Planning sex causing performance anxiety?

[sporty]

Hey folks,

Ever plan a session , only to disappoint yourself?..

My boyfriend and I spent the day yesterday all morning / afternoon together in bed..... We decided about a week ago that he was going to cum in my mouth, in my pussy and in my ass. ( completing a trilogy of sorts )

I was really looking forward to it, but when it came down to it.......i freaked myself out thinking about the anal and just balked......We've only done anal one other time...and i enjoyed it, but at that point was practically begging for it after all the sex and anal foreplay we had be partcipating in that day.... But yesterday i just got anxious and didn't want him to touch me there.....

He of course , just moved on to love my pussy again and assured me that he didn't care if we did the ass thing or not......but i disappointed myself and kind of worried that he had his heart set on it.

But have you ever overthought sex ...? ? ?

I guess i need the spontenaiety to relax to do the anal thing.....no planning THAT again.. ........