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I am interested in getting into one and was wanting to hear others experience.Am I delusional? I am interested in it being FFM with all being equals..
Thanks in Advance..
There is nothing wrong with it, though I would prefer MMF.
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I am interested in getting into one and was wanting to hear others experience.Am I delusional? I am interested in it being FFM with all being equals..
Thanks in Advance..
You should go to Surf City, 'cause it's two to one. Two girls for every boy.
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I must live in Turf City then. We have the opposite ratio...or worse.
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I am interested in getting into one and was wanting to hear others experience.Am I delusional? I am interested in it being FFM with all being equals..
Thanks in Advance..
Do you have anyone in mind? Or just the concept so far? Have you talked about this with your husband?
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Both preferably
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I am interested in getting into one and was wanting to hear others experience.Am I delusional? I am interested in it being FFM with all being equals..
Thanks in Advance..
You know, you get an extra mother in law, as part of the deal.
I've had three wives and several other serious relationships in the past. All of my partners were women with many fine qualities. I can't imagine any possible way that any two of them could have lived with me at the same time.
The purpose of a relationship is to make life easier than living alone. If it creates more work than it saves, something is wrong.
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Apparently, they couldn't one at a time either.
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Well that....
...and don't most triads start out with a couple looking for a third?
Seems a bit ambitious to start as a singleton and find two individuals you can stand that are into you AND into each other?
I have this theory about arousal, pheromones and threesomes. If M1 and F1 are attracted chemically, and M1 and F2 are attracted, F1 and F2 will not be. My working (field tested) hypothesis is that the only way a MFF threesome happens is if M1F1 finds an F2 that is strongly and mutually attracted to the F1 and the M1 goes along with it for the visuals, and avoids pissing off the F2.
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Well you should see Polythene Pam
She's so good-looking but she looks like a man
Well you should see her in drag dressed in her polythene bag
Yes you should see Polythene Pam
Yeah yeah yeah
Get a dose of her in jackboots and kilt
She's killer-diller when she's dressed to the hilt
She's the kind of a girl that makes the "News of the World"
Yes you could say she was attractively built
Yeah yeah yeah
She's so good-looking but she looks like a man
Well you should see her in drag dressed in her polythene bag
Yes you should see Polythene Pam
Yeah yeah yeah
Get a dose of her in jackboots and kilt
She's killer-diller when she's dressed to the hilt
She's the kind of a girl that makes the "News of the World"
Yes you could say she was attractively built
Yeah yeah yeah
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Just the title of this thread makes me want a cracker.
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Profile says she's married.
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Ah...missed that part.
We have ad a lot of threads like that. I didn't get a sense of a couple's search.
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More likely, F2 really wants M1. Threesomes are great, but right after that, bad things happen.
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Your profile states you identify as bicurious, not bisexual. I foremost question the validity of equality if all involved are not similarly attracted to each other. Would you want to be in a relationship with a woman, if your husband wasn't part of the equation? Meaning, could you have the same emotional commitment to another woman, independent of any sexual desires? That's what poly is, not simply a free-for-all-fuckfest, but a relationship between all involved.x posted in GLBC
I am interested in getting into one and was wanting to hear others experience.Am I delusional? I am interested in it being FFM with all being equals..
Thanks in Advance..
I know a few who have tried it. None have made it longer than a year, and the original foundational relationships (mostly MF, one FF) splintered in the resulting breakups.
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so I have had maybe 3 hrs of sleep, it's hot and humid
I think you need to really think about what you mean by poly and what the appeal is for you.
I do know a several successful poly families of long standing around here. It's really much more than sex. Some have group sex and some just have scheduled sex. Some have several households and some all live together. However, none of them really started out as a traditional relationship and then moved into poly.
Then there also are the open relationships which can mean open intimacy or just open on sex. I have one friend in a 25+ year marriage who has an agreement that sex is fine as long as there are no boyfriends.
I am not particularly monogamous, however, I can be if that is something my lover and I agree to or sometimes it just happens with certain people.
Relationships can have a will of their own. You can meet someone and suddenly find yourself in something neither of you was looking for and certainly didn't want, but there you are and you make a decision or sometimes many conflicting decisions until there is some sort of agreement to accept how you both feel and go with it. This kind of connection doesn't happen everyday, and it's very unusual to even find it with one person let alone two or more.
I think you need to really think about what you mean by poly and what the appeal is for you.
I do know a several successful poly families of long standing around here. It's really much more than sex. Some have group sex and some just have scheduled sex. Some have several households and some all live together. However, none of them really started out as a traditional relationship and then moved into poly.
Then there also are the open relationships which can mean open intimacy or just open on sex. I have one friend in a 25+ year marriage who has an agreement that sex is fine as long as there are no boyfriends.
I am not particularly monogamous, however, I can be if that is something my lover and I agree to or sometimes it just happens with certain people.
Relationships can have a will of their own. You can meet someone and suddenly find yourself in something neither of you was looking for and certainly didn't want, but there you are and you make a decision or sometimes many conflicting decisions until there is some sort of agreement to accept how you both feel and go with it. This kind of connection doesn't happen everyday, and it's very unusual to even find it with one person let alone two or more.
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Unless two of them are best friends and sharing, all close friends to begin with helps.
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That must have been where I got it wrong. I knew something wasn't quite right.
From my experience, I would not advise this sort of thing with anyone you want to keep around.
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I am told my early sexual experiences were unusual.
No jealousy, lots of sharing, always condoms, we stayed at each others houses, did road trips, same group of people for many years.
That was when I was in my hometown, otherwise I went to my long time best friend's house out of state several times a year and there was his local best friend.
Oh, and consensus helps, if you can't do that process it is much harder to work things out.
Poly relationships would probably benefit from consensus too.
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