pregnancy not breeding

[pregnantsub]

In case you may not have guessed, I am a sub and I am pregnant.

Over the past few months the dynamics in my relationship with my husband, who I serve, has changed. When I was in the sick phase he didn't expect anything of me, and now that I am past that he expects very little.

I was hoping some other sub, or doms, that have been through pregnancy could offer me some advice or share their experiences so that I may learn from them.

Thanks,

 

[redelicious]

Many men, not just Doms, look at their partners differently during pregnancy. Maybe your husband is afraid of hurting you, or he doesn't want you to overexert yourself. This may not be your situation, but sometimes men have trouble veiwing pregnant women as sexual objects. Or it could be that he just wants you to concentrate on growing a healthy baby.

Talk to him. There is a little info here about pregnancy and safety, if that's a concern.

Congrats on the pregnancy and good luck.

 

[graceanne]

I agree with red. I think he's afraid of hurting you, or the baby. Talk to him about it.

 

[redelicious]

I'm posting again with a link to a BDSM/pregnancy thread here on lit. Again, the info here mostly relates to safety.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=8371592#post8371592

(just an aside for our mods and Lara, this topic seems to come up from time to time. I know the information in the above is incomplete, but perhaps it would be a good addition to the library as a place to start?)

 

[incubus'_sub]

Red probably has the most up to date information on this topic with regard to safety issues etc, but it might be wise to look at the whole picture here, not just your B&D relationship.

Pregnancy changes everything about your lifestyle, wishes & hopes, future plans. Red is probably right in that your husband is looking after you & the baby, keeping you safe from harm. Yes, you do have to talk to him if you desire to continue your previous activities. Just remember that each man is different in his reaction & response to a pregnant body, particularly one he loves. My first husband remained exactly the same towards me with regard to desire. My second husband regretted that we never had a pregnancy because he finds pregnant women a super turn on. Incubus, on the other hand, finds a pregnant body unattractive to him sexually. No nasty comments please, he can't help what turns him on & off.

Whatever the reason, your husband is behaving as he thinks best. Pregnancy only lasts a short time anyway, so enjoy it. It might be an idea to talk to your husband about how you want to continue your activities after the baby is born, as the "mother"image can throw some men a bit off too, as can the fact that the baby tends to come first in any relationship for a while.