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Today I have had my heart practically ripped from my chest. *tears up*

A guy I've know since I was 12 years old, and I were going to be together a month here tomorrow.

We started "playing" 6 months ago not long after he got engaged, which anytime we talked he sobbed about her being a bitch and how she didn't love him. I never told him to leave always said he had to make that choice. Well finally he left her and he came to me apologizing for hurting me because we hook up on the DL on December 26th, 27th, and 31st of 2013. I got pregnant on my birth control, tried to get a hold of him he blocked me from calling and facebook. So I was stressed what do I do kinda thing I'm grown but how do you tell your family you are having an engaged man's baby. From stress, starving me self (I cant eat when I get upset), and other things I miscarriage.

He messaged me and apologized it was hard to stay mad I loved him and have loved him since I was younger. So I forgave him and we talked non-stop and made plans for Valentines Day. Well 4 days ago, He stopped responding thanks to a good friend she told me his faceboook said they were back together. He didn't have the balls to tell me or nothing and he blocked me on facebook so I couldn't even know anything. I feel so hurt.

Did I deserve this? Someone help me understand why im going threw this?
 
Nobody deserves that. I am sorry to hear what you went through. Think enough of yourself to know that you deserve better. :rose:
 
Some men are not good at the whole relationship and communication thing.


Just move on and find yourself some who is. srsly. Do not waste time on someone who treats you like shit.
 
Today I have had my heart practically ripped from my chest. *tears up*

A guy I've know since I was 12 years old, and I were going to be together a month here tomorrow.

We started "playing" 6 months ago not long after he got engaged, which anytime we talked he sobbed about her being a bitch and how she didn't love him. I never told him to leave always said he had to make that choice. Well finally he left her and he came to me apologizing for hurting me because we hook up on the DL on December 26th, 27th, and 31st of 2013. I got pregnant on my birth control, tried to get a hold of him he blocked me from calling and facebook. So I was stressed what do I do kinda thing I'm grown but how do you tell your family you are having an engaged man's baby. From stress, starving me self (I cant eat when I get upset), and other things I miscarriage.

He messaged me and apologized it was hard to stay mad I loved him and have loved him since I was younger. So I forgave him and we talked non-stop and made plans for Valentines Day. Well 4 days ago, He stopped responding thanks to a good friend she told me his faceboook said they were back together. He didn't have the balls to tell me or nothing and he blocked me on facebook so I couldn't even know anything. I feel so hurt.

Did I deserve this? Someone help me understand why im going threw this?

I couldn't follow that. What now?
 
Today I have had my heart practically ripped from my chest. *tears up*

A guy I've know since I was 12 years old, and I were going to be together a month here tomorrow.

We started "playing" 6 months ago not long after he got engaged, which anytime we talked he sobbed about her being a bitch and how she didn't love him. I never told him to leave always said he had to make that choice. Well finally he left her and he came to me apologizing for hurting me because we hook up on the DL on December 26th, 27th, and 31st of 2013. I got pregnant on my birth control, tried to get a hold of him he blocked me from calling and facebook. So I was stressed what do I do kinda thing I'm grown but how do you tell your family you are having an engaged man's baby. From stress, starving me self (I cant eat when I get upset), and other things I miscarriage.

He messaged me and apologized it was hard to stay mad I loved him and have loved him since I was younger. So I forgave him and we talked non-stop and made plans for Valentines Day. Well 4 days ago, He stopped responding thanks to a good friend she told me his faceboook said they were back together. He didn't have the balls to tell me or nothing and he blocked me on facebook so I couldn't even know anything. I feel so hurt.

Did I deserve this? Someone help me understand why im going threw this?

...........
 
Some men are not good at the whole relationship and communication thing.


Just move on and find yourself some who is. srsly. Do not waste time on someone who treats you like shit.

You're giving dating advice? srsly?
 
WOW.

Where to start...

No... I'm not going to do it.

You need to take apart that speech line by line and Think about what you wrote, why you did that and get some fucking counseling!

And study up on basic relationship rules and boundaries!

Trust me you will be doing you and the kid a favor.
 
WOW.

Where to start...

No... I'm not going to do it.

You need to take apart that speech line by line and Think about what you wrote, why you did that and get some fucking counseling!

And study up on basic relationship rules and boundaries!

Trust me you will be doing you and the kid a favor.

It miscarried.
 
You're giving dating advice? srsly?

You know what, you can just fuck off, you holier than thou cunt. I have never, ever hated anyone on this board until now but you have just done it, you fucking stupid bitch.
 
Thanks for the empathy and some yelled advice.... it all helps in someway.
But there no need to fight please.
 
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Today I have had my heart practically ripped from my chest. *tears up*

A guy I've know since I was 12 years old, and I were going to be together a month here tomorrow.

We started "playing" 6 months ago not long after he got engaged, which anytime we talked he sobbed about her being a bitch and how she didn't love him. I never told him to leave always said he had to make that choice. Well finally he left her and he came to me apologizing for hurting me because we hook up on the DL on December 26th, 27th, and 31st of 2013. I got pregnant on my birth control, tried to get a hold of him he blocked me from calling and facebook. So I was stressed what do I do kinda thing I'm grown but how do you tell your family you are having an engaged man's baby. From stress, starving me self (I cant eat when I get upset), and other things I miscarriage.

He messaged me and apologized it was hard to stay mad I loved him and have loved him since I was younger. So I forgave him and we talked non-stop and made plans for Valentines Day. Well 4 days ago, He stopped responding thanks to a good friend she told me his faceboook said they were back together. He didn't have the balls to tell me or nothing and he blocked me on facebook so I couldn't even know anything. I feel so hurt.

Did I deserve this? Someone help me understand why im going threw this?


Sorry to hear all dat...

...have you thought about joining the circus?
 
You know what, you can just fuck off, you holier than thou cunt. I have never, ever hated anyone on this board until now but you have just done it, you fucking stupid bitch.

You have to admit I sorta have a point...
 
Today I have had my heart practically ripped from my chest. *tears up*

A guy I've know since I was 12 years old, and I were going to be together a month here tomorrow.

We started "playing" 6 months ago not long after he got engaged, which anytime we talked he sobbed about her being a bitch and how she didn't love him. I never told him to leave always said he had to make that choice. Well finally he left her and he came to me apologizing for hurting me because we hook up on the DL on December 26th, 27th, and 31st of 2013. I got pregnant on my birth control, tried to get a hold of him he blocked me from calling and facebook. So I was stressed what do I do kinda thing I'm grown but how do you tell your family you are having an engaged man's baby. From stress, starving me self (I cant eat when I get upset), and other things I miscarriage.

He messaged me and apologized it was hard to stay mad I loved him and have loved him since I was younger. So I forgave him and we talked non-stop and made plans for Valentines Day. Well 4 days ago, He stopped responding thanks to a good friend she told me his faceboook said they were back together. He didn't have the balls to tell me or nothing and he blocked me on facebook so I couldn't even know anything. I feel so hurt.

Did I deserve this? Someone help me understand why im going threw this?

I think the same thing happened to Sylvia Plath. That ended badly too.:D
 
Today I have had my heart practically ripped from my chest. *tears up*

A guy I've know since I was 12 years old, and I were going to be together a month here tomorrow.

We started "playing" 6 months ago not long after he got engaged, which anytime we talked he sobbed about her being a bitch and how she didn't love him. I never told him to leave always said he had to make that choice. Well finally he left her and he came to me apologizing for hurting me because we hook up on the DL on December 26th, 27th, and 31st of 2013. I got pregnant on my birth control, tried to get a hold of him he blocked me from calling and facebook. So I was stressed what do I do kinda thing I'm grown but how do you tell your family you are having an engaged man's baby. From stress, starving me self (I cant eat when I get upset), and other things I miscarriage.

He messaged me and apologized it was hard to stay mad I loved him and have loved him since I was younger. So I forgave him and we talked non-stop and made plans for Valentines Day. Well 4 days ago, He stopped responding thanks to a good friend she told me his faceboook said they were back together. He didn't have the balls to tell me or nothing and he blocked me on facebook so I couldn't even know anything. I feel so hurt.

Did I deserve this? Someone help me understand why im going threw this?

You may not have "deserved" it, but the reason you're going through it is because you left yourself open to it. Shit sometimes happens despite taking the best of precautions.

But there is noting precautionary about "playing" with someone who is stupid enough to get engaged to a "bitch" who "doesn't love" him. Anyone whose judgment is that impaired doesn't sound like the best pick out of the produce bin.

The fact that you asked the rhetorical question about how you would tell your family you were pregnant with someone's baby who was engaged to someone else (the father, not the baby) at least demonstrates you realized there was no good answer to the question. Obviously, you knew better.

Next time, BE better.
 
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I am a 20 yr old babygirl, looking for a Dadda.

Somethings you should know:
I age regress.
I my little is open to sexual things but expect a bunch of questions.
I want a Dadda to help protect me, so only he can destroy my sweet innocence.

If you seem remotely interested message me

you don't sound very innocent to me.

you were fucking with an engaged man. yes, you do in fact deserve it.

he's a scumbag, and so are you.

and this post - were you searching for your new "dadda" (vomit) before or after your true love ran from your skanky ass?
 
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