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Are you looking to spice it up? I'm not quite sure what you want. Has she told you that she isn't being please?
SpankysGirl
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Have you tried something new and/or different than your ordinary?
Or perhaps in a different place or room than your usual?
Have you tried adding toys into the equation?
What kind of spices are you looking for? There are a variety of flavored oils.
Or perhaps in a different place or room than your usual?
Have you tried adding toys into the equation?
What kind of spices are you looking for? There are a variety of flavored oils.
PertPerth
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It depends what your girl likes!
There is so much info around...just have a looksy to find something that will suit
The black manual (which is a sticky at the top of this forum) :
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=243894
and this seems to be popular too :
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
There is so much info around...just have a looksy to find something that will suit
The black manual (which is a sticky at the top of this forum) :
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=243894
and this seems to be popular too :
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
M's girl
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So.... ask her, or rather.... talk to her about it. Tell her how much you want to please her because that is the greatest turn on for you! No matter what you do after that (well, not really, but you know what I mean) ... it does not matter. She will know you will go out of your way to please her and that might just be the biggest turn on for her.
KokopelliRises
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Here's an idea I just thought of: take her to a sex shop, preferably one that is neat and tidy, with decent lighting and one that appears to be woman-friendly. I would recommend Lovers (used to be Lover's Package). Just browse around, see what she likes and dislikes in the way of toys and products and take that into consideration.
Or, if you don't want to go into a shop, check into an online sex shop with her. A couple I can think of off the top of my head are:
http://www.adameve.com
http://www.tabutoys.com
Good luck and have fun.
Or, if you don't want to go into a shop, check into an online sex shop with her. A couple I can think of off the top of my head are:
http://www.adameve.com
http://www.tabutoys.com
Good luck and have fun.
response from carljon
Something that sparked up my sex life was when my wife bought a novel filled with stories of spanking. We've spent many erotic nights reading to each other and then role playing. It is a way to get the fantasy life juiced up and then when we can hardly stand it we get it on.
Something else I do, even though I have good staying duration, my wife does not orgasm from intercourse. After I finish I always massage her clit until she orgasms. Sometimes that is a real act of sheer love, because after I cum I could collapse and sleep in a second. To keep my concentration and please her requires great effort. Sometimes I will take a break from intercourse and please her first then after she is satisfied then I get mine.
Something that sparked up my sex life was when my wife bought a novel filled with stories of spanking. We've spent many erotic nights reading to each other and then role playing. It is a way to get the fantasy life juiced up and then when we can hardly stand it we get it on.
Something else I do, even though I have good staying duration, my wife does not orgasm from intercourse. After I finish I always massage her clit until she orgasms. Sometimes that is a real act of sheer love, because after I cum I could collapse and sleep in a second. To keep my concentration and please her requires great effort. Sometimes I will take a break from intercourse and please her first then after she is satisfied then I get mine.
SpankysGirl
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carljon said:
See, now you have won points with me already
You know how every person like different things? There's no universal manual that will solve all your problems. The best things to do to her are things that she likes. You can get better at reading her body language (a very good skill to have) and/or ask her.a_g_u_y said:
The sex toy shopping idea is a good one -- we always enjoy finding new toys. Similarly, finding new ideas together is fun too.
Please Elaborate
It would be VERY helpful if you could be more specific.
You mentioned "new ideas". Does this mean you've been with her awhile and think your sex life is in a rut, or is it just that everything you've tried up until now isn't working for her?
As other people have mentioned, every woman wants different things and asking her is the easiest way to learn what she wants, but only if you're actually willing to ask and she's actually willing to tell you. If for some reason that isn't something that's going to happen right now, giving more information on this board will help you get better advice ... How long have you been together? Has she ever had an orgasm with you at any time, during any activity? ... those type of specifics.
a_g_u_y said:
It would be VERY helpful if you could be more specific.
You mentioned "new ideas". Does this mean you've been with her awhile and think your sex life is in a rut, or is it just that everything you've tried up until now isn't working for her?
As other people have mentioned, every woman wants different things and asking her is the easiest way to learn what she wants, but only if you're actually willing to ask and she's actually willing to tell you. If for some reason that isn't something that's going to happen right now, giving more information on this board will help you get better advice ... How long have you been together? Has she ever had an orgasm with you at any time, during any activity? ... those type of specifics.
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Girls are different.
Try to find out her preferences: you may judge it by her response when you fuck her or just ask her how you should fuck her directly by the time.
I used to have two girlfrineds, one of them loved me to fuck her as hard as possible, and another one loved me to do as gentle as possible.
It's also a way to flirt to ask such questions when you are having sex.
Try to find out her preferences: you may judge it by her response when you fuck her or just ask her how you should fuck her directly by the time.
I used to have two girlfrineds, one of them loved me to fuck her as hard as possible, and another one loved me to do as gentle as possible.
It's also a way to flirt to ask such questions when you are having sex.
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