Play piercing

[Etoile]

For a long time, my Daddy has wanted to pierce my nipples and attach bells so that I'll ring while being used that night. Once when Daddy tried to do it, I ran away and refused it. This past weekend, I was put in cuffs that were looped over a bar so I was unable to put my arms down...to my own dismay, I ended up wriggling out of the cuffs (something I wouldn't normally do) and running away again because I was terrified. We talked about it some, and I finally agreed to let Daddy pierce me (using a large regular needle, not a piercing needle) as long as I could lie freely on the bed rather than being tied up for it. We talked a lot about trust, because Daddy doesn't know how to pierce anything and has never done it before. Just when I'd steeled myself for it, Daddy decided not to do it after all, supposedly because I didn't "really" want to do it...I only wanted to prove my trust, I didn't want the piercing itself. I've been thinking about it, and I do want it, but I'm petrified from a safety standpoint. Can anyone share their experiences with play piercing of this kind? Thanks.

 

[SexyChele]

I've never been involved with play piercing, but I know of a couple people who have been. However, the ones doing the piercing were professionals. You know your partner better than anyone here does, but something about some one who has never pierced anything before suddenly having a go at my nipples would cause me to run. Yes, I understand wanting to show trust. Understand it very well. However, this is something can cause quite a bit of pain, not to mention possible infection and a whole host of other problems.

There are ways to pierce where the needle barely goes under the skin - less painful, temporary, and very little scarring. It might help if your partner and you studied up on the subject to gain trust and confidence. Maybe even talk to a professional piercer about what to look for, how to do it, etc. Don't know how willing a professional would be in sharing information (liability issues), but it might be worth a try.

Good luck! I've heard this kind of play, when done properly and safely, can be totally intense!

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

For a long time, my Daddy has wanted to pierce my nipples and attach bells so that I'll ring while being used that night. Once when Daddy tried to do it, I ran away and refused it. This past weekend, I was put in cuffs that were looped over a bar so I was unable to put my arms down...to my own dismay, I ended up wriggling out of the cuffs (something I wouldn't normally do) and running away again because I was terrified. We talked about it some, and I finally agreed to let Daddy pierce me (using a large regular needle, not a piercing needle) as long as I could lie freely on the bed rather than being tied up for it. We talked a lot about trust, because Daddy doesn't know how to pierce anything and has never done it before. Just when I'd steeled myself for it, Daddy decided not to do it after all, supposedly because I didn't "really" want to do it...I only wanted to prove my trust, I didn't want the piercing itself. I've been thinking about it, and I do want it, but I'm petrified from a safety standpoint. Can anyone share their experiences with play piercing of this kind? Thanks.

Hello Etoile,

I'm surprised you didn't post this question over on BDSM...I think it would be a GREAT addition to the library *grin* You know me, always looking for stuff to add to vary our content!! Back to the play piercing question....it's something i myself am interested in, which is why this caught my eye. Being an RN, the rather unsafe tone of your post in particular kind of worried me. Please don't let your Daddy pierce you with ANYTHING other than a STERILE medical needle, Etoile. All sorts of nasties live on our skin, even on the most CLEAN skin. Alcohol wipes before piercing are a must as well.

I found a wonderful thread for you to check out (ever the librarian that i am) this was started by Zaudika on 3-22-2003 and is called, aptly Play Piercing. She has some useful links inside the thread you might want to check out. My nipples have permanent piercings and i love them, and plan to gauge them up to heavier rings so that Sir can put weights on them. I love your Daddy's bell idea *grin*

Perhaps someday in the future we will cross into the realm of play piercing. It is something that i have definitely looked at with fascination/revulsion....which means it is a limit to push.

Good luck to you, Etoile.

~anelize

 

[catalina_francisco]

I gather from the content of your post that you are talking more about piercing of nipples than play piercing as such. Master and I have discussed and researched it for some months now as he wishes me to be pierced, but would love to increase the significance by doing it himself. We are still looking into it, and I do know inexperienced people who have piered nipples with no bad outcomes, but they used proper piercing needles.

From what we are finding, despite the popularity of pierced nipples etc., there are huge risks especially for the novice, including loss of sensation on a permanent basis. Though I think this is very likely the exception rather than the rule, I would encourage lots of research and preparation and talking to a lifestyle sensitive professional who may be willing to share knowledge and perhaps be on hand to supervise so to speak. From what I have read professionals can also advise on what guage to begin with and how to do it depending on the size and texture of the nipple. Oh, and we thought it would be so simple...LOL.

An added concern for me is my allergies. If I wear earrings other than those of good quality gold, I end up with weeping, swollen infections due to the allergy to the various products used for jewellry. I also have a friend who had her ears pierced professionally and ended up in hospital from the allergic reaction. She had never had any piercings and did not realise she had an allergy. She was told if it had been her tongue, the rapidity with which her body reacted would have choked her before her family could have reached the hospital.

So as much as it may seem I am trying to scare you, I am not as I also want the piercings (more in number than he wants me to have) and would like him to do it, even if under supervision. I just want to encourage research and informed submission as it would be a shame to risk permanent damage to such beautiful breasts when there are other ways. Take care and good luck.

Catalina

 

[incubus_dark]

Dear Etoile (& Etoile's Daddy),

Most people who play pierce use medical needles. They're finer gauge, sterile (disposeable and used only once) and of better steel. Of those I know who do this, very few would do a deeper piercing, such as a nipple, and those who would, always use the finest gauge they can manage. Play piercings are rarely able to be used as a permanent piercing due to the difference between normal needles and piercing needles (which are more like small fleams); they need to be left to heal up. If you want to use it as a permanent piercing, it needs to be done with a piercing needle and prefferably by an expert (even better if it's professionally since then you're also covered by their insurance).

Perhaps Daddy is worried about harming you but would still like to bell the kitten, in which case he could send you to the nice man to have your body harmed.

 

[MissTaken]

Hmmmm

There are some activities than can be learned by way of attending play parties, B and B's and that sort of thing. To see someone else do it first, might be helpful to daddy.

Or, if the goal is the bell, not the play, I agree...go to a professional, together and make it into an erotic and special time.

Many couples use piercing time and tattoos as sort of a ritual of bonding. Anything that is permanent, can be turned into a celebration of your relationship.

 

[Etoile]

Wow, thanks for the input, all. Of course this is a lot of what I've already considered, but it does help to hear it from outside sources. I may even print this thread to show Daddy, we'll see.

And personally, I also want a very slender-gauge ring in each nipple, but not done by Daddy! (Who knows this, by the way.)

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Wow, thanks for the input, all. Of course this is a lot of what I've already considered, but it does help to hear it from outside sources. I may even print this thread to show Daddy, we'll see.

And personally, I also want a very slender-gauge ring in each nipple, but not done by Daddy! (Who knows this, by the way.)

You're welcome Etoile. If i may add one more thing, keep in mind, while slender gauge rings are very delicate and beautiful to behold (14 g and down...), they are not really meant to be played with. At least that is what my piercers (who are certified by APP, the Association of Professional Piercers) told me. If pulled on, and/or twisted, the slender gauge can tear nipple tissue. This is why i originally had 12 gauge rings inserted, and why i am planning to go up to 10 gauge rings now that Sir is interested in hanging weights from them. I also HIGHLY recommend having them both done at once, using two piercers, especially after reading your story *smile*

I have posted before about my experience with my piercings, but briefly, they increased my sensation to an amazing degree. I wouldn't give them up for anything. One flick of a ring, or touch to a nipple and i am on the way to subspace.

Good luck Etoile...with whatever you decide to do!

~anelize

 

[Etoile]

You're welcome Etoile. If i may add one more thing, keep in mind, while slender gauge rings are very delicate and beautiful to behold (14 g and down...), they are not really meant to be played with. At least that is what my piercers (who are certified by APP, the Association of Professional Piercers) told me. If pulled on, and/or twisted, the slender gauge can tear nipple tissue. This is why i originally had 12 gauge rings inserted, and why i am planning to go up to 10 gauge rings now that Sir is interested in hanging weights from them. I also HIGHLY recommend having them both done at once, using two piercers, especially after reading your story *smile*

I have posted before about my experience with my piercings, but briefly, they increased my sensation to an amazing degree. I wouldn't give them up for anything. One flick of a ring, or touch to a nipple and i am on the way to subspace.

Good luck Etoile...with whatever you decide to do!

~anelize

Ooh, good point, Anelize, thank you! When you say both at once with two piercers - you mean both simultaneously? Or just both in one sitting? I'd been thinking to go with 14g for the beauty value, but maybe I'll see about getting 12g instead since I like having my tits pulled! (Daddy already has a tit ring, but forgets what gauge it is.)

 

[SilkVelvet]

Only have my ears pierced myself as like Catalina I have allergies.
A friend was looking to have a Prince Albert done though anf I found a website which might be useful

www.pierceit.co.uk

 

[serijules]

I have tweezer-style nipple clamps with a cluster of slave bells on each one and a chain connecting them. Much safer, they still hurt, and I ringle and jingle when told

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Ooh, good point, Anelize, thank you! When you say both at once with two piercers - you mean both simultaneously? Or just both in one sitting? I'd been thinking to go with 14g for the beauty value, but maybe I'll see about getting 12g instead since I like having my tits pulled! (Daddy already has a tit ring, but forgets what gauge it is.)

Yes, Etoile, I had mine done with two piercers, simultaneously. One lovely sharp quick pain, and ta-da, beautiful rings.

*grin*

~anelize

 

[lilredwolph]

for play we use the needles in the image i have attached

they are ½ inch 26 gauge medical

 

[pierced_boy]

Never use ordinary needles

Dear Etoile

ordinary needles are tapered and are unsuitable for piercing anything other than clothe etc. The point is made to penetrate and the shaft to widen the hole by tearing the material, like a wedge. The injury caused by using this type of needle is very nasty, tissue death etc Please don't go here!!!

Medical and piercing needles have a cutting action and have parrallel sides to the shaft. Daddy and you should visit a piercer and talk to them about what you want to do and get decent advice. Take a good look at the gear used and understand its purpose.

Play piercing is fun but it needs to be sterile etc just as everybody here has said. Play safe Etoile.

Consider getting your nipples done and wearing some steel (or gold) in your body for while. It brings some great benefits and if done right between you and Daddy can be a great bonding thing. Somebody suggested getting both done similtaniously. Sounds very intense. I suggest making two episodes out of it, double the fun, one commitment scene, one confirmation scene, and you have the anticipation twice which is a great part of the piercing experience.
Take a look at some great piercings at my local shop , just go to the galleries there http://www.primalurge.com.au

H

 

[Netzach]

I love to be pierced. It's still a scene I'll bottom in any day of the week. I've not been belled, but I have been laced up my back.

If someone, even the best Daddy ever, wanted to pierce and bell my nipples, I'd probably still slip out of the cuffs and run away screaming. I'm just like that. Where nipples are concerned. I even have a hard time piercing my boy's nipples, nipples are just a really high-stakes piercing. It's like starting out on your first hike by climbing Mt. Rainier by yourself. For the piercer and the piercee.

Have you ever been temp pierced before?

I know this kills the edge of this scene, I know it makes it less intense and less about trust, but if you have NOT been play pierced before, it will have *plenty* of intensity if you use surgical needles (or even veterinary hypos, which are sterile) and pierce the skin on your breasts. You will still ring out loud and clear. You could even do...upper arms...buttcheeks...a whole host of fun bodily parts.

Consider the fact that ANY piercing is intense and will release a huge flood of endorphins, more than even the most hardened masochist will anticipate. People who never giggle while being beaten become giggly, giddy and loony.

I don't giggle. Ever. Unless there's a 22 g. in my tittie.

 

[pierced_boy]

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