Poll: Bad sex/No sex

[Kahlo]

Say you were in a relationship with someone that wasn't very good in bed. Would you just keep having bad sex, or would you rather have no sex at all?

 

[Evan7403]

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Say you were in a relationship with someone that wasn't very good in bed. Would you just keep having bad sex, or would you rather have no sex at all?

Good question. Lots of factors to consider. Why is the sex bad? What is the connection or is there one? Are you compatible on other levels? I had good sex with my wife when we got together...not mind blowing. It got a little better. After many years there's now a desert where our sex life used to reside.... We still have lots of wonderful things in our relationship and go through spurts of working on the sex.

 

[constant70]

Say you were in a relationship with someone that wasn't very good in bed. Would you just keep having bad sex, or would you rather have no sex at all?

Is love in this equation?, 'cause with practice there is always room for improvement, but the girl next door does look hot

 

[Kahlo]

Good question. Lots of factors to consider. Why is the sex bad? What is the connection or is there one? Are you compatible on other levels? I had good sex with my wife when we got together...not mind blowing. It got a little better. After many years there's now a desert where our sex life used to reside.... We still have lots of wonderful things in our relationship and go through spurts of working on the sex.

Thanks! I think the factors are similar..

Is love in this equation?, 'cause with practice there is always room for improvement, but the girl next door does look hot

Not some casual relationship.. like a spouse, etc..

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

I would just do my best to change things... try new things... anything to make it better if the person is worth it.

 

[sexywriterfla]

Say you were in a relationship with someone that wasn't very good in bed. Would you just keep having bad sex, or would you rather have no sex at all?

I think I'd have to say it would depend on many different factors. Is the bad lover just inexperienced or unwilling to try to get better, etc? Or is it something else entirely? Personally, I was married to someone who was a raging alcoholic and lousy in bed because of it. Most of the time, I'd avoid sex with this person and just masturbate. Better than nothing...

 

[k_m_d_]

I wouldn't stop having sex entirely, just far more infrequently than if the sex was good. I think everybody eventually reaches the point where bad sex is better than no sex.

 

[blackstallion21]

WELL I'm currently living the NO SEX AT ALL thing and I FUCKING HATE IT so I'd weigh my options, and I'd probably just keep having bad sex! Fuck it! She's giving it up right?

 

[NiteOwl_]

Hmmm.... As most people have said, it depends on if the sex is worth working on. Personally, sex has always been such a large part of my relationships (not that they're based on sex. I've just been lucky enough to have been with some intensely sexual people) that I can't imagine a relationship without it.

So, I guess I'd say that I'd rather have bad sex, because at least there's hope for the future. You can't get better at something if you don't try.

 

[HornyVikingMN]

Say you were in a relationship with someone that wasn't very good in bed. Would you just keep having bad sex, or would you rather have no sex at all?

I think the three choices are tough... But I'll go with bad sex with frequent masturbation to supplement. Hope springs eternal, right?

Although, at one time I did have a couple of hot neighbors that could have convinced me to change my vote!

 

[Noor]

I wouldn't stop having sex entirely, just far more infrequently than if the sex was good. I think everybody eventually reaches the point where bad sex is better than no sex.

I don't. No sex is better than bad sex.

 

[Noor]

seriously at 24 and male, how can sex be so bad? What is bad about it and what are you doing to make it better?

 

[k_m_d_]

You realize this was a hypothetical question, right? I haven't gotten any in a while .

 

[Melbournian]

I would still keeping having it whether bad or good, atleast its sex ...

 

[r_baby]

Bad sex puts me off sex, which leads to lack of desire and ultimately no sex.

Couldn't mess around with the neighbour, not fair on anyone.

 

[switchbitch]

there is only one logical answer to this question, if the sex is bad improve it! Anyone can be taught to have great sex. And if they don't want to learn there is always the neighbour.

 

[sethp]

This a tough one. I mean sometimes bad sex isn't bad...and is much better than no sex at all. you get to touch someone else, feel their body. The only bad sex would be if they smell or it hurts you or something of that nature. Having said that. I would continue to have bad sex and then masturbate later if you don't cum.

If it's bad sex of the smelly, painful kind then go for the neighbor and end the relationship. It's doomed to failure at this point.

 

[Noor]

You realize this was a hypothetical question, right? I haven't gotten any in a while .

Considering your age, it might be time to break up with this person and find someone who likes sex.

 

[muffalo]

How come the other option aside from bad sex is no sex? Are you suggesting that you are staying with that person, and being faithful, but not fucking? What about finding sex outside of that relationship? Is that not an option?
I'm not sure what it would be like to have bad sex on a regular basis. I mean, I get it, I've had bad sex, but I agree with switchbitch, you can make it better.
As well, the human touch is healthy for us. It's proven to stimulate brain activity(outside of just the moment when being touched), lower blood pressure, and generally keep people happy.
So I would have to say bad sex is better than no sex. It can certainly be frustrating for a guy when he can't get it up. But I'll take a hand down my pants while we watch a movie, or playing with titties, or especially eating pussy, any day of the week.
Bad sex. Yup.
Kahlo...are you having bad sex? you definitely deserve good sex with that body and attitude

 

[k_m_d_]

Considering your age, it might be time to break up with this person and find someone who likes sex.

What person?

 

[Kahlo]

How come the other option aside from bad sex is no sex? Are you suggesting that you are staying with that person, and being faithful, but not fucking? What about finding sex outside of that relationship? Is that not an option?
I'm not sure what it would be like to have bad sex on a regular basis. I mean, I get it, I've had bad sex, but I agree with switchbitch, you can make it better.
As well, the human touch is healthy for us. It's proven to stimulate brain activity(outside of just the moment when being touched), lower blood pressure, and generally keep people happy.
So I would have to say bad sex is better than no sex. It can certainly be frustrating for a guy when he can't get it up. But I'll take a hand down my pants while we watch a movie, or playing with titties, or especially eating pussy, any day of the week.
Bad sex. Yup.
Kahlo...are you having bad sex? you definitely deserve good sex with that body and attitude

No.. It is just a hypothetical question that came up in a conversation I was having the other day and I was curious to see what everyone had to say about it. Thanks though.. lol

 

[Dainslef]

The only kind of bad sex is no sex at all.

 

[blackstallion21]

Considering your age, it might be time to break up with this person and find someone who likes sex.

THIS IS EASIER SAID THAN DONE!!! especially if you're not in a relationship!

Ever LOSE a Job and try to find one? IT'S HARD AS SHIT!

It seems to be the same thing in relationship hunting! I've been single for 2 years and it's been the longest and most fucked up SEXLESS 2 years of my effing life!

 

[Marcj1969]

When we dated sex was good, got married, sex was ok(at best), 12 years went by sex was miserable! found out she was cheating, kicked her ass out the door!! Now I'm single and the sex is amazing!!
Shouldn't go through life being miserable, sex is a very important part of a relationship

 

[GrayAthena]

You can improve bad sex. No sex is just no sex.