Play Rape: Amusing Oxymoron, or Huge Turn on?

[DVS]

*Passes out*
DVS will you be my friend?

Well, if you liked what you quoted of my post, I think we are already friends. Now, don't pass out again, or I might take advantage of you and tie you up. And when you come to...well...you'll be mine.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

How about a little game of Make Me!

..if you dare

How did I miss this? We must have grown up in the same neighborhood...we like the same games.

you know, giggling is one thing, but if she doesn't know it's me and knees me in the groin, I'm gonna get pissed. That will also quickly stop any sexual urges I have at the moment, while I recover. I'll also be counting to make sure I still have two.

Maybe play rape should be called something else. the BDSM community should get their shit together and decide on what it's going to be called. Rape is a bad word. I do understand the enjoyment of play rape, but anyone who's been raped won't ever see those two words together, I don't think.

Now, I am not opposed to something like this, if a woman friend wants me to do it. And, if she starts giggiling, I will just probablly gag her. Maybe shove her panties into her mouth and duct tape them in. That will stop any more giggiling, I'd think.

I like rough sex, but I don't like it so much I'm willing to get clawed and scratched in the eyes and kneed and maybe accused of actual rape, if she doesn't know it's me. I know her knowing could lead to giggling, but if you have to NOT know what's going on, I don't think it's for me. I can play the part even if I know, so why can't she, too?

Maybe I have some theater blood in me or something, I don't know. Never much been into role play, but I'n not against it, if she wants to try. If she asks me for it, I would think that's kind of sexy.

I'm into rough and forced anal sex, so I think this could be right up my alley. And, if someone ever asks me to play rape her, you can be sure I'm gonna fuck her ass, whether she expects it or not. So, I'd say it would be a good thing that she knows it's me and we have kind of negociated it out, a little.

You know, I wouldn't stop with just a rape. I'd tie her up and do all sorts of things to her for my pleasure. Do you think that's allowed, in your defenition of play rape? I know it is, in mine.

 

[In detention]

Well, if you liked what you quoted of my post, I think we are already friends. Now, don't pass out again, or I might take advantage of you and tie you up. And when you come to...well...you'll be mine.

Promise?

 

[DVS]

Promise?

Well, it's either a promise or a threat...whichever makes you hotter.

 

[DVS]

Oooh, NOW you're just fucking with me

I think I could handle it

Anytime you're ready...

 

[FurryFury]

I've been thinking and there are more ways to rape then there are to fuck, mark my words.

I'm ready for either atm as long as it's "play" rape.

Fury

 

[raven2]

I've been thinking and there are more ways to rape then there are to fuck, mark my words.

I'm ready for either atm as long as it's "play" rape.

Fury

Oh boy! Lets go and play. I love to play. Now strip, before I rip your clothes off!

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Mock or "play" rape as a scene is a pretty common fantasy for both men and women. But I think most of us actually think of the scene being played out in terms of ravishment, not rape. Hot, nasty, wild monkey sex of the "bodice-ripper" variety.

The protestations and "no's" in a ravishment scene come, not because the "victim" doesn't want to have sex, but because they _do_ want to have sex. They want it BAD. They just have to get past the inhibitions of morals and guilt, so they have to be "forced" to surrender their sex. Since they are being "forced", they are not "responsible" and so they can be wanton little slatterns and enjoy it... *grins*

It's the old "your lips are saying no, no, no, but your eyes are saying yes, yes, yes!" routine.

Rape on the other hand is the body mind, heart, and spirit _all_ saying "no!" together, there is no desire for sex on the victim's part in the case of a real rape. Therein lies the difference between what we do in a mock rape and what happens in a real rape. In the mock rape we are releasing the actual desire of the "victim", freeing them to enjoy what they might otherwise feel shame or guilt over. In a real rape, what the victim desires has absolutely nothing to do with anything the rapist does.


Just my thoughts on it, anyway...

 

[raven2]

Mock or "play" rape as a scene is a pretty common fantasy for both men and women. But I think most of us actually think of the scene being played out in terms of ravishment, not rape. Hot, nasty, wild monkey sex of the "bodice-ripper" variety.

The protestations and "no's" in a ravishment scene come, not because the "victim" doesn't want to have sex, but because they _do_ want to have sex. They want it BAD. They just have to get past the inhibitions of morals and guilt, so they have to be "forced" to surrender their sex. Since they are being "forced", they are not "responsible" and so they can be wanton little slatterns and enjoy it... *grins*

It's the old "your lips are saying no, no, no, but your eyes are saying yes, yes, yes!" routine.

Rape on the other hand is the body mind, heart, and spirit _all_ saying "no!" together, there is no desire for sex on the victim's part in the case of a real rape. Therein lies the difference between what we do in a mock rape and what happens in a real rape. In the mock rape we are releasing the actual desire of the "victim", freeing them to enjoy what they might otherwise feel shame or guilt over. In a real rape, what the victim desires has absolutely nothing to do with anything the rapist does.


Just my thoughts on it, anyway...

I think that your comments are very perceptive. The difference between ravishment and rape is a differentiation that I had not thought about.

 

[FurryFury]

Oh boy! Lets go and play. I love to play. Now strip, before I rip your clothes off!

That would make it too easy Sugah. I think I will have to say no.

*runs*

Fury

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I think that your comments are very perceptive. The difference between ravishment and rape is a differentiation that I had not thought about.

i agree...

 

[Mr. Mann]

I think I like the ravishment term, too. It helps clear up confusion and differentiate it from actual rape while also serving as a better descriptor of the relevant issues.

:big thumbs up:

 

[raven2]

That would make it too easy Sugah. I think I will have to say no.

*runs*

Fury

You can't get away by running. *spreads wings and chases after*

 

[alice_underneath]

I think I like the ravishment term, too. It helps clear up confusion and differentiate it from actual rape while also serving as a better descriptor of the relevant issues.

:big thumbs up:

Thumbs up from me, too.

"Although the legal definition of rape varies from state to state, rape is generally defined as forced or nonconsensual sexual intercourse. Rape may be accomplished by fear, threats of harm, and/or actual physical force. Rape may also include situations in which penetration is accomplished when the victim is unable to give consent, or is prevented from resisting, due to being intoxicated, drugged, unconscious, or asleep."

http://www.911rape.org/


Play rape: amusing oxymoron?

An oxymoron, perhaps, but definitely not amusing. In my opinion, the phrase represents a gross distortion of a heinous act of violence.

From the link above, here are some statistics for the United States:

"In a study conducted by the Department of Justice and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, researchers interviewed 8,000 women and 8,000 men. Using a definition of rape that includes forced vaginal, oral, and anal intercourse, the survey found that 1 in 6 women had experienced an attempted rape or a completed rape.

In the Rape in America study, 60% of the women who reported being raped were under 18 years old:

29.3% were less than 11 years old
32.3% were between 11 and 17"


There is absolutely nothing safe, or sane, or consensual about rape.

A huge turn on?

Ravishment - absolutely. Rape - hell no.


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African proverb: “The ax forgets, the tree remembers.”

- Maya Angelou
Even the Stars Look Lonesome


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Alice

 

[FurryFury]

I think play rape can be fun and therapeutic for both parties if they are into this. I believe that society sets many of us up to fantasize about rape.

I think play rape can, for some, help with emotional trauma from real rape.

For others I believe it is simply a release to enjoy what they'd like to while still being a "good" girl.

I'm all for it but then y'all knew that.

Fury

 

[Evil_Geoff]

This thread is entirely to good to let it lay stagnant so long... sooooooo....

BUMP!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Somethign My little one & I are working towards...