My mind just does that. It can't let go and just focus on the positive things, although there were so many.
I did tell a (real-life) friend about some of the things I experienced this weekend, and the look on his face cheered me up quite a bit.
Well, I know Sophie and I were only there a few hours, but you gave us plenty and didn't take more than your share. We both liked you quite a bit.
Bask in it.
Laze around and let it soak in a little.
Well you didn't piss me off, I can tell you that.You were wonderful!
I'm having the same feelings and worries you're having, though... that I monopolized attention, getting more than I gave. I also feel like I was an ass to a lot of people and worried that I pissed people off.
I'm feeling just generally unappealing today.
I wish we would have gotten around to talking a bit more in Chicago, you seem like a really great guy (and someone that made me feel immediately comfortable). The impression that I got of you was a very positive one. I don't really either, and it was driving me crazy. Usually, when I need to get something off my chest, I talk to friends, family and husband, and when that isn't appropriate, I post about it on Lit.
I'm having these weird worries and concerns that I probably shouldn't be having, but my mind is just fucked up that way. Instead of just enjoying everything that happened, I'm doubting myself, I'm thinking that I got so much more than I gave and looked like a big egoist, and I'm worried that some of the people I was with might not have ended up enjoying themselves.
My mind just does that. It can't let go and just focus on the positive things, although there were so many.
I did tell a (real-life) friend about some of the things I experienced this weekend, and the look on his face cheered me up quite a bit.
). You were wonderful!
I'm having the same feelings and worries you're having, though... that I monopolized attention, getting more than I gave. I also feel like I was an ass to a lot of people and worried that I pissed people off.
I'm feeling just generally unappealing today.
Wish I could share this weekend with someone other than my wife (and roommate, who isn't around), but we don't tend to have the sort of friends who would "get" things like this.
Well you didn't piss me off, I can tell you that.
. We also like S, though we didn't get a chance to talk much.
. Though I was a little miffed that you distracted Molly from strumming on my back . Just kidding.
^5
You were wonderful!
I'm having the same feelings and worries you're having, though... that I monopolized attention, getting more than I gave. I also feel like I was an ass to a lot of people and worried that I pissed people off.
For me, though, I worry that I may have stolen the attention of a few people away from others who may have wanted it. And I know that I ignored a few people who wanted more of my attention. I'd be surprised if there are any hard feelings, but it's still something I worry about.
Jen, speaking personally, I didn't feel like you were dominating anything (well, maybe dominating isn't the best choice of words
Watching you and the demonstration Saturday was incredible, a great learning experience, both personally and for my writing, and you are an incredibly beautiful person -- and that includes more than just physical beauty.
And if I got tired of it, there were other people, other places and I could have just moved to one of them. I chose to be where you were because it was an incredible experience and I was just glad you opted to let me and everyone else share in a moment that very easily could have been taken to a private room.
You're making me blush here.
Your wife is such a lovely person as well. I'm in awe how comfortable you both are with your bodies.*Blush* Thank you. You are a wonderful person, and Freckles and I both enjoyed our time and conversation with you a lot. Freckles mentioned later how much she likes you
Next year we'll have to plan to spend some more time with you two. I understand that completely. As many posters here, I've always had to be very careful who I talk to about Lit, and about my sex life and all that. I still cannot talk to my best friend back in Germany about sex, which makes me sad. I'd love to share my feelings about all this with her, or at least to explain to her why I like the things I like, but she'd stop listening before I'd get around to even explain anything.
I'm feeling that way too. It's almost a sense of loss. And of course, now that I've had time to think all the "what-ifs" are creeping into my head. Insecurity issues and all that.
As for feeling like attention was monopolized, I don't think either of you hogged the spotlight at all, at least, not from anybody who wanted it. For me, though, I worry that I may have stolen the attention of a few people away from others who may have wanted it. And I know that I ignored a few people who wanted more of my attention. I'd be surprised if there are any hard feelings, but it's still something I worry about.
Exactly. I'm glad I'm not the only one feeling this way.
For what it's worth, I would have loved to talk to you a bit more because you seem quite interesting, but I don't think you monopolized anyone. Besides, there's always next year
You just like me because I told you that you have an enormous cock. Seriously dude, if that was me I'd get light headed.
And I know that I ignored a few people who wanted more of my attention. I'd be surprised if there are any hard feelings, but it's still something I worry about.
You just like me because I told you that you have an enormous cock. Seriously dude, if that was me I'd get light headed.
Freckles is extremely fond of it. (And picks on me for being self-conscious about it.)You and your wife were absolutely great. That was very cool that you let me show you some ideas for the massages. Trust me, I don't really think I'm all that great, but I do love doing it and learning about new techniques. It's great to be able to help someone who's in pain (or just needs to relax). I played a show at a nudist colony once, and did the last set naked. I thought it was great (and very relaxing), although my bass player wasn't thrilled about staring at my naked ass.
