WantsToExplore
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Please help prevent it!
Premature Ejaculation
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Luna_Bella
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I had done a lot of research about it on the internet and in books, for my husband was quite quick at the beginning of our relationship.... The thing that helped him.... Masturbation.... I had read somewhere that as teenagers guys train themselves to ejaculate quickly while masturbating because of the fear of being caught.... Therefore you have to train yourself to last longer..... Masturbate and try to make it last as long as possible everytime.... after a while it should help you learn how to slow down and take it easy.... and never underestimate the power of retiring yourself, if you get too excited and feel that you're about to come, pull out and start making out, or offer oral or digital sex to your partner until you feel that you're ready to go again....
Hope it helps!!!!
Hope it helps!!!!
PoeticMusings53
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Masturbate earlier in the day for 15-20 minutes, change your rhythm and angle, if you feel yourself getting close to early orgasm stop and go down on her for 2-3 minutes, give her plenty of foreplay before you start receiving direct stimulation, etc.
A_Kefka
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I prefer getting the guy to cum quickly, then his second time, it lasts much longer
Thats usually what I go for if it feels like I'm gonna go quick. Round 2 always lasts longer.
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Le Jacquelope
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Here's my solution.
Since your odds of meeting a woman like kskittles is roughly 1 in a billion, here's what you can do instead.
Give your girlfriend/wife lots of good, satisfying oral sex. That way when you do have intercourse, she probably won't mind if you blow early.
Since your odds of meeting a woman like kskittles is roughly 1 in a billion, here's what you can do instead.
Give your girlfriend/wife lots of good, satisfying oral sex. That way when you do have intercourse, she probably won't mind if you blow early.
satindesire
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EXACTLY!
As long as I reach orgasm first, I don't care when he pops. One second or one hour, I don't mind one bit.
human_male
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You can do an exercise where you bring yourself to the brink, either masturbate or sex, then you stop until the feeling goes away, then you carry on. You keep that up as long as you can and focus on your body and the sensations while you're doing it. This is supposed to get you accostomed to the sensations and things, and over time allows you to exercise greater control of your body. Or something. I don't remember exactly, but I remember that being covered in an Ozzy tv show about sex and sexuality called "Sex" and that's what it suggested you do. They had a young couple demonstrate and the girl was really hot. That's why it stuck in my mind.
Either that or just shuffle out a quick one while she's not looking.
Either that or just shuffle out a quick one while she's not looking.
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That makes a hell of a lot of sense.
Ok, your avatar is not you....but I sure like to look at that breast and the puffy....in fact, I may just use it later....any more pix of her?
diamondgal22
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If you have trouble with premature ejaculation you need to just practice. Practice holding it in longer when you have sex. Try holding it in an extra minute everyday. Do this every time you have sex and it should help you. Also google search "premature ejaculation cure". This will help you learn how to help your body be better.
Luna_Bella
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I just don't think this is the answer. It's just like all the desensitizing creams on the market.. whats the point of having sex if he doesn't feel a thing??I like my guy to enjoy sex has much as I do and feel things as much as do... I would rather go for "doing it twice" or "lot of foreplay and oral sex before" tactics then just numbing or making him less sensitive.
(and in most cases the condom doesn't help a thing, never made my husband last longer!! it just took lots of practice
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silverwhisper
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when i want to delay ejaculation, i usually stop whatever the stimulus is and switch to something else, such as giving oral. since i love doing that but have never yet reached orgasm doing it, that seems to work pretty well for me.
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Womanluvr
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get in touch with your prostate
I highly recommend experimenting with a nexus or aneros prostate massager when masturbating. The muscles you need to contract to get the maximum benefit out of these toys are the ones you don't want to contract when trying to prolong intercourse. I know now that everything I used to do to try stop my orgasm only caused it to happen more quickly.
I highly recommend experimenting with a nexus or aneros prostate massager when masturbating. The muscles you need to contract to get the maximum benefit out of these toys are the ones you don't want to contract when trying to prolong intercourse. I know now that everything I used to do to try stop my orgasm only caused it to happen more quickly.
satindesire
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One hour?!!?
*Chuckles* It's been known to happen. Not with my husband, he's far too well-endowed for more than twenty minutes of comfortable intercourse. My last partner before I met him was average sized and was freakishly able to withhold his orgasm as long as he wanted.
JHarrison01
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Google Tantric Sex.
The approach is to start and build slowly. When you feel close, back off and go back to foreplay where your lover is not stimulating you. This gives you time to recover. The objective is to prolong lovemaking by going to the edge, but not over. Breathing is also important. Pay attention to it and as you get excited force yourself to breathe slowly.
It is important that your partner understands what you are trying to do so they know when to go slow, when to let go and when to back off.
Don't forget to breathe!
The approach is to start and build slowly. When you feel close, back off and go back to foreplay where your lover is not stimulating you. This gives you time to recover. The objective is to prolong lovemaking by going to the edge, but not over. Breathing is also important. Pay attention to it and as you get excited force yourself to breathe slowly.
It is important that your partner understands what you are trying to do so they know when to go slow, when to let go and when to back off.
Don't forget to breathe!
Submission13
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... I had read somewhere that as teenagers guys train themselves to ejaculate quickly while masturbating because of the fear of being caught...
Yes this was true at least for me...Very embarrassing to hear your dad beat on the door and make fun of what you are doing in the bathroom for so long..
Yes this was true at least for me...Very embarrassing to hear your dad beat on the door and make fun of what you are doing in the bathroom for so long..
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