Philly Area Get Together

[liv2lik]

well, I dunno if showing up at the get together would have resolved any issues with your libido, but it may have provided a verbal outlet anyway. (how much help is that?)
I think drama can be expected to some degree. it is human nature to have expectations...and when they are not met....well..ya know...its just drama.

 

[Guest]

well, I dunno if showing up at the get together would have resolved any issues with your libido, but it may have provided a verbal outlet anyway. (how much help is that?)
I think drama can be expected to some degree. it is human nature to have expectations...and when they are not met....well..ya know...its just drama.

ok...well let's just say i would've given it a shot...ok? lol

i must not be human then...i don't do any of this with any expectations. that way...when something good happens, it's a nice surprise. But if something bad happens, it won't hurt me too bad. I pretty much just go with the flow...and flirt like crazy! lmao life's too short to be that serious all the time.

 

[liv2lik]

I agree with you on that. personally I even try not to create a mental image of posters (not always successful). I think it should be with no promise but to have a good time.

 

[Guest]

I agree with you on that. personally I even try not to create a mental image of posters (not always successful). I think it should be with no promise but to have a good time.

Bingo! I'm being very careful iwth the one i'm planning for So. Jersey...no expectation...no promises...just drink, dance, have fun. Of course, I DO like flirting, so I'm even trying to keep that in check....but I think I'm failing miserably. lol

 

[liv2lik]

I am realizing, after posting this reply, what your avatar looks like ...and wondering if it will infuence my interpretation of what you look like in person...

 

[liv2lik]

flirting is always ok with me...unfortunately I'm usually unaware that I'm doin it..(which is always) and I almost never recognise when its being done to me.... either way its all in good fun

 

[Guest]

I am realizing, after posting this reply, what your avatar looks like ...and wondering if it will infuence my interpretation of what you look like in person...

probably, since that is a piece of artwork that I found and not a real person. If I looked like that, i'd probably be off in hollywood somewhere, fucking Brad Pitt. (or i'd be a porn star! lmao)

but i see your point. a person can never match the expectations and imagination of another. And there lies the disappointment and drama.

 

[Guest]

flirting is always ok with me...unfortunately I'm usually unaware that I'm doin it..(which is always) and I almost never recognise when its being done to me.... either way its all in good fun

Ok...I promise that if I'm flirting with you...I'll make sure you know it! lmao

Men are usually that way. I hear it a lot. They don't notice flirting...they just do it...or respond to it...without thinking about it.

Some women (I said "SOME", ladies...no hate mail please!) flirt with calculation, knowing that the guy isn't even aware of it.

 

[voyergirl]

I agree with you on that. personally I even try not to create a mental image of posters (not always successful). I think it should be with no promise but to have a good time.

9 times out of 10 the images you conjure in your own mind are vastly different than reality anyway. people with lower expectations are rarely disappointed, lol.


i'm curious, i know had little to no contact on here prior to the party, i know we spoke very little at the gathering and i know i was a bit lit when we actually did speak but am i for the most part what you expected to see? just something i have been wondering...

 

[voyergirl]

And there lies the disappointment and drama.

no, the drama of that night had nothing to do with how people look but seeing someone you love (my best friend) get too involved with someone too quickly and seeing her shed tears over it are more the root of drama.


these parties cannot be set-ups or dates unless all the attendee's are 100% sure they are secure in what is happening or not happening.

 

[Ownzdj00]

Ive found that the more ppl know, the better of they are most of the time... with few exceptions...

 

[poolplyrndrunk]

i missed the get togther i didnt see the post till now..how was it? to tell the stories of wild sex lol

 

[voyergirl]

the stories of wild sex lol

i went to the wrong party...

 

[Guest]

i went to the wrong party...

and I missed the wrong party! lmao

 

[liv2lik]

9 times out of 10 the images you conjure in your own mind are vastly different than reality anyway. people with lower expectations are rarely disappointed, lol.


i'm curious, i know had little to no contact on here prior to the party, i know we spoke very little at the gathering and i know i was a bit lit when we actually did speak but am i for the most part what you expected to see? just something i have been wondering...

well, VG if your refering to my comic reference to firstorms avatar..no, I was not expecting to be greeted by a red haired vixed waiving her red panty-clad bum in my general direction....but , if you were so inclined, I would have applauded your efforts .
You did however give a good general description which made picking you guys out a snap. I would say that my expectations were pretty much right on the money.

 

[babydoll2u]

Bingo! I'm being very careful iwth the one i'm planning for So. Jersey...no expectation...no promises...just drink, dance, have fun. Of course, I DO like flirting, so I'm even trying to keep that in check....but I think I'm failing miserably. lol

same here with the one we're planning for Ohio next month. Only ours is for an entire weekend... Friday afternoon - Sunday noon.
Going to be a very good time... and I intend to flirt my ass off!

 

[babydoll2u]

Ok...I promise that if I'm flirting with you...I'll make sure you know it! lmao

LOL... same here...


*waves Hello to my neighbors to the east*

 

[seacoastcouple]

This is why we need to log on to this site more frequently......I'm sorry we missed this. It sounds like it was fun....

Happy Summer!

 

[voyergirl]

same here with the one we're planning for Ohio next month. Only ours is for an entire weekend... Friday afternoon - Sunday noon.
Going to be a very good time... and I intend to flirt my ass off!

a whole weekend............DAYUM!