Preparing for anal intercourse

[Travler99921]

I am a male. How do I prepare myself to be penetrated by a man? I am interested in preparing to accommodate his girth and in avoiding any mess when I am penetrated. What type or brand of lube should. What condoms do you recommend.

 

[Renee1967]

my first suggestion would be to anal douche at least three times (this takes an hour or so), then a luxurious bath to make sure you are thoroughly clean for him

after that, you'll be so relaxed and content that you won't need lubricants

I don't use condoms, so I have no real advice on that front, other than to know your lovers, get on PREP, and get health checkups regularly

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I am a male. How do I prepare myself to be penetrated by a man? I am interested in preparing to accommodate his girth and in avoiding any mess when I am penetrated. What type or brand of lube should. What condoms do you recommend.

You may wish to start with but plugs after asking wife's approval. Let her help stretch you out.

 

[Escierto]

You definitely should be practicing with dildos to train your sphincter muscle to handle and accept incoming traffic. By the time I got fucked the first time my ass was ready for cock.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Plugs for sure. Helped until most plugs for me eventually slip out

That happened to me also. Use less lube and get a bigger one. Sit with it in and practice clenching your boi pussy muscles.

 

[cdstefi]

I am a male. How do I prepare myself to be penetrated by a man? I am interested in preparing to accommodate his girth and in avoiding any mess when I am penetrated. What type or brand of lube should. What condoms do you recommend.

Ditto to the advice above about douching, you really want to feel confident everything's clean and ready. Feels weird at first, like you're deliberately filling yourself with water to shit it out feeling like diarrhoea but the clean feeling afterward is worth it.

Water based lubes if you're using condoms (you can get thicker formulations specifically designed for anal because you need it to last), but if going bareback my preference is for something like coconut oil, so slick and smooth and it lasts well.

Don't get hung up on any one particular position. You need to feel comfortable with that first penetration because it is gonna feel very different unless you've practiced a lot with realistic penis sized dildos. My preference is to ride on top as I feel totally in control of how fast and deep it's going to happen. Don't like being bent over or doggystyle as any kind of length sorta bangs up against my sigmoid in a not nice way.

 

[OffNSFW]

Does your partner know what he's doing?

 

[Swuchroo]

Shave your hole. You will need a mirror to help.

Douche until the water you expel is clear.

Shower and then peroxide your opening so that it is now smooth and pink. You will be clean enough for him to rim you prior to fucking.

Lube and use a smaller dildo or plug. You want to be loose enough for initial penetration but still be tight. Practice clenching the dildo so that are able to pleasure your top.

These steps will give your top and you a nice experience.

 

[KatieDoes]

my first suggestion would be to anal douche at least three times (this takes an hour or so), then a luxurious bath to make sure you are thoroughly clean for him

after that, you'll be so relaxed and content that you won't need lubricants

I don't use condoms, so I have no real advice on that front, other than to know your lovers, get on PREP, and get health checkups regularly

There is never any circumstance in which you will not need lubricant for anal sex. This is dangerous advice taken from porn and not from real life.

 

[ToniTot]

Shave your hole. You will need a mirror to help.

Douche until the water you expel is clear.

Shower and then peroxide your opening so that it is now smooth and pink. You will be clean enough for him to rim you prior to fucking.

Lube and use a smaller dildo or plug. You want to be loose enough for initial penetration but still be tight. Practice clenching the dildo so that are able to pleasure your top.

These steps will give your top and you a nice experience.

peroxide? wont that burn, I use a dab of toothpaste (mint flavor) for rimming . rub a dab in for about 20 seconds than slightly rub the excess off. makes it nice and rosey pink. and a nice tinglingView attachment 2324086 sensation.

 

[Yesok1]

Use lube, you're butt doesn't self lubricate. Lube is more comfortable and you are less likely to hurt yourself. Agree with the coconut oil. I use a durex lube and coconut oil. I prefer the coconut oil though because its a natural product.

I've only taken toys, tongues and hands (fists). Don't rush, and take your time. If it hurts stop, and reposition to try again. Relax and enjoy the ride.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Oh I will I clench those muscles when the chance arises

Your wife and your men will enjoy your efforts so much

 

[cowboyup6977]

Has anyone tried a coffee enema
I highly recommend it
Get cleaned out and wired at the same time

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

Has anyone tried a coffee enema
I highly recommend it
Get cleaned out and wired at the same time

What a great idea! And you won't have to piss all morning after all that coffee!

 

[PantsAndPencils]

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[Swuchroo]

peroxide? wont that burn, I use a dab of toothpaste (mint flavor) for rimming . rub a dab in for about 20 seconds than slightly rub the excess off. makes it nice and rosey pink. and a nice tinglingView attachment 2324086 sensation.

Slightly tingle. May have to try the tooth paste.

Giving my top a smooth, clean and pink hole is usually a huge turn on for him. It almost always results in my top exploring my hole with his tongue before he fucks me.

 

[Swuchroo]

Use lube, you're butt doesn't self lubricate. Lube is more comfortable and you are less likely to hurt yourself. Agree with the coconut oil. I use a durex lube and coconut oil. I prefer the coconut oil though because its a natural product.

I've only taken toys, tongues and hands (fists). Don't rush, and take your time. If it hurts stop, and reposition to try again. Relax and enjoy the ride.

I agree. You can’t use too much lube. My tops usually lube a few times during an intense fuck session.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

i totally agree they absolutely will enjoy

Imagine them possessing you and feeling your boipussy clenching their cock.

 

[MLG1016]

Has anyone tried a coffee enema
I highly recommend it
Get cleaned out and wired at the same time

Or you can Bump it up with some vodka

 

[ChrisSimp]

This is for after you're clean, just beofre youre going to get bent over.... Get a silicone ice cube tray that makes cylinder cubes for water bottle openings. Pour coconut oil in and put it in the fridge. You'll have a solid chunk of coconut oil you can insert for internal lube. Break a couple of inches off, you don't need the entire length. Works like magic. Rarely need more after the initial lube before penetration.

 

[Helgamite]

You may wish to start with but plugs after asking wife's approval. Let her help stretch you out.

I was gonna say start with a small butt plug then after a week, work up to the size of the males girth and length for a week. that should help.

I am a male. How do I prepare myself to be penetrated by a man? I am interested in preparing to accommodate his girth and in avoiding any mess when I am penetrated. What type or brand of lube should. What condoms do you recommend.

My suggestion would be to use a butt plug, a week should work to get your brownie ready for him. If you would like, As 4yourpleasureiam stated, you can have your wife (if married) use a series of strap-ons to help until your ready. plenty of lube, KY jelly, Vaseline or jailhouse way, Mayo will help.

Best to relax yourself, and don't let nerves make you tighter, have him go slow and penetrate with head for about a minute or two so you can get accustomed to his head. then slide in until the pressure becomes to much and then rest again until you take all of it. then the first few lunges go slow then gradually speed up until you get a rhythm.

 

[Giftboy]

I am a male. How do I prepare myself to be penetrated by a man? I am interested in preparing to accommodate his girth and in avoiding any mess when I am penetrated. What type or brand of lube should. What condoms do you recommend.

Well , Sweettastinghole, my advice is:

1. Start sphincter exercises by cramping to develop flexibility
2. Give your hole a deep soap and tepid water enema, until you run clear
3. After you enema, re enema with perfumed water. I use Ylang Ylang essential oil in cold press virgin olive oil.
4. Exercise your sphincter and anus with a thick ribbed dildo (up to twelve inches), to soften your anal canal.
5. Lube, I cannot advise, as my Tops have their own preference.
Always be demure and willing to go the extra inch and you will be fine.

 

[subdudeme13]

I have never had much success with bottom up cleaning. I go the top down route using a saline solution and drink a lot of it. You need to be careful and there are plenty of post out there. Good luck and enjoy!

 

[Giftboy]

I have never had much success with bottom up cleaning. I go the top down route using a saline solution and drink a lot of it. You need to be careful and there are plenty of post out there. Good luck and enjoy!

That just makes you vomit.

 

[subdudeme13]

Everyone is different and I didn't; but understand that it can. Either way, good luck! It is great to be able to take it with no worries other than how sore you will be! Enjoy!

I will add that I have had to have several colonoscopies and that is always done top down over the course of a day. It is not the most pleasant way.