Position Help

[Charlie_199]

When me and my boyfriend have sex the only way he can cum is if I'm on top or doggy-style. I don't really like being on top all the time and doggy-style is getting kinda boring since I can't see him when we have sex. So can someone please help on what positions we can try?

Thanks
Charlsie

 

[ReadyOne]

Try missionary with his legs outside yours. Squeeze your thighs together. This creats more friction for him and contacts more of his penis. And, it can push him harder against your clit.

 

[asenath]

Do all kinds of positions until you get off.. then finish him off with what he likes.

 

[BlueSugar]

try standing face to face with one of your legs on his arm holding it up.

lay completly down on your tummy with your hips up a little to have him have access, then he lays ontop of you, his legs outside if it helps him... and then your faces can be close to do what you want with and there is extra friction and hes still behind you- this one takes a liiittle practice.

 

[Ezzy]

Try a lateral coital position, or having a bit on the side.

You lay on your back with one hip raised high; he enters from the rear almost in a spooning position, while you turn your shoulders and upper body towards him.

This allows you both to see and play with each other with your hands while allowing control of the friction and depth he is able to thrust.

We often use this as a part of second time around making love, as most of both partners weight is supported and you can be either tender and slow or dynamic and thrusting.

Go and get a good sex guide, read through and select many different positions, that you can try for only a couple of minutes each. Then as someone else offered, use the different positions to get your self off, and then finish him in one that he likes.

There are lots of other things that you can add, talk to him about it, (not in a nagging way) but talk to him about his fantasies and see if you can make one of them come true for him, offer him one of yours that you would like him to take part in as a taster.

When all is said and done the most basic thing you must do, is to communicate your wants and needs to him, and maintain that commitment to the communication, if you want to see the matter resolved.

 

[Charlie_199]

Thanks for the suggestions guys. If anyone has any more feel free to post them.

 

[SmilinAngel]

My SO and I like spooning. He gets the doggie style that he likes, but if I lay on the bed, and he holds himself up with his one arm, we can still kiss and look at each other. Another good one is when you sit on a high bar stool, or counter, still sitting up, and him entering. My SO likes it because it feels tighter but we're still face-to-face. I hope this helps! Good luck!

 

[TempWife]

In a chair, him sitting, you sitting on top of him ...facing him...

 

[bytor2112]

When me and my boyfriend have sex the only way he can cum is if I'm on top or doggy-style. I don't really like being on top all the time and doggy-style is getting kinda boring since I can't see him when we have sex. So can someone please help on what positions we can try?

Thanks
Charlsie

maybe you need to put on some makeup or lose some weight...

cause it sounds like you ain't woman enough to get your man off..

 

[Charlie_199]

Re: Re: Position Help

maybe you need to put on some makeup or lose some weight...

cause it sounds like you ain't woman enough to get your man off..

Can you say asshole. Just to let you know I'm not fat and I wear make-up all the time. Its not me. He's told me its been that way with every girlfriend he's had. My boyfriend is the one who is big and I don't mind it at all. I like him just the way he is.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Bytor is a troll, Charlie, don't mind him. Just click that little ignore button and make him disappear if you want. You won't be missing anything.

 

[Charlie_199]

Bytor is a troll, Charlie, don't mind him. Just click that little ignore button and make him disappear if you want. You won't be missing anything.

Thanks. That's just what I did.

 

[vargas111]

Gramatical mistakes on this thread

I lay on the bed and he holds. (I lie on the bed and he holds)

Me and my boyfriend (My boyfriend and I)

Lay down on your tummy (Lie down on your tummy)

Lay is a TRANSITIVE verb, people!

 

[MissTaken]

Gramatical mistakes on this thread

I may be mistaken, but isn't the proper spelling "grammatical?"

 

[phoenix1224]

Try sitting on the edge of a table or dresser... with him standing... It kind of stretches the vagina into a 'tighter' position... Which will give him what he needs to get off and allow you both to face one another.

Have fun...

 

[bashfull]

Have you tried turning around while on top? You on top, riding him, but facing the other way? Kinda like upside down doggie, if that makes any sense. And you can also lean back which allows him to reach around your body, one hand caressing your breasts while the other rests on your mound, his fingers plying and touching you, his breath and kisses falling passionately upon the nape of your neck.

Just a thought.



Bash

 

[Noor]

try the scissor position, you can get good depth like doggy and woman on top but its different and you can do other stuff like kiss, use your hands, that sort of thing.

to get in the scissors position, lie on your sides like spooning, turn back slightly so your shoulder is against his opposite shoulder and put one leg through his and one on top on his. I hope you can understand from that.

 

[Ezzy]

try the scissor position, you can get good depth like doggy and woman on top but its different and you can do other stuff like kiss, use your hands, that sort of thing.

to get in the scissors position, lie on your sides like spooning, turn back slightly so your shoulder is against his opposite shoulder and put one leg through his and one on top on his. I hope you can understand from that.

See my post above for the same position with a different description.

 

[pandoravampire]

take a hair scrunchie tie thing, and slip it over his entire equipment, then try any position you want. Heightens things for him we found.

 

[Noor]

See my post above for the same position with a different description.

Oh, I thought yours was a different variation without the legs entwined.

 

[Noor]

See my post above for the same position with a different description.

Oh, I thought yours was a different variation without the legs entwined.

 

[Charlie_199]

Have you tried turning around while on top? You on top, riding him, but facing the other way? Kinda like upside down doggie, if that makes any sense. And you can also lean back which allows him to reach around your body, one hand caressing your breasts while the other rests on your mound, his fingers plying and touching you, his breath and kisses falling passionately upon the nape of your neck.

Just a thought.



Bash

Yeah we do that position all the time. It's one of my favorites and his.

 

[Charlie_199]

try the scissor position, you can get good depth like doggy and woman on top but its different and you can do other stuff like kiss, use your hands, that sort of thing.

to get in the scissors position, lie on your sides like spooning, turn back slightly so your shoulder is against his opposite shoulder and put one leg through his and one on top on his. I hope you can understand from that.

Yes I can understand what you are saying. We haven't tried that one before. I guess we will have to sometime.

 

[Jaded1]

From past experiences I have found that most gals that enjoy being on top or doggy sytle seem to enjoy deep peneration...

Sexual antics should not be limited to a bedroom. One of my favorite places is on top of the kitchen table... With you lying on your back you can place your legs against his chest. This still allow un obstructed entrance. He can push deep inside you. You can watch the pleasure build on his face. This gives him easy access to your breasts and to massage your clit. You can cross your legs and tighten yourself around his shaft. The friction will cause him to explode inside you very quickly...

I personelly enjoy slow deep strokes...

Have fun and enjoy one another...

 

[LustyWench]

Originally posted by vargas111
Gramatical mistakes on this thread


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Apparently, grammar and spelling are two different things! At least to the OP!