they got a very amicable divorce. They are still best of friends to this day they speak and/or text almost daily.

We met at the age of 40 and had each basically resigned ourselves to the old "there's just nobody for me" attitude.

We met only very briefly and swapped numbers, the first phone call was 4+ hours. There was one nearly that long every day for weeks afterwards. We had just 'clicked'.

A month after we met I flew out to meet her for a long weekend. I think we were only out of the hotel room for a total of about 4 hours the entire weekend. We REALLY 'clicked'!! LOL

Jumping forward we've both grown and changed sexually a LOT.

My point, don't give up, there's a sex fiend out there somewhere for you.

Keep smiling. Life's too short to be lonely or grumpy (or horny for that matter).

 

[beingtrue2me]

I sometimes wish I was all of one thing and nothing of the other. I don't really regret my bouncing back and forth from the princess to the bitch. It just happens. Then again maybe if I was miss sweet all the time that would get boring and if I was hell on wheels all the time I would be one lonely chik prolly. Do we want the same thing all the time from our partners? I don't really. Maybe it's just me? I like men with kinks and women that are strong willed. Wouldn't sex (and even life in general) be kinda blah if we didn't spice it up sometimes?

 

[Jonny55431]

This forum says to talk about things that we cannot live without sexually. Ok I'll do that. I am complex. I am also divorced because of that fact. I have had girlfriends in the past and that did not sit well with my then hubs. I don't really want a man in my life 24/7 and really not a woman either. Most of the time I prefer a her over a him but not always. I am submissive to a woman but not to a man. Go figure. I stopped worrying about that some time ago. Why do I want to be a princess sometimes and a bitch others? How the hell should I know? That sums me up tho. Am I alone in my thinking or are there other women or guys like this too? Dunno.

Oh no, you're not alone in your thinking. I would love to date a girl like you. There is just something irresistible about a girl who would prefer a another girl over a guy.

 

[beingtrue2me]

Oh no, you're not alone in your thinking. I would love to date a girl like you. There is just something irresistible about a girl who would prefer a another girl over a guy.

My real question I guess is what do other people want? A princess, a bitch or a combination of the two? Btw thank you for the compliment.

 

[Jonny55431]

My real question I guess is what do other people want? A princess, a bitch or a combination of the two? Btw thank you for the compliment.

I don't know what other people want. I personally love the combination.

You're quite welcome. If you were my girl I'd compliment you all the time

 

[beingtrue2me]

I don't know what other people want. I personally love the combination.

You're quite welcome. If you were my girl I'd compliment you all the time

Promises promises.

 

[Jonny55431]

Hahaha I love it!

I'd spoil you like a princess too, especially when you want to act like a bitch

 

[beingtrue2me]

Hahaha I love it!

I'd spoil you like a princess too, especially when you want to act like a bitch

You poor dear. It is not an act. I have long leather boots and I know how to use them.

 

[ChinaBandit]

This forum says to talk about things that we cannot live without sexually. Ok I'll do that. I am complex. I am also divorced because of that fact. I have had girlfriends in the past and that did not sit well with my then hubs. I don't really want a man in my life 24/7 and really not a woman either. Most of the time I prefer a her over a him but not always. I am submissive to a woman but not to a man. Go figure. I stopped worrying about that some time ago. Why do I want to be a princess sometimes and a bitch others? How the hell should I know? That sums me up tho. Am I alone in my thinking or are there other women or guys like this too? Dunno.

Women have layers of complexity, their sexuality is just one. I've been married twice. What makes my current wife go month and months without interest in anyone but me only to tell me some random night she wants so-and-so's cock? Get ready for that period of craziness and, since she's always been upfront, it works.

 

[Jonny55431]

You poor dear. It is not an act. I have long leather boots and I know how to use them.

You seem really sweet... I'd let a girl like you walk all over me

 

[beingtrue2me]

You seem really sweet... I'd let a girl like you walk all over me

Sometimes it takes more inner strength to be submissive I think but there are times that I like men to be all man. I told someone earlier and I meant it that there are times when I get too prissy and whiny that I would respect him more if he told me to get my ass down the road and not come back until I had changed my attitude.

 

[hotforpolitics]

Sometimes it takes more inner strength to be submissive I think but there are times that I like men to be all man. I told someone earlier and I meant it that there are times when I get too prissy and whiny that I would respect him more if he told me to get my ass down the road and not come back until I had changed my attitude.

Absolutely true the power and strength it takes to submit.
Long leather boots or not though, I think you know what should happen when a man gets a hold of a whiny prissy princess who is acting like a bitch.

 

[Jonny55431]

Sometimes it takes more inner strength to be submissive I think but there are times that I like men to be all man. I told someone earlier and I meant it that there are times when I get too prissy and whiny that I would respect him more if he told me to get my ass down the road and not come back until I had changed my attitude.

I could do that kind of stuff... but I really get turned on by a girl's bratty behavior

 

[beingtrue2me]

Absolutely true the power and strength it takes to submit.
Long leather boots or not though, I think you know what should happen when a man gets a hold of a whiny prissy princess who is acting like a bitch.

Forget this forum, this thread needs to happen in my house right now.

 

[hotforpolitics]

Forget this forum, this thread needs to happen in my house right now.

As you going to be a bitch and act like a whiny pissy princess
Then you know what will happen

 

[Jonny55431]

As you going to be a bitch and act like a whiny pissy princess
Then you know what will happen

Aw yeah, whatever a Princess wants to happen

 

[IceyBlue]

My real question I guess is what do other people want? A princess, a bitch or a combination of the two?

In our case, it's a combination of the two for sure. With me she's both, sometimes she'll just say something like 'dont just sit there, come here and lick my pussy and make yourself useful' other times she'll just get on her knees in front of me and worship my cock. With the girls she's softer, more 'motherly' usually, but sometimes it definitely seems she thinks they need a little more 'discipline'.

I really like it when she combines the two at the same time, like early mornings in bed when one (or more) of the girls join us. She might be soft & sub with me, stroking and sucking me, while at the same time directing someone to lick her while she does me.

I find the variance both incredibly sexy and vastly interesting.

 

[beingtrue2me]

Icey we need more couples like the two of you.

 

[beingtrue2me]

This morning I am certainly NOT the princess. Why is that sometimes we wake up and spend the entire day in a mood just prowling around wanting to find the right person to simply do to us what we need to have done? Today I am just about ready to pick a fight with someone just to get them to fuck me like they wanted to punish me. I have no idea why and not really sure I like feeling like this.