Some just sent me a PM and made reference to liking phone sex. Now, I'll admit that I've done phone sex on several occasions. However, my views on it are kinda mixed. While I do like it, I find it difficult to hold the phone as I'm pleasuring myself. Maybe I just need more practice. Practice makes perfect right?
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hnglkeahrse2002
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Two words...
Speakerphone.
Headset.
Speakerphone.
Headset.
Avery_Chisholm
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LOL good idea, personally it never did anything for me
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The wife and I engaged in phone sex for months before we got together for the first time. It was great, but I used a headset which gave two hands free.
The funny thing was after we had sex for real, phone sex wasn't fun anymore. It just wasn't as good as the real thing.
The funny thing was after we had sex for real, phone sex wasn't fun anymore. It just wasn't as good as the real thing.
As with cybering, I used to have fun with phone sex. It was difficult, though, I have to admit. But at least I had one hand free (to hold the vibe) instead of having to use both hands to type!
I sometimes feel the urge to engage in phone sex with my S/O, but the most I've gotten to was teasing him. He says he doesn't want to hear about what I want to do to him, he wants to do it.
*sigh*
Can't say that I blame him....
I sometimes feel the urge to engage in phone sex with my S/O, but the most I've gotten to was teasing him. He says he doesn't want to hear about what I want to do to him, he wants to do it.
*sigh*
Can't say that I blame him....
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my take on phone sex
using a headset is a plus, because you do need free hands, and dropping the phone just messes the moment up
it dosnt take the place of the real thing, but you can act out your fanasties that for whatever reason you are unable to do it in real life
but I have found that it depends on whose on the other end!
I have had many experinces, and some have been great and other lack luster, I have had it for free and have paid for it, often paying wasnt worth it, I did find a couple of ladies who diffintley made it worth it, the all time greatest was Veronica, she is no longer is the business, but that girl knew what I needed and knew how to take me to new heights. ( I do miss her so!)and taught me a few new tricks.
it does take a little getting used to , but headsets open up the whole experince to have hands free so you can be free to handle yourself on whatever spot it leads to
have fun
Phil N lusty
using a headset is a plus, because you do need free hands, and dropping the phone just messes the moment up
it dosnt take the place of the real thing, but you can act out your fanasties that for whatever reason you are unable to do it in real life
but I have found that it depends on whose on the other end!
I have had many experinces, and some have been great and other lack luster, I have had it for free and have paid for it, often paying wasnt worth it, I did find a couple of ladies who diffintley made it worth it, the all time greatest was Veronica, she is no longer is the business, but that girl knew what I needed and knew how to take me to new heights. ( I do miss her so!)and taught me a few new tricks.
it does take a little getting used to , but headsets open up the whole experince to have hands free so you can be free to handle yourself on whatever spot it leads to
have fun
Phil N lusty
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I've had it good, and I've had it bad... for me the most important part is what kind of thoughts my partner puts in my mind - how dirty they're willing to get...
and second most important is if I'm using toys on myself at the same time
and second most important is if I'm using toys on myself at the same time
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lilnymph28 said:I've had it good, and I've had it bad... for me the most important part is what kind of thoughts my partner puts in my mind - how dirty they're willing to get...
and second most important is if I'm using toys on myself at the same time
yes the thoughts are important, its critical that the communication is good enough to create a image in ones mind, one that portrays a situation that it borders reality! when what ever is happening becomes in the mind like it it is real then it is awesome and often orgasmic
PHil
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Never mind phone sex, get a web cam and everyone can frig off and watch!
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I think hot phone sex with someone you adore can be a blast. I always use a headset! 
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JustLiz said:
Yes, a larger phone is usually easier to cradle leaving both hands free. As for the experience in general, I'm a fan. In cases where you may meet someone online, it can provide for an exciting experience withoiut the "risk" (lots of folks playing around online without their s/o knowing) of meeting someone. I've also found in cases like these that a lot of women let go and explore parts of their sexual interests that they would otherwise have difficulty doing in real life. Much better than cyber since you get instant feedback and hey, voices can be a turn-on. ;-)
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I like phone sex alot. I love hearing my partner's voice change & soften, breath quicken, the sounds when he gets more and more excited, then when he comes, afterwards when his breathing slows down ect... I find webcams dull to some extent, as I am not really visual. Maybe if I could control the camera it would be better, to see my partner's eyes as he came would be nice.
I used my cell phone and a headset or a lap top and headset. I don't use toys, frequently don't use my hands, I can do it all in my mind. I do move a bit and ocassionally get the headset cord wrapped around my neck or hang up the phone by accident but it is okay.
I think I am lucky to have had great phone sex partners. For years I have had phone sex with my rl lovers when I was on the road for work, and during the last year, I have added a few cyber guys I have met on lit, and like online cyber, so far each one is a different experience.
How to do it? Just talk until you are comfortable and begin. You could start with what you are wearing, I find it most interesting on my end to be real, to do what I say I am doing. I like to be in my bed under my duvet surrounded by my pillows as I could be in rl sex.
I get distracted easily so I usually turn down the lights, try to cut down on outside stimulis until I get lost in the sound of my partner's voice.
I can talk to almost anyone on the phone, so I don't know how hard it would be for someone who can't, probably depends on your partner. I think making each other feel comfortable and safe is important, like any other sex.
The other thing I would say make sure you are getting off too, in general my cybers seem to wait for me to come first and often I come again as they do.
Noor
"I’ve been wondering what to wear
I love our noon rendezvous
I know you tell me you missed me
And I want to make love to you
Your words, they intoxicate me
I shiver each time that you speak
How much more can I endure, my love
The sound of your voice makes me weak
If my bodily functions operate
This way when you just call my name
I’d hate to see when we are finally
Playing that nasty love game"- Noon Rendezvous, Sheila E.
I used my cell phone and a headset or a lap top and headset. I don't use toys, frequently don't use my hands, I can do it all in my mind. I do move a bit and ocassionally get the headset cord wrapped around my neck or hang up the phone by accident but it is okay.
I think I am lucky to have had great phone sex partners. For years I have had phone sex with my rl lovers when I was on the road for work, and during the last year, I have added a few cyber guys I have met on lit, and like online cyber, so far each one is a different experience.
How to do it? Just talk until you are comfortable and begin. You could start with what you are wearing, I find it most interesting on my end to be real, to do what I say I am doing. I like to be in my bed under my duvet surrounded by my pillows as I could be in rl sex.
I get distracted easily so I usually turn down the lights, try to cut down on outside stimulis until I get lost in the sound of my partner's voice.
I can talk to almost anyone on the phone, so I don't know how hard it would be for someone who can't, probably depends on your partner. I think making each other feel comfortable and safe is important, like any other sex.
The other thing I would say make sure you are getting off too, in general my cybers seem to wait for me to come first and often I come again as they do.
Noor
"I’ve been wondering what to wear
I love our noon rendezvous
I know you tell me you missed me
And I want to make love to you
Your words, they intoxicate me
I shiver each time that you speak
How much more can I endure, my love
The sound of your voice makes me weak
If my bodily functions operate
This way when you just call my name
I’d hate to see when we are finally
Playing that nasty love game"- Noon Rendezvous, Sheila E.
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Derya
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yoohooo 2003 lots of technology available
ear piece and cell phone....great when you have a plan with lots of evening or unlimited minutes and free long distance....I use the earpiece and microphone all the time with my phone (not just for phone sex)
ear piece and cell phone....great when you have a plan with lots of evening or unlimited minutes and free long distance....I use the earpiece and microphone all the time with my phone (not just for phone sex)
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