poll- does size matter?

[Necairus]

there are 2 answers oviously yes or no

 

[Kokuchin]

It matters to anyone who bothers to vote in this poll, because everyone has had to think about it to answer.

The fact that people would consider it, means it does matter in SOME way. If something is irrelevant, would you even consider it?

Plus...many men(including myself) wonder if we measure up to other guys. I think it could be a 'natural' thing for guys.

As for women...i'm not so sure. I think the feelings they can experience would be more important than the size?

I'm not sure, as some women say they like it big...others say they like a good lover...no matter the size.

But either way...too big or small a penis will not work well...larger ones may hurt.

I dunno...just my opinion

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

It matters to anyone who bothers to vote in this poll, because everyone has had to think about it to answer.

The fact that people would consider it, means it does matter in SOME way. If something is irrelevant, would you even consider it?

Plus...many men(including myself) wonder if we measure up to other guys. I think it could be a 'natural' thing for guys.

As for women...i'm not so sure. I think the feelings they can experience would be more important than the size?

I'm not sure, as some women say they like it big...others say they like a good lover...no matter the size.

But either way...too big or small a penis will not work well...larger ones may hurt.

I dunno...just my opinion

Size always matters.... to some people. I know women who swear that if your under 7inches your not worth fucking, and I know those who could care less if the penis was less then 2 inches. It all depends on the person. I compare it to women and their breasts. Some people feel that larger is better, some like smaller, and some could care less as long as they are attached to a body ^_^

I fall into the size doesn't matter catagory. If I loved a guy I could care less how small or large his cock was.

-Zergplex

 

[jaded_lily]

size does matter to some people but i'm not one of those people. i've had big and small and it's not the size that matters it's if they know how to work it and what they are doing with it.

 

[Kissophile]

Size does matter - the size of your heart, the depth of your soul, the breadth of your experience, and the reach of your dreams.

 

[College_geek]

Size does matter - the size of your heart, the depth of your soul, the breadth of your experience, and the reach of your dreams.

That was a wonderful response, Kiss.

 

[jaded_lily]

Size does matter - the size of your heart, the depth of your soul, the breadth of your experience, and the reach of your dreams.

very well said Kiss

 

[Lady Tango]

Size does matter - the size of your heart, the depth of your soul, the breadth of your experience, and the reach of your dreams.

What a lovely reply.

 

[Neil NYC]

I dont really think so, but in most cases I'd think that women would prefer a larger dick to a smaller one. JMO.

 

[Kissophile]

Thanks to College_geek, jaded_lily, and Lady Tango for the compliment.

This whole issue is such a bore - it has been ground into the dirt a thousand times here on these bulletin boards and yet it springs back up again like dandelions in a good lawn.

It's about time that people started to understand that what matters is the heart of the relationship - unless you're auditioning to be the next Dirk Diggler.

 

[Saytur]

no


but a lack of it does

 

[Lady Tango]

I dont really think so, but in most cases I'd think that women would prefer a larger dick to a smaller one. JMO.

I have experienced a guy with a "larger dick" and quite honestly size was not the issue. I thought it might be something special to feel him inside but it was no different to a guy with a 'normal' dick! In fact having a guy slam against your cervix is probably like a guy being kicked in the balls!

Once and for all guys - size isn't the issue here but how good are in satisfying your partners. Remeber foreplay?

 

[jaded_lily]

I dont really think so, but in most cases I'd think that women would prefer a larger dick to a smaller one. JMO.

can you tell what you did wrong? you thought. you think women would prefer a larger one to a smaller one. nuh-uh that's not necessarily true. guys with smaller at least attempt to work it a little better. some guys with bigger think "hey i've got a big dick i don't have to try hard to please my woman, just ram it in a few times and she'll be happy" sooooooo not the case. but that is another story.


sorry guys in pain, i'll stop ranting now.



and your welcome kiss!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I can't vote in the poll... only because your question, while it implies what size you're asking about, doesn't specify... and size, to me, matters in some things. But not penis size. I've had a lover that was 5 inches, and he was FABULOUS in bed. He was one of my better lovers. And I have my current lover, who gets up to 8.5. And he's wonderful, too. And I've had men in between who, while they "had size", they sucked in bed. *shrug*

However, as far as other things, I DO prefer a big butt on my female lovers. The size of my feet bug me. I prefer large cups of tea over small ones.

The size of someone's heart, metaphysically speaking, is big to me.

The size of my pencil is completely relevant. I HATE using a short pencil. My chubby hands don't get along with them.

Get me?


Oh, and to supply you with the same rant that EVERYONE asking about dick size gets from me on this board: get over your dick. We honestly don't care all THAT much. We're more concerned with whether you remember things that are important to us, whether you know how to please us with your mind, your heart, and your tongue, than your dick. Honestly.

 

[asenath]

Yes.. size does matter. A while back someone borrowed my truck to hull some cement for a patio he was putting in. If he used his smaller truck he would have had to make twice the trips.

But wait.. you weren't talking about trucks, were you?

 

[EbonyVenus]

The bigger they are the.....

Yes it matter... Now how much is the real question


Ebony

 

[LadyJeanne]

I like them medium-sized, but that's a preference, not a requirement or a cause for disappointment or excitement. It's the guy that matters.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

Oh, and to supply you with the same rant that EVERYONE asking about dick size gets from me on this board: get over your dick. We honestly don't care all THAT much. We're more concerned with whether you remember things that are important to us, whether you know how to please us with your mind, your heart, and your tongue, than your dick. Honestly.

Heh, here is the problem (and as I mentioned earlier I know and believe it doesn't mean anything to people who matter). To some women a large dick DOES mean something, and they are generally far louder then you who believe it doesn't matter. In fact I remember we had a few people around this board about half a year ago who swore that anyone who told you size didn't matter was lieing, and we had a rather good debate over here about it.

These types of people are what keeps this myth alive, and proves it is NOT a myths. It is a preference, and some people DO have a strong preference. What men need to learn and understand is if your with someone who has a problem with your dick size, then most likely they arn't someone you want to be dating at all. Sorry for the rant people ^_^

-Zergplex

 

[wicked woman]

Re: Zergplex Says

Originally posted by Zergplex
Heh, here is the problem (and as I mentioned earlier I know and believe it doesn't mean anything to people who matter). To some women a large dick DOES mean something, and they are generally far louder then you who believe it doesn't matter. In fact I remember we had a few people around this board about half a year ago who swore that anyone who told you size didn't matter was lieing, and we had a rather good debate over here about it.

These types of people are what keeps this myth alive, and proves it is NOT a myths. It is a preference, and some people DO have a strong preference. What men need to learn and understand is if your with someone who has a problem with your dick size, then most likely they arn't someone you want to be dating at all. Sorry for the rant people ^_^

-Zergplex

It's the exact same thing for men who 'prefer' women with large breasts...but I'm sure as hell not going to go around constantly wondering if my breasts are large enough, or if I can make a man happy with them, or get breast augmentation over it. Hell no...love me for who I am or don't bother!

*and personally for the record...I think they're perfect *

 

[Zergplex]

Re: Re: Zergplex Says

It's the exact same thing for men who 'prefer' women with large breasts...but I'm sure as hell not going to go around constantly wondering if my breasts are large enough, or if I can make a man happy with them, or get breast augmentation over it. Hell no...love me for who I am or don't bother!

*and personally for the record...I think they're perfect *

I agree completely, they are both preferences and neither should go into the decision about whether you should be dating someone or not.

Believe it or not all men are not constantly wondering about their dick size ^_^() I am a bit below the average myself and I am more then happy with myself. I can please the women I love, and it's proportional to my body and I love it ^_^

-Zergplex

 

[pandoravampire]

is the pope Catholic?

yes!

 

[Neil NYC]

I have experienced a guy with a "larger dick" and quite honestly size was not the issue. I thought it might be something special to feel him inside but it was no different to a guy with a 'normal' dick! In fact having a guy slam against your cervix is probably like a guy being kicked in the balls!

Once and for all guys - size isn't the issue here but how good are in satisfying your partners. Remeber foreplay?

haha, I do not mean like the size of an elephant trunk. In my personal experience and inquiries a small penis does not feel as pleasurable, then again different strokes for different folks

 

[cyberski]

Use the power of the search function Necairus, and you'll find this same friggin question has been asked at least a hundred times.....

 

[ozbloke1980]

Well I'll put it this way girls. How would you feel if a guy said to you I don't want you cuz ur boobs aren't big enough?

You'd be hurt and rightly so. As far as I'm concerned that's the same deal.

 

[Alyx]

I see we're beating this tired old dead horse once again. I understand insecurities, but seriously, if a man is built on the smaller side, there's not a damn thing he can do to make it any bigger. It's just something he has to live with. Stop obsessing about something that cannot be changed, and concentrate on something you CAN improve.

If you think you have a small dick that wouldn't be able to please a woman, learn how to please her in other ways. You have hands, yes? A tongue? A mind? Use them!

Do you really think that any woman worth having is going to care that your willy is on the small side, when she's experiencing the best oral orgasms she's had in her life? Do you think she's going to stop you in the middle of sex to complain that your schlong is too small, when she's been immersed in her favorite fantasy for the last hour? Do you think she's going to kick you out of her bedroom after she's had multiple g-spot orgasms because your trouser snake isn't 8" long? Please, try to grow up just a bit.

A dick is just a dick. It is NOT the be-all, end-all of sex. It is simply one tool out of many that is used during sex. If one tool isn't as adequate as YOU think it should be, then work on the others! I would rather have a man with a small dick, who is confident in his own abilities to bring me to orgasm, than a man with a larger dick, obsessed about the size of his wanker.

To answer Ozbloke's question, I would thank my lucky stars the asshole made that comment, just before I kicked his worthless ass to the curb. I happen to LIKE my tits just the way they are. . However, I don't think the question really has as much relevance to this topic as you may think. Breast size can be changed. Dick size can't. Live with it.

~Alyx~