Luna_Wolf72 said:on the rare occasion when I have chosen to engage in phone play I have found a few things that make it easier...
1) Don't try to set a mood. It'll happen naturally.
2) If you can't think of what to say..describe what you are doing to yourself or what you wish your s/o was doing to you.
3) Have fun. Being giggly isn't bad, it's natural shyness and sometimes you feel a bit silly. Just think of it as talking about what your next skin to skin will be like...then it will seem like you are planning for next time..
I think #3 will be the most helpful to me. It's easy for me to think in my mind what I want to say. I have a much harder time articulating it. If I can just ponder in my mind what I want to happen in person, where I feel much more comfortable, then maybe I can spit it out in a halfway coherent manner...lol
nh23 said:He does take the lead, it's just really hard for me to go with it. I do know a few of the slang words that he likes, but I do need to work on getting to know more of them, and the "hot-button's". Thank You very much!
BiBunny said:I hardly ever do phonesex. It's just not me. But when I did on rare occasions, I'd always request in advance to wear my ball gag. The other person thinks it's hot to hear my muffled noises, and I'm happy because I don't actually have to SAY anything.
DVS said:Every bit of phone sex is mental visualization. If you can visualize the two of you in your mind, then just expressing your desire is all that's left.
Visualize the two of you together, then...
Where are his hands? Where do you want them to be?
Find a way to tell him how it feels to have his hands caressing your body.
The two of you are both naked, standing together. He is behind you, encircling your body with his arms. His strong but sensitive touch, as his hands slowly slide down your body to your clit, then he slide one finger inside of you, and he rubs his palm hard against your clit at the same time.
He licks your neck and nibbles on your ear and you can feel his breath hot against your skin. Then he bites your shoulder while at the same time his fingers are still playing with your pussy and clit.
He slowly moves both hands up your body to your breasts and he cups them both in his strong arms and pinches both of your nipples at the same time. You shiver at what this does to you. You moan in pleasure as his hands hold you there, as he leans down and nibbles on your nipples...first one, then the other. They both immediately become hard and sensitive.
You walk together to the bed, where he instructs you to get on your knees. He sits down on the bed and takes your head in his hands, directing your mouth to his hard cock. Its purple velvet texture feels hot and sexy, as you accept it into your mouth.
You tease his shaft with your tongue, and listen to his moans of pleasure. You open your throat as he pushes your head down on it, and it causes a deep guttural groan from him. He shoves your head down hard, pleasuring himself with your hot mouth. You do your best to give him what he demands, because you want to please him.
Just think of the two of you together and how it would be. Think of how it would feel and express those feelings to him. Be as detailed as you can, because it's those little details that make the difference. If something would make you whimper, tell him so. If there is something he sometimes does that you fine very sexy, tell him so, and remember those details as to why you find it so sexy.
The idea is to paint an image in his mind, so he can visualize the same thing. It will seem like you are both there in the same room and your fingers will become his fingers and his hand will become your mouth, etc.
Details! Paint an image in his mind. Be expressive with your words. And, if he says something that would make you whimper in real life...visualize that in your own mind, and maybe you will whimper from just the thought of it happening.
At first it can be difficult, but you said he starts the conversation, so hopefully, his first words will help you get into the mood and that will also help you to find the words that satisfy him.
Oh, and if the phone line starts to smoke...you're on the right track.
Thank You so much! That was extremely helpful..and extremely hot.. 
Unfortunatly, I had to give up phone sex. The phone company charges a lot to replace those wires. The first few times, they didn't say anything. But after a while they got the idea and well, it ain't cheap!HornyBabe1965 said:DVS do you have a working phone?
ecstaticsub said:After 2.5 years of a LDR I have become quite comfortable with phone sex. Many times it starts out with me telling him what I had fantasied about earlier in the day while masturbating and then it goes on from there.
Other times we both read a story somewhere and then talk about it as a starting point.
Since we do get together in real life also sometimes we sort of relive a scene or a special evening over the phone. For about the past 18 months or so we have added camming to. Cams are wonderful not just for sex but also so we can actually see each other.
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*snicker*nh23 said:While I appreciate the offer..lol. Knowing me I would get so used to talking to you that I may say something to him about his pussy..
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BiBunny said:I hardly ever do phonesex. It's just not me. But when I did on rare occasions, I'd always request in advance to wear my ball gag. The other person thinks it's hot to hear my muffled noises, and I'm happy because I don't actually have to SAY anything.
