The workings of the male organ are a mystery to any woman, but I always thought the longer he holds it in, the more likely it is to, well...you know...jet out like a bullet! So by extension if he has been holding it in, when he finally comes it means he can't take it any longer and he has to have release. And that is sexy.
So, I suppose, to cut a long story short...I like the shooting option.
It depends what we're doing...love the hot spatter of shooting spunk on my body...but if I'm sounding him for example. then he has no choice but to flood my hand with volcanically hot flow...
Well, when I'm really turned on it tends to fly out like a rocket. The wife enjoys that because she knows I'm super aroused by her. It makes her feel good.