please teach me how.

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I am a female in a female relationship and I am always on the receiving end,but lately have been very curious to what it would taste like ,and would like to be able to pleasure my girlfriend as she does me.I love her very much and would do anything to bring a smile to her face and orgasms to her like she does to me.She makes me feel very good.
I would like to see if my tongue could make her quiver and explode like she does me.
Any advice how to go about this is greatly appreciated and how to do it .please explain in details for me.thank you.:devil:
 
Come on ,is there noone that knows how to please a woman orally?can you please show me ,or teach me how to be satisfying to my girlfriend.thanks
 
AmVERYcurious2 said:
I am a female in a female relationship and I am always on the receiving end,but lately have been very curious to what it would taste like ,and would like to be able to pleasure my girlfriend as she does me.I love her very much and would do anything to bring a smile to her face and orgasms to her like she does to me.She makes me feel very good.
I would like to see if my tongue could make her quiver and explode like she does me.
Any advice how to go about this is greatly appreciated and how to do it .please explain in details for me.thank you.:devil:
Evening there curious! First of all, there isn't just one technique to pleasing orally and as far as taste goes, it's kind of hard to explain, as everyone has a different "taste". But let me think a moment and see what I can come up with, perhaps someone else will give a little help here.
 
Let's see. First I can only tell you how I "perform" , for lack of a better word. I know that when I've given it's been mostly thru imagination and the knowledge of self, meaning, I know what gets me ...umm off. Taste isn't everything, but if you're concerned about not liking the taste, then for safety purposes as well as personal, pardon the expression, taste try using a dental dam, they come in several flavors and still allow your partner to feel what you feel when receiving. Just close your eyes and put that tongue where you know you like it. If you're partner is into it, you'll know it immediately by the body language and certain umm noises. But if you find that you don't enjoy giving as much as receiving then you should speak with your partner about it, don't do it out of obligation. If you're partner is more into giving, then she obviously orgasms with you by just thinking about what it does to you.
 
Really hoping someone will jump in and give a few tips, as I KNOW that men give orally as well as women. Come folks! Let's help this little lady out!
 
thank you very much but any help would be nice of you .I want to learn how to GIVE my girl oral pleasure too
 
MasterBaiter said:
Really hoping someone will jump in and give a few tips, as I KNOW that men give orally as well as women. Come folks! Let's help this little lady out!
I don't know about your enjoyment but a woman has pleasured me better than any man anyday.
 
AmVERYcurious2 said:
I don't know about your enjoyment but a woman has pleasured me better than any man anyday.
LOL Okay, you have me there! But I had to at least give SOME men credit, someone has to. LMFAO. :p
 
Okay, I can see there aren't any experienced lovers out there, so I'll give you one more "hand" lol, J/K. Think about what it is you enjoy when receiving oral, and then apply that to what you are doing when giving. Remember, if it feels right, then it must be, and if it doesn't feel right, she'll let you know, one way or another. But if the question is whether or not YOU will enjoy it, that one is solely up to you.
 
MasterBaiter said:
Let's see. First I can only tell you how I "perform" , for lack of a better word. I know that when I've given it's been mostly thru imagination and the knowledge of self, meaning, I know what gets me ...umm off. Taste isn't everything, but if you're concerned about not liking the taste, then for safety purposes as well as personal, pardon the expression, taste try using a dental dam, they come in several flavors and still allow your partner to feel what you feel when receiving. Just close your eyes and put that tongue where you know you like it. If you're partner is into it, you'll know it immediately by the body language and certain umm noises. But if you find that you don't enjoy giving as much as receiving then you should speak with your partner about it, don't do it out of obligation. If you're partner is more into giving, then she obviously orgasms with you by just thinking about what it does to you.
I am sure she would like it ,she tells me alot I do not have to do it.ONLY if I am comfortable if I want too.It has NEVER been a concern or a desire but I am craving it now.I also want to see how I will make her squirm,since she said she very seldom has it done to her ever in any past relationships,so I am wanting and willing to do this to her .Is that funny or strange?:devil:
 
MasterBaiter said:
Obviously she's occupied by women (wondering what kind of question that is)


Peachy is asking because it says to in AmVERYcurious2's profile.


AmVERYcurious2, if you know what you like and what works for you, just do the same to your girlfriend. At least start there and see what type of reaction you get. You are female, she's female, you both know the anatomy.

I do find it curious that you are in a relationship with another female, yet you are always receiving. How many relationships does that work in? Also, your attempts at having people go into great detail causes me to question. If you are a woman and you know what feels good to you, and you are in a relationship, why would you need a "blow by blow"? Don't mean to cast doubt, but I sincerely hope you are not a man asking women to write about a woman eating pussy just to get you off. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but this just seems curious to me.
 
MasterBaiter said:
Obviously she's occupied by women (wondering what kind of question that is)


:rolleyes:

Am I the only one who bothers to read what people have bothered to write about themselves? Well, me and Chele anyway?
 
SexyChele said:
Don't mean to cast doubt, but I sincerely hope you are not a man asking women to write about a woman eating pussy just to get you off.

That was my first thought as well LOL. Well, actually second; the first was "underage".
 
AmVERYcurious2 said:
I am sure she would like it ,she tells me alot I do not have to do it.ONLY if I am comfortable if I want too.It has NEVER been a concern or a desire but I am craving it now.I also want to see how I will make her squirm,since she said she very seldom has it done to her ever in any past relationships,so I am wanting and willing to do this to her .Is that funny or strange?:devil:
Not funny or strange at all to want to please your partner. I believe most of us, male or female would try anything at least once in order to give our partner the pleasure they bestow upon us. And if we like it, we'll definitely do it more than once. :p lol. Just go with the flow (I know, bad pun). The worst that can happen is that you don't like giving it. And as for your partner, well, if she hasn't pressed for you to do it, then she must be quite content with pleasing you. Oral is not for everyone, giving that is. So don't feel pressured to do something you aren't sure about. Just keep doing what you do and then maybe one night it'll just happen naturally without even thinking about it.
 
peachykeen said:
That was my first thought as well LOL. Well, actually second; the first was "underage".
It may be hard to believe in this day and age, but if you don't know about something called a stonebutch, then you may not know that they mostly give and not receive, this works quite well for MANY couples, some that have been truely lifetime partners. So it's not hard for ME to understand that maybe there is a woman or a few hundred out there that have not given oral but only received it. Just my opinion and knowledge at work.
 
MasterBaiter said:
It may be hard to believe in this day and age, but if you don't know about something called a stonebutch, then you may not know that they mostly give and not receive, this works quite well for MANY couples, some that have been truely lifetime partners. So it's not hard for ME to understand that maybe there is a woman or a few hundred out there that have not given oral but only received it. Just my opinion and knowledge at work.
While I've long been aware of stone butches (did you know there are stone femmes too?) I don't think that's the case here. I got the "underage" vibe too, FWIW.

More kickass butch-femme resources at http://www.butch-femme.com/
 
SexyChele said:
Peachy is asking because it says to in AmVERYcurious2's profile.


AmVERYcurious2, if you know what you like and what works for you, just do the same to your girlfriend. At least start there and see what type of reaction you get. You are female, she's female, you both know the anatomy.

I do find it curious that you are in a relationship with another female, yet you are always receiving. How many relationships does that work in? Also, your attempts at having people go into great detail causes me to question. If you are a woman and you know what feels good to you, and you are in a relationship, why would you need a "blow by blow"? Don't mean to cast doubt, but I sincerely hope you are not a man asking women to write about a woman eating pussy just to get you off. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but this just seems curious to me.
lol,I am a female definitely.and I really don't personally care what you think ,I am just curious how to perform it on her.
 
peachykeen said:
That was my first thought as well LOL. Well, actually second; the first was "underage".
omfg I am in my late 30's,I rather not disclose my occupation,that is not why I posted.sheesh!
 
MasterBaiter said:
It may be hard to believe in this day and age, but if you don't know about something called a stonebutch, then you may not know that they mostly give and not receive, this works quite well for MANY couples, some that have been truely lifetime partners. So it's not hard for ME to understand that maybe there is a woman or a few hundred out there that have not given oral but only received it. Just my opinion and knowledge at work.
thank you for understanding my question and you are very lucky woman to know a very special woman like prettygreeneyes.She pmed me and invited me to her femme 2 femme thread.So I am sure we will meet again.thanks again for the good advice!:)
 
Etoile said:
While I've long been aware of stone butches (did you know there are stone femmes too?) I don't think that's the case here. I got the "underage" vibe too, FWIW.

More kickass butch-femme resources at http://www.butch-femme.com/
(koff) Seeing as I am a stonebutch, I am VERY aware of stonefemmes. Which brings me to my point, obviously there ARE those that have not given nor received oral. And as for the "underage" vibe, you might want to remove the foot in your mouth, ie: (did you know there are stone femmes too? Have a nice evening.... buh bye.
 
I am no rocket scientist....but when I am licking my woman, I am ONLY thinking of her pleasure...trying to envision what touch at what place would I imagine would cause the greatest pleasure at that time.

If I am licking her clit, I try to think if I were her, would I still like to be licked there, or might it be starting to get too sensitive and I need to move to a new spot. I watch her reactions, her breathing and stomach motions....and decide if I have been successful in moving to a new place.

I take my time and try to not worry about WHEN she will cum...only think about THAT I will make her cum...eventually....and keep varying the techniques I am using...from soft licks and strokes to more forceful and urgent at times...barely touching to grinding......circular motions to straight-forward lapping.....light touches on the top of her clit to burying my tongue as deep into her opening as I can reach....

If you soely concern yourself with thinking about what might please her at that instant, you will be great at it. Asking along the way if she likes anything special will help too.....

Good luck!
 
jeff_is_smiling said:
I am no rocket scientist....but when I am licking my woman, I am ONLY thinking of her pleasure...trying to envision what touch at what place would I imagine would cause the greatest pleasure at that time.

If I am licking her clit, I try to think if I were her, would I still like to be licked there, or might it be starting to get too sensitive and I need to move to a new spot. I watch her reactions, her breathing and stomach motions....and decide if I have been successful in moving to a new place.

I take my time and try to not worry about WHEN she will cum...only think about THAT I will make her cum...eventually....and keep varying the techniques I am using...from soft licks and strokes to more forceful and urgent at times...barely touching to grinding......circular motions to straight-forward lapping.....light touches on the top of her clit to burying my tongue as deep into her opening as I can reach....

If you soely concern yourself with thinking about what might please her at that instant, you will be great at it. Asking along the way if she likes anything special will help too.....

Good luck!
I knew there was someone with brains out there. Thank you... very well put.
 
jeff_is_smiling said:
I am no rocket scientist....but when I am licking my woman, I am ONLY thinking of her pleasure...trying to envision what touch at what place would I imagine would cause the greatest pleasure at that time.

If I am licking her clit, I try to think if I were her, would I still like to be licked there, or might it be starting to get too sensitive and I need to move to a new spot. I watch her reactions, her breathing and stomach motions....and decide if I have been successful in moving to a new place.

I take my time and try to not worry about WHEN she will cum...only think about THAT I will make her cum...eventually....and keep varying the techniques I am using...from soft licks and strokes to more forceful and urgent at times...barely touching to grinding......circular motions to straight-forward lapping.....light touches on the top of her clit to burying my tongue as deep into her opening as I can reach....

If you soely concern yourself with thinking about what might please her at that instant, you will be great at it. Asking along the way if she likes anything special will help too.....

Good luck!
that is very true jeff:D
that is well put...lol
butt there is ppl that are either bisexual or les or curious that do NOT give,ummmmm,don't let me go there.....butt anyways ummmmm how is everyone tonight???like I said you can cum to my thread and you will definitely not be pre-judged there...hope to see ya there later....ciao
hey baby<masterbaiter>
hey Curious!!And ya know what as long as you are aged appropriate as I know you are as you pmed me and told me your age,I do not give a shyt where you work and if you work,damn ..why do ppl act so messed up when ppl ask for advice ?and ppl start prejudging ...this is funny as hell.
lmaooooooooooo.
you go jeff!!!:D
 
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