Preparation for a Striptease/Lapdance

[WhatIfsAndWishes]

I have never done a striptease before but I have a special request from my boyfriend. I think I have the innermost clothing layer sorted out as I went to a lingerie store and am now quite well-equipped with fishnets and a sexy black corset/g-string combo.

But I would like to wear something over the top of this as my boyfriend will have never seen my new underwear before and I'm going to tease him mercilessly. How many layers is recommended? Also, should I be naked when I perform the lap dance or do this in my underwear?

I have been using the StripXperTease videos on YouTube as reference for the lap dance and I have looked at several videos on strip teasing but I'm still feeling a bit unsure. Can anyone also recommend me some more videos? The more moves I have to choose from, the better I think.

 

[infinity706]

Honestly, I'd think it would be ideal to strip him naked to before you start and do the lapdance after you are as well. Afterall, it's not like you have to worry about prostitution charges like if you were a stripper at a club. The only reason the dancers on Youtube wear underwear is because of the nudity rules. That way, they can get around the 18+ legal issues.

 

[Tmmldr]

Yep, but she wants to TEASE him. So the question really is what would be the worst possible striptease (bestest) for a guy.

I'd say it'd be stripping down to nothing while doing sucessive stages of lapdance, then putting the clothes back on one layer at a time, continuing with spurts of lapdancing.

And then actually grabbing the car keys off the table and driving off. Then calling him from the cell phone with more teasing.

 

[grrlongrrrl]

Do this: http://www.redtube.com/6273

lol, but seriously.

K

 

[WhatIfsAndWishes]

Do this: http://www.redtube.com/6273

lol, but seriously.

K

Wow, that's possibly the sexiest one I've seen. She's very good. Thanks.

 

[Holonet]

I would suggest leaving just...something on for the whole time... It would make me imagine what's underneath more...and that, to me anyway, makes me see red more lol. Perhaps tying him up is an option. You can't really push him past his limit of tolerance if he can get up and take you.

I think you ought to have the stuff on underneath, and dress casually over it, perhaps have a robe you can put on after you're in your lingerie if you're feeling more sadistic . I think if he can be tied down somehow, low lights, the works hehe. I'd say the dance itself doesn't matter too much...what matters is that you're doing it just for him. Make that clear, let yourself get turned on... Be creative if you like...like when you're totally stripped, go put on just some white panties and a robe, then get into it so much that you get wet so he can see it in the panties, and give him an occassional glimpse of your chest by breathing in his face and leaning over... Just completely random suggestions...:-D...really. Good luck hehe.

 

[LadyGenevieve]

Striptease / Lapdance

When I did lap dances, I found that the most reaction came from wearing something over the corset and thong. Generally, I wore a tophat and the jacket portion of formal tails, which could be substituted for just about any garment that reveals a glimpse of a portion of the attire beneath it. In my experience, all men love to be teased. Thigh highs are great because they require no assistance staying in place, they come in fabulous colors with lacy tops, and they enhance the outfit and the movement when wearing stilettos. After walking around the chair and teasing the guy with a brush of the thigh, fingers along the shoulders, nails lightly scoring the scalp, straddling the guy and shrugging the shoulders to release the cover up usually engenders an audible - and physical - reaction. Left in the corset, licking the lips slowly and wetly, moving hips in a circular motion over his lap will help you to find the saddle - the spot that you really want to entertain. Whether he is wearing anything or nothing at all, the moisture that you will produce (because we are human and the dance affects us too) can be felt by your guy as the dampness grows. Eye contact, a wicked smile, and breathless appreciative comments now and then don't hurt either. A corset that laces is nice because you have the option of allowing him to unwrap you. Every dancer has her own methods and her own experiences to draw from - hope this is somewhat helpful.

 

[tgnytg]

To tease him...

Tie him to the chair when he's wearing nothing but the rope, then tease him with the strip and lap dance.

 

[Derya]

depends on surprise or not?

I know you said he requested a strip and lap dance but are you going to surprise with when how it transpires as well as what you're wearing underneath.

If you're not going to surprise him maybe think about/identify what kind of clothing in a little bit of costuming fashion turns him on the most (example: maid outfit, schoolgirl etc) and that you feel grandly sexy in and use that.

If you want to surprise him...one of my best experiences with a boyfriend doing this I totally surprised him....was dressed in full professional office attire (or dress in something that's normal 'proper' attire for you, church clothes, work uniform etc), business suit etc, sexy, frilly layers just beneath as in slips and camisole then sexy maybe bit raunchy kinky thong and corset etc. Told him I needed to talk to him about something serious could he come and sit down for a few minutes. nonchalently turned on the music like I needed it to converse, used three songs, danced to the first one really sexy (or at least my version of sexy lol) but still totally in the business clothes, second song worked out of the clothes to the undergarments and then those off to the sexy last layer. Third song the half of danced in the a sexy attire then took that off to complete nudity. I found it very hot for me because he was fully dressed still from work just like a patron at a strip club and I worked it like I was expecting to make money from him ;-)

just a couple of thoughts let us know how it goes

 

[BenDover4]

I have never done a striptease before but I have a special request from my boyfriend. I think I have the innermost clothing layer sorted out as I went to a lingerie store and am now quite well-equipped with fishnets and a sexy black corset/g-string combo.

But I would like to wear something over the top of this as my boyfriend will have never seen my new underwear before and I'm going to tease him mercilessly. How many layers is recommended? Also, should I be naked when I perform the lap dance or do this in my underwear?

I have been using the StripXperTease videos on YouTube as reference for the lap dance and I have looked at several videos on strip teasing but I'm still feeling a bit unsure. Can anyone also recommend me some more videos? The more moves I have to choose from, the better I think.

As far as more research, go to http://findtubes.com/ and use the search featue to locate striptease or lap dance or any other subject of interest.

Regarding the outer clothing, I assume you two are well enough acquainted for you to know if he has any special interests. What would really get his attention attire wise? School Girl, Nurse, Cheerleader, School Teacher, those type of things are just but a few possibilities. If your personal wardrobe choices are somewhat limited, perhaps a costume shop is somewhere near by.

I'm not suggesting that you blow the budget for him. Something else perhaps, but not the budget.

Best of luck to you and let us know your decision and how everything came out...

 

[pwr2theblondes]

Practice in front a mirror or tape yourself!! Have fun!

 

[Sir Victor]

A past girl friend loved to strip for me and she was quite creative with it. She would take off her top, and then "accidentally" drop it between my legs, then slither down onto her knees to pick it up, and put her face against my crotch as she came back up in a very loving way!!!! You can imagine where it went from there ...

She had a very sheer, white, nearly see through nighty that she would wear with nothing else on. I would be breathing heavy in a few seconds after she began to move and tease!!!