Phone sex.

[Jada59]

I am talking to a Lit guy who says he thinks most women don't like phone sex. I've found some men don't either. Could be they have no privacy or are pretending to be someone that they're not and the voice would give them away. So I'm taking a poll. And feel free to expound on your opinion.

For me, real sex is best of course but phone would be the next best. Sexting can get tedious and if I'm sitting at my computer, I am sitting on my lady bits so unless I have a toy in me, my orgasms will have to be the kind that come from my brain. Little to no stimulation.

Thanks for participating!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I'm a huge fan. The trick is to find someone who has time, privacy, motivation, complementary schedules, and with whom you have terrific chemistry. Something of a challenge, in my experience.

But fuck yes, love it.

 

[ToddRocks]

I'm a huge fan. The trick is to find someone who has time, privacy, motivation, complementary schedules, and with whom you have terrific chemistry. Something of a challenge, in my experience.

But fuck yes, love it.

Chemistry is the key ingredient.. Which is also the most elusive..

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I LOVE phone sex. Unlike cyber,there is a real energy to it. Emotional, sexual energy. I get chills thinking about it, honestly.

 

[ToddRocks]

To me .. there is just something SOOO erotic about it.. having a normal conversation, that gradually turns sexual.. the change of each other's voice as they become more and more aroused by thoughts and descriptive dialogue .. until only the sounds of heavy breathing, moaning and grunting can be heard as both are lost in ecstasy..

 

[HBergeron]

Generally, I'm not into phone sex with somebody I most likely will never meet to fuck. There have been exceptions, but that's only been when I talk to somebody who's actually got some game, which is rare, or we have developed a very real and intimate friendship. Even then, once or twice and I'm bored with it. Not wanting to lead anybody on and then drop it, I just don't do it because it's not worth it. It just feels empty to me.

Same with sexting. But I do like creating a scenario in emails, where each one of us takes our story further with a few paragraphs, trading off how the action unfolds.

An SO who's out of town is a whole different thing. I've done phone sex in a long distance romance (L.A. to San Francisco) back when my phone bills would be $300 a month, and that was exciting because we'd had sex and would have it again - usually once a month I would fly up for a weekend, and a few times she came down here.

 

[Jada59]

Chemistry is the key ingredient.. Which is also the most elusive..

Yes. Sometimes I'll try it and think... Oh crap this is boring. For various reasons. Sometimes the guy expects me to behave exactly like a previous partner, is into things I'm not or worse still, silent. I don't even mind doing most of the talking, but if they aren't even making a sound and I have to say, "Did you cum?" That's not good.

And I have had a few guys who jack off quickly then hang up. That's not fun either.

 

[Jada59]

Generally, I'm not into phone sex with somebody I most likely will never meet to fuck. There have been exceptions, but that's only been when I talk to somebody who's actually got some game, which is rare, or we have developed a very real and intimate friendship. Even then, once or twice and I'm bored with it. Not wanting to lead anybody on and then drop it, I just don't do it because it's not worth it. It just feels empty to me.

Same with sexting. But I do like creating a scenario in emails, where each one of us takes our story further with a few paragraphs, trading off how the action unfolds.

An SO who's out of town is a whole different thing. I've done phone sex in a long distance romance (L.A. to San Francisco) back when my phone bills would be $300 a month, and that was exciting because we'd had sex and would have it again - usually once a month I would fly up for a weekend, and a few times she came down here.

That makes sense!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

... but if they aren't even making a sound and I have to say, "Did you cum?" That's not good.

Been there.

 

[WashWiscMan23]

i was always tempted to call the number on those late night commercials. Such a money grab though

 

[Jada59]

i was always tempted to call the number on those late night commercials. Such a money grab though

One of my guy friends used to do that. Then he said, "Wait! You'll do that for free?" Hehehe.

 

[Kelleebabes]

I am talking to a Lit guy who says he thinks most women don't like phone sex. I've found some men don't either. Could be they have no privacy or are pretending to be someone that they're not and the voice would give them away. So I'm taking a poll. And feel free to expound on your opinion.

For me, real sex is best of course but phone would be the next best. Sexting can get tedious and if I'm sitting at my computer, I am sitting on my lady bits so unless I have a toy in me, my orgasms will have to be the kind that come from my brain. Little to no stimulation.

Thanks for participating!

I agree wholeheartedly...

 

[ToddRocks]

I agree wholeheartedly...

Sooo… was that a "Yes" .. ?

j/k.. sortof...

 

[Jada59]

Bumping this for more answers.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Bumping this for more answers.

Call me. I’ll tell you everything that you want to know...

 

[Sanadack]

For me, real sex is best of course but phone would be the next best. Sexting can get tedious and if I'm sitting at my computer...

Sexting is tedious indeed. And come on, sound is another level of turn on you don't get while sexting. And being on the phone frees up at least one hand, perhaps two. So many ways to have a "call" today (Skype, Google, etc.).

And when someone is having an orgasm while sexting, everything stops. Usually, not with phone sex, unless the person on the other end can't hold up their end of the experience. With phone, you get those fantastic sounds, all the way through.

Agree with everyone else though, it's not automatic. It's all about chemistry and timing.

 

[lovetopleasewomen]

Nah, I've no interest in phone sex. Did try it a few times but...eh. I prefer to have a real woman in my arms.

Besides, why give the perverted Feds any cheap thrills.

 

[mnbreastluver]

I’ve found that my phone really isn’t into it and mostly wants to be left alone.

 

[Matt12191982]

I like it, but have been unsuccessful (on other sites), despite me putting my cell #, and even telling the women to use *67

 

[Sanadack]

Bump to see if we can get a few more women to take the poll (weighted toward men at the moment), or provide other info about preferences.

 

[NinjaVamp]

It's all about the person on the other end. The interaction is what makes it sexy. I LOVE phone sex, when it is the right person. Love hearing the voice and the grunts, so close to my ear. Can't beat the real thing of course but good for play.

 

[DeckardNYC]

I only had one partner where we had phone sex on an occasional basis, and that was because we were both married and it gave even more thrill to having an affair (i.e., having phone sex upstairs while the wife was downstairs). It was allot of fun.

 

[andycapp0566]

Only started to have phone sex recently and has been awesome. Agree on scheduling, time and chemistry are necessary factors. Wondering about a "quickie" phone session while at work or in a public place......heighten the stimulation maybe....

 

[PWilton]

Headset/Mic

It works better if you have a headset/mic; feels more intimate than putting the phone on speaker; she is right there in your head.

In any case, you need to have a hands-free environment.

 

[peekingone]

I did it many many years ago. At the time it was wicked arousing. Chemistry is most important then followed by being very detailed in the description of what you were doing and she was doing.